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Why are gay guys so promiscuous?

I've never developed emotional feelings for a fuck buddy unless I was also socializing with him and getting to know him.

When all you do is meet, fuck and leave there isn't much room for emotional connection... even if you've fucked him 100 times.
 
Laufey said:
I've never developed emotional feelings for a fuck buddy unless I was also socializing with him and getting to know him.

When all you do is meet, fuck and leave there isn't much room for emotional connection... even if you've fucked him 100 times.
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How do you invite someone into your bed and into your body, kiss them, hug them, look into their eyes and not feel anything for them?
 
Fuck kisses and romantic kisses are very different from each other in my experience.

I don't cuddle with my fb's or look them much in the eyes when having sex.

It's just for the physical release nothing more.

I just don't see sex as such a big deal and I can easily separate it from romantic feelings. I'm still a very romantic person when I'm with someone I'm emotionally connected to but like I said before I can separate the two.

I have strong physical sexual urges and I'm not gonna be a nun just because I'm single.
 
No, you could be a priest. They have more sex.
 
sixthson said:
How do you invite someone into your bed and into your body, kiss them, hug them, look into their eyes and not feel anything for them?
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I think he just misspoke. You feel sympathy, synergy and a general positive vibe. But you don't feel anything romantic.

In other, very sad, deeply tragic news, my best fuckbuddy found a boyfriend and has become unavailable to me ;_;
 
sixthson said:
How do you invite someone into your bed and into your body, kiss them, hug them, look into their eyes and not feel anything for them?
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I too find it strange that people can have a deeper connection with the clerk at the grocery store than someone they swap orgasms with.
 
bankside said:
I too find it strange that people can have a deeper connection with the clerk at the grocery store than someone they swap orgasms with.
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Can they? Why is everything on one plane with you? There isn't just ONE scale of "connection" that everything is set on. Whatever connection I could possibly have with the clerk at the grocery store, it has nothing to do, and no base to compare with someone I swap orgasms with.
 
bankside said:
I too find it strange that people can have a deeper connection with the clerk at the grocery store than someone they swap orgasms with.
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I don't mind people being different in that way and not understanding... just as long as they don't preach to others about it somehow being wrong just because they feel different.
 
Deeper connection? Define that.

My favorite fuck buddy before I met my lover was a guy who was a contractor...I met him while he was building a luxury hotel. He flirted with me in front of all his guys and asked me what I was doing later. I told him I worked in a bar and had to open that day at 3:00. He walked in a 3:05 and I pulled his pants down over a bar stool at 3:06 and fucked him.

I love that he was honest and knew exactly what he wanted...and after maybe the 100th time we fucked and I was on my way out the door he asked me if I thought we should make it "official" and become lovers. We both looked at each other and shook our heads and in unison said...nah...at the same time.

Our connection was great...we were honest and we often spoke without saying a word. We understood each other's body, mind and soul in some ways alot deeper than alot of people who are married. We didn't have to pretend anything to each other in order to maintain the status quo.
 
TheSpectatingLoner said:
Not at all.

"Why buy the cow when you can already have the milk for free?" Describe that in your words. You seem to be comparing the milk for sex. So the question is why date a guy when he put out so easy?

I don't date men just to have sex with them. Never have, never will. A stronger connection is a must.



It's a purely physical relationship.
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That's a question you need to be asking yourself. I don't have to explain the simplicity of a casual relationship versus a committed relationship because those are pretty self-explanatory.

However, you ought to be asking yourself this: What and why do you get out of just seeking out of sleeping with a bunch of random dudes on a regular basis?
 
Laufey said:
To get sexual release while you are not in a relationship.

Sex wasn't "invented" for love.
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You could argue that sex was "invented" for procreation, at which point we're mostly all fucked (and not literally.)

I could also argue that one could achieve sexual release without the need for another person.
 
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