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Why did you join JUB?

I joined originally because it looked a good forum. And to make people laugh.
 
I posted this before in a similar thread, but I was close to killing myself. I looked for Gay forums.... not really sure why, I was going to down a bunch of pills the next day anyhow.... But JUB popped up and I started to read and understand that I'm not so alone and weird or sick at all. This forum and the support of a few people here are the reason I'm still alive today.

I think it was a last desperate attempt to reach out to SOMEONE that was like me, that could understand how isolated I felt, being "different".

I'm glad I found this place, came out at 45 shortly thereafter, had my first experience thanks to someone I met here as well. (!)

Sometimes I have low points, I don't find being Gay at 48 as exciting as I'd like it to be, but this place and the stories of others keep me sane.
 
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I joined jub because i want to respond to opinions,
seek advice, like to chat with like minded people ... etc and post rubbish stuff just for fun.
 
and I thought I could pretty the place up a little. It was sooooooo drab before I got here.....
 
So I could self-delete and return under a new name when things got antsy.

Also, tired of straight boredom.
 
I followed this cute guy's signature link on a gay site I was on and wound up in a far more interesting place.
 
I joined after finding a picture of Tom Welling and a discussion about him. I stayed and got addicted to JUB after finding this cutie named Midnightprism I liked flirting with ;)
 
For a little bit of everything, but foremost for the political stuff. Connected with lots of great people, and have even met some from meets over the past few years... politics certainly doesn't keep me here now. Miss some people too I lost touch with, mostly because of my own stupidity.
 
I've been on various other gay forums for a number of years...on one of those someone mentioned the JUB Forum last year and I decided to come check it out...
 
It was some celebrity shirtless pic brought me here. Then, I decided to post in Fun & Games and met really good people, they make me stay.
 
I came for the pictures of hot naked men, I stayed for the wins thread
 
That period of my life isn't too clear to me. I had recently come out and my mood was swinging all over the place. I think it was after stumbling on a gay bar (Embers) on my way to jump off a freeway overpass into traffic. I was looking for people to talk to, who wouldn't respond by telling me I was going to hell. I don't remember who aimed me at JUB, but I got a link that took me straight to the forums. I originally spent time lurking in the Coming Out forum; don't know how long. I wandered to Fun and Games, later.

Why I joined... I needed to talk rationally about what I'd finally realized about myself.

I did almost leave once -- when I found out there was porn.
 
I love this post. Great stuff!!

Blueboy82 said:
I join this site because I really want to have more friends and meet more people like me.

I don't really have many gay friends . I can't really talk or discuss about gay topics/stuffs to my straight friends. They won't be able to relate or understand how I feel.

So whenever I visit this forum here, I feel really happy because I can talk and discuss about anything under the sun. I feel like I can truly be myself.

JUB has become like a family to me.
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To see the [strike]dirty[/strike] sexy pictures people were posting of themselves.
 
That time I was depressed about my sexuality.
But the local forums are too big on porn and trivial stuff.
I had been lurking here for porn, never on the HT and serious stuff.
So I peeked, then I thought, "Why not?"

I never regret my decision.

Well, if I do, I'll just create drama, self-delete, and return again. Why not.
 
Kulindahr said:
That period of my life isn't too clear to me. I had recently come out and my mood was swinging all over the place. I think it was after stumbling on a gay bar (Embers) on my way to jump off a freeway overpass into traffic. I was looking for people to talk to, who wouldn't respond by telling me I was going to hell. I don't remember who aimed me at JUB, but I got a link that took me straight to the forums. I originally spent time lurking in the Coming Out forum; don't know how long. I wandered to Fun and Games, later.

Why I joined... I needed to talk rationally about what I'd finally realized about myself.

I did almost leave once -- when I found out there was porn.
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Now there's a twist. You came here for the message boards and then found out there was porn.

I'm glad you found us and I hope it helped. (*8*)
 
Some links on the internet brought me to this website, initially for porn of course.

Then I went on the forum and was amazed by the activity on it, especially the "Coming Out, Relationship and Bisex talk". I can read for hours in that section. Of course I wasn't trying to make myself feel better. I just wanted to understand more of what people have been through to get to where they are today, because every individual has been through something others haven't.

I come on here now and then to make myself feel less alone, then it became more frequent. My real life is boring and some of my gay friends can be really flakey.

Yes it is mostly about escape...
 
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