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Why do they have to be straight? (I NEED HELP PLZ)

Re: Why do they have to be straight? (I NEED HELP

Well like there is a group of us!
Like the 9 if not more of us, we're bassiclly a group and like when one of us hangs with one by the end of the day we are all hanging out! And he's there! Thats why I really can't avoid him! I am a social person and being alone is a no no for me!

Well yesterday I heard him say something I never though Id hear him say because he's like thugish!
Well we were talking about girl problems and at the end of the conversation he says "I love you" and I tell himk I love you too! and he's like haha "aight maine laterz" and I don't know what I was feeling but it was wired! Like good and bad! He calls me for advice and I love to help him!

Honestly I don't want to fuck the guy I want to be there for him as a friend but I can't help to like him and I know I have no chance and I don't want to give it a chance if I did cause we'd ruin what we got!
 
Re: Why do they have to be straight? (I NEED HELP

Jo-thin said:
:help: Well I have this friend...... and he's so cute and hot! I mean everything about him just so HOT! *|* He has nice blue eyes the gansta attitude and he's so funny!!!!

But here is the problem... he's straight!!!! I mean he gave me so many signs! Like he talks so sweet to me, he hugs me and tells me he misses me! So like 1 month ago I decide to come out to him! (He'd be the 1st person I came out to) I knew it was risky cause if he's a homophobe I'm screwed!!!! So I told him that I was bi and he totally accepts me! The problem is that he isn't gay/bi! wHY DO STRAIGHT GUYS TEND TO PLAY SO GAY!? It confuses me! :confused: They can grab my dick and still be a straight! Well I can't stop thinking about him I mean I really really really like him!

He recently went to some girls house and he showed me the pictures of them making out! I seriously felt sick and I got jealous when I saw that. He doesn't know I like him but he knows I'm gay/bi. He just supports me! For the last 2 weekends we have been spending the night at each others house but nothin has happened cause all he thinks about about is his new chick and again he isn't bi/gay!

You can 't force anyone to like you but is there a way for me not to like him?
I want to stop hanging out with him but I can't! I love seeing him! I even wanted to kill myself because I can't control my feelings and he's always on my mind N theres nothin I can do!! :cry:

WHAT DO I DO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! plz I really need help!!!!!!!!!
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Some of my straight friends call me like "butter-cup" etc. and they give me hugs and say they miss me as well. But sometimes straight guys are so secure of their sexuality that they don't have any problem doing that... believe me, it don't mean anything... even though we really wish it did :cry:
 
Re: Why do they have to be straight? (I NEED HELP

i know EXACTLY what you're going through.................not even kidding........i was so jealous when he got back with his ex who he told me that he would NEVER get back with!!!!!! but oh well......gotta just take it a day at a time..but, he knows that i am like in love with him and he's cool with it.......just sucks on my end because as much as i want to be with him, i can't......haha
 
Re: Why do they have to be straight? (I NEED HELP

I think this is someplace we've all been. And the advice of getting away for awhile doesn't help much. As soon as I see guys I've liked, I begin drifting back, seeing signs of their secret homosexuality (that don't exist), etc. It is hard, but you gotta keep them at a distance.

Also, I just wanted to say that like KnightRider, I found JNewYork's comments to be very insightful, and even helpful to me.
 
Re: Why do they have to be straight? (I NEED HELP

yeah guyz I guess I can deal with it for now!
I do thank every sinlge one of you guys whove helped!
I really needed it! Thats why I love JUB :)
If anything new I will tell!!!!

THANKS!
 
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