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Why Are Girls Into Me And Not Guys?

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Okay so i jst had a discussion last night with a girl who had a crush on me, telling her i cdnt return the feelings. I felt bad but im gay and not interested. Now today i run into this girl who is hitting on me and i told her i wasnt interested. Llike wat the hell!
Has any been in this situation. I never get ANY attention from guys, but girls seem to fall head over heels for me. Why is this happening and is there any way to make myself more attractive to guys instead???
 
For some reason girls often want what they cant have. Plenty of times have I heard girls say "Oh, damn, the hott ones are ALWAYS gay."
 
If you're young other guys your age may not yet be comfortable coming on to another guy.
 
topherlover555 said:
Okay so i jst had a discussion last night with a girl who had a crush on me, telling her i cdnt return the feelings. I felt bad but im gay and not interested. Now today i run into this girl who is hitting on me and i told her i wasnt interested. Llike wat the hell!
Has any been in this situation. I never get ANY attention from guys, but girls seem to fall head over heels for me. Why is this happening and is there any way to make myself more attractive to guys instead???
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umm i think you might be too good looking
and guys might be too shy to look at you or talk to you.

oh, is the profile your pic? yeah you are so good looking.
 
I have the same problem. The worst for me is in the airport waiting for a flight. Some women are very aggressive. After being hit on twice in an hour while waiting for a late flight I said to this woman who suggested we take advantage of the extra time, I am sure you are a very nice person but, if you have a brother in his early 20’s and sent him over I would be more interested.

The shock on her face was priceless.
 
OMG I thought i was the only one with this problem. I seem to be a chick magnate and a guy repellent.
 
Oh my god, story of my life! I have a feeling I'm gonna have to tell someone else soon that I'm not into them like they want...

I've sort of thought about it though. In my mind, I don't feel the need to impress girls or act any different around them, so basically I more or less act 100% as myself. I think maybe girls like this genuine disposition. I'm not trying to too my own horn and say I have a golden personality or anything, but I'm generally a nice guy, and maybe they just appreciate that I keep it real.

Around guys, I guess there is a pressure that isn't there with girls, so I'm pretty sure I don't act 100% myself when I try to impress someone.
 
just a guy said:
I have the same problem. The worst for me is in the airport waiting for a flight. Some women are very aggressive. After being hit on twice in an hour while waiting for a late flight I said to this woman who suggested we take advantage of the extra time, I am sure you are a very nice person but, if you have a brother in his early 20’s and sent him over I would be more interested.

The shock on her face was priceless.
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well whats the conversation or lack off after that ?
How did she do after that ?
 
For the same reason that a lot of people post on there that they only seem to fall for straight guys.
 
LonelyFace said:
Telstra's right; if I saw you in public, I'd be too intimidated by your hotness to talk to you. No joke.
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To some extent, lonelyface is right. A lot of people are put off by "attractiveness". They feel intimidated, especially for shy people. In a public place especially, it can be difficult for a guy to walk up to another one.

Even at this stage in my life, I have more "girl" friends than guy friends. I don't why but it is just that way.
 
I spent this one night at a party talking to this girl. We got along great, had a lot of the same interests, similar sense of humor, decided to go see a movie. Then my date arrived, kissed me on the cheek, then she called me an asshole and threw her beer at me.

I was just being nice, making a new friend; she was picking out china patterns and invitations.

Why are women attracted to gay men, well women with issues aside, it’s because we’re not staring at their tits, we’re listening to what they say, we’re not running a game, or sliming all over them, we take them more seriously than a lot of straight guys do, and pretty much present all those things they hate on straight guys for not doing, so it’s best I find to bring the gay up quickly when first meeting them.
 
maxpowr9 said:
To some extent, lonelyface is right. A lot of people are put off by "attractiveness". They feel intimidated, especially for shy people. In a public place especially, it can be difficult for a guy to walk up to another one.

Even at this stage in my life, I have more "girl" friends than guy friends. I don't why but it is just that way.
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Being a shy person, I couldn't agree more. And all of my friends- excluding ONE- are girls, which frustrates me to no end.
 
I know how you feel. I get along with all the girls well but I only have a handful of guy friends. I am intimidated by very good looking guys are guys who I find attractive just because I am not that good looking.
 
It happens to me all the time. It's because men and women look for different things in a partner. In general: women want someone who is smart and a good provider; men want someone who is really hot/beautiful.

We're really superficial pigs, gay or straight.
 
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