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Why are you single?

I'm single because I haven't found that guy who doesn't realize how great he is and thinks has nothing to offer. He's shy and doesn't go out or like large crowds but is a great catch. Oh and he has to like guys, particularly me.
 
1. Because this country is too small.
2. Because you can't be gay here.
3. Because the gays are hiding.
4. Because I like chubs, there aren't lots of them here.
5. Because I don't like perk dating. (this time, it's my fault)
 
I'm single because I want an actual relationship and most gays my age don't want that. I also won't put out right away. I can't attract anyone who I am attracted to which might be because I have too high of standards. I'm not very social and I don't know that many people much less gay ones. I also don't think I am very attractive either.
 
i'm not although i might as well be. when the 'til death do us part' terminates this relationship and if i'm the one left behind, it will be mr single (not necessarily wild party slut) justa guy with HIS space and a visitor mabe now and then. greaves is right in his summation above, bloody awfully right

oh, and whoever above said that youth is wasted ON the young got it almost correct...youth is wasted BY the young at least that was my experience
 
Im single bc all I meet is guys that just want sex. I mean sex is awesome! But I would rather share that with someone who is all mines and mines alone. Also, The quality of guys I attract is not good. So--I just don't lose the hope to maybe one day attract that great guy with goals, values and morals, etc.,
 
Because I'm too young NOT to be. Take adventage of the fact we're not like breeders that have to do all that generic shit by the time they're 30.
 
metta said:
GL....gotta say that I don't appreciate it when you lie. The thing is, you can't get away with it any more. You showed us the truth in the other picture thread. SEXY MAN....no more of that...ya hear!!!!


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i will when someone one explains to me why every time i ask someone out i get shot down and why i only attract freak shows and straight women! :mad:

oy! that sounded bitter. sorry. ;)

waitasecond... you think i'm sexy? you just made my day! (*8*) :kiss:
 
Because the man of my life for 33yrs. passed away 20 months, 3 weeks and 3 days ago. I'm hoping to join him soon. I am certain I will die of a broken heart.
 
I'm too shy around people I have a crush on or ask me out. I usually stutter and run to hide behind tree. !oops! lol I'm confident and talkative when I'm around friends and people in general...so it's kind of weird. I think I'm doomed to die lonely. haha
 
Let us see where do I start??
-Probably self esteem issues due to being chubby which may as well be a death sentence in the gay community.
-Was in denial until I was 38
-So because of reason above, I am now and old fart at 43 soon to be 44 sigh
-I tend to like younger guys. Really does not help my situation.
-I am a very good socializer but the moment I find a guy attractive I tend to turn into a blubbering idiot??? WTF is up with that????


There is probably more but I am just depressing myself lol.
 
I have had 3 Long term relationships, Between the ages of 20 and 40.
Each one was good, but I enjoy time to myself since I get little of it.
I have always been a bit of a loner and shy.
I am goodlooking, But I don't see it, When I see someone staring at me I check to see if my zipper is open.
I'm attracted to geeky, nerdy goodlooks- body hair a plus, But I intimadate the hell out of guys I'm attracted too.
Being single or a LTR, both have their pluses and minuses.
I do not mind the freedom of being single, But sometimes I miss poking a boyfriend in the arm as he pretends to be annoyed.
-- Just writing what comes to mind, Don't fault my writing skills.
P.S. 1st LTR, We are still very good friends after 25 years and I still get hit on by 20 y.o.'s
 
Ankh said:
The answer my friend, is blowing in the wind... the answer is blowing in the wind.

Actually not, it's on my blog.
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this same post could have gone in gmoney's fart thread. ;)
 
I think my standards are set too high. Not that I want the perfect guy, but I think for myself my standards might be too high. Sometimes I think too much of myself.
 
I think I am single because I avoid dating. It might be because dating is stressful and there are advantages to being single like doing what you want when you want.
 
chuck10x said:
I have had 3 Long term relationships, Between the ages of 20 and 40.
Each one was good, but I enjoy time to myself since I get little of it.
I have always been a bit of a loner and shy.
I am goodlooking, But I don't see it, When I see someone staring at me I check to see if my zipper is open.
I'm attracted to geeky, nerdy goodlooks- body hair a plus, But I intimadate the hell out of guys I'm attracted too.
Being single or a LTR, both have their pluses and minuses.
I do not mind the freedom of being single, But sometimes I miss poking a boyfriend in the arm as he pretends to be annoyed.
-- Just writing what comes to mind, Don't fault my writing skills.
P.S. 1st LTR, We are still very good friends after 25 years and I still get hit on by 20 y.o.'s
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That's just like me! Except for the 3 long term relationships....

and the good looking part. #-o
 
ShadowCancer said:
I lurk on this site a lot and I can tell there are an ass load of single guys on this site, and a lot of them seem like they shouldn't be single...... Soooo why?

Do you just choose to be single? Maybe your standards are too high and you haven't met that "dream" guy? Personality isn't enough?
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I chose to be single.
 
^ That is the reason. No one WANTS to be single, but you choose to be single because the people that like you, you do not like. There is always a number of people out there who think you are fucking hot and sexy as brad pitt. ALWAYS.
No matter who you are. You could be in a weelchair with no hair and SOMEONE would think you were hot and want to date you. But then it's up to you to take the next step, and love them back. I've met plenty of guys who liked me, but I wasnt into them, so I make myself single. :( ( even though Im dating this nice guy though but hes kind of shallow lol)
 
VenomGGXX said:
^ That is the reason. No one WANTS to be single, but you choose to be single because the people that like you, you do not like. There is always a number of people out there who think you are fucking hot and sexy as brad pitt. ALWAYS.
No matter who you are. You could be in a weelchair with no hair and SOMEONE would think you were hot and want to date you. But then it's up to you to take the next step, and love them back. I've met plenty of guys who liked me, but I wasnt into them, so I make myself single. :( ( even though Im dating this nice guy though but hes kind of shallow lol)
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So, what exactly is your point?

You're telling me that I don't want to be single?

I don't want to be you!

No offense!
 
My point is there is always someone that likes you, so you have no excuse to be single. It's your own insecurities that are making many gay men here single.
 
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