Why do we shield children from homosexuality?

[freefall]

From my experience, people apparently think homosexuality is contagious and virulent and that children is very susceptible to being gay if exposed on critical ages.

If this continues, scientists will come up with gay vaccine.

 

[MercuryJones]

IMO young children should be shielded from sexuality in general, until "The Talk" in 5th grade

Which, of course, has nothing to do with knowing there are gay people.

 

[lostnfound]

If this continues, scientists will come up with gay vaccine.

It's bound to happen. Parents can choose the gender of the baby and to some extent, can choose the level of intelligence of the baby.

 

[altlover85]

However, gay is a synonym for homosexual, which could lead to talk about sex. Again there is the act/person dichotomy that was already mentioned.

 

[coldsweat]

What in the hell is SLOPPYSECONDS saying? Anyone got a translator for that guy?

 

[altlover85]

Seconded, coldsweat!

 

[Ephemeral]

I've known people who've shielded their kids from gay people.

This one girl I knew was talking to her gay friend at a store. When her little nephew came around, she walked away with him because "she didn't want him to be exposed to him."

 

[boiseboy]

It's most likely ignorance. I think most people are uneducated with how homosexuality would be shown to their kids.
I think most are expecting "its okay to be gay you can get married to a man if you feel its right and blah blah blah" when i think it should be more of a "if you have feelings towards the same sex then its natural, a lot of people go through that phase during puberty, and if it doesn't go away then there's nothing wrong with that."


I mean, i think mainly people are thinking its going to be so prominent in education when it wouldnt be.

 

[rareboy]

What in the hell is SLOPPYSECONDS saying? Anyone got a translator for that guy?

Just put him on ignore.

It seems most everyone else has in order to have a reasonable discussion.

 

[SLOPPYSECONDS]

Just put him on ignore.

It seems most everyone else has in order to have a reasonable discussion.

You Sir ans ya comment is typicals of mind sets stand around many societys just sticks ya HOOKS in ans neva do nothin ever but stick ya hooks in


if adults no cans figure by time adult some thing worng in theirs heads or da culture what produce um


suggest lot cultures teach more thens da stupid read write ans add up

Pyramids is pointy Happy porn day!

 

[fetaby]

A big portion of society finds it impossible to separate the issue of homosexuality from the issue of gay sex. Let's face it...the REAL, fundamental reason why people have hated gays since the beginning of time is the ass thing. People HATE that so many gays take it up the ass. That's all they can think about when they think of homosexuals. So, until everyone can consider the homosexual PERSON instead of just the homosexual ACT, there will always be those among us who think children should be protected from us at all costs.

Or it could be that an entire group of people isn't motivated by the same things, find a wife, squirt out some babies, pay your tithes.

One small difference (the sex of our partners) leads to many big differences. If people fear change they're gonna hate differences.

Thankfully these "parents" can't shelter their children forever. It's the curse of parenthood, the children grow up.

 

[bluedragon4]

People who don't know gays think we are gonna rape their children and set them down a path of homosexuality. You ever see those old warning films about homosexuality? They maybe on youtube or I may even have saw them here. I think they are from the 50's or 60's and a guy is in a car following some boy and trying to get him with words. Trying to "turn" him. Those films were against regular gay men. When it should have been a warning against predators. I think people think we all moon over the younger versions of Zac Efrons and Taylor Lautners. They look more like men now but it wasn't long ago they looked like boys. When in fact most of us like big, hairy, butch MEN. Not these coming of age boys. I think a lot of people just don't understand and don't take the time to understand. And to be honest I hope they stay away from JUB cause some of you guys really fight what the legal age is and make arguments that if anyone has pubes it should be legal. It takes just those few individuals to sour our whole community. N.A.M.B.L.A has NO place in the gay community. Take that sick shit someplace else.

 

[Kyanimal]

Years ago, "My" Kev, and I, were presented with a "challenging" situation. Kev's youngest sister was divorced, and came to live with us "temporally". Not long after, due to other circumstances, her three sons also arrived. They were 3, 4, and 5.

"Temporary" turned into about 6yr. A very "tender" time for her three boys.

All that time, the guys knew about "My" Kev's, and I, relationship. There was nothing "hidden" from them. HOWEVER, we were always sensitive about how they might bond with us. And, we didn't want to have any "undue" influence with them. We knew they weren't going to be with us forever. We always kept in mind that, eventually, they were going to be leaving us. Accordingly, they didn't always understand those times we would suddenly become a bit "remote" with them.

We weren't trying to shield them from the "Gay thing". We were, however, trying to gently shield them from bonding with us too hard. It wasn't easy!

Eventually, yes, they, and their mom, did move away. What happened with them, in those following years, is not, unfortunately, a totally pretty story. However, we both believe that what we managed to provide them, during their very formative years, helped them emerge into the Great Guys they are Today!

Now, they are in their early twenties. One is married, two have kids. And, we're expecting another wedding this summer. All three have evolved into very sexy, "Hot", straight Guys. And, both of us are very proud of all three of them!

Did we "shield" them from "Gayness"? No! At least not entirely. Did we "hold back" during those intimate moments when they were "hormone intense" and looking for instances of "guy on guy" bonding? Yes! And, there were many times when, in their "innocence", all three of them managed to (unknowingly) break our hearts. So, Yes!, we were consciously "shielding" them.

Although we both knew, that "Gayness" was not something that could be "controlled", was not a Real choice, we still refrained from having a possible influence with these, at the time, very "vulnerable", easily influenced, guys.

So ... yeah! ... I guess we were "shielding" them to a certain extent.

Keep smilin'!!
Chaz

 

[Under-taken]

I also think it's important to consider scientifically, we're made to be Male + Female. In the sense, that through evolution or religon, to reproduce we have to have that Male + Female combination.

A world of homosexuality is fundamentally, the extinction of man kind.

 

[Ephemeral]

A world of homosexuality is fundamentally, the extinction of man kind.

No, it's not.

Through science, the human population could still survive if the world was 100% homosexual.

 

[Under-taken]

No, it's not.

Through science, the human population could still survive if the world was 100% homosexual.

I'm fully aware of using IVF to manipulate conception, but it's not that natural evolution, that's the manipulation of nature.

My point was on the basis that humanity = M + F when considered strictly naturally, if say any other animal in the world all became homosexual, they'd run exctinct and we're the same when you get right down to it.

 

[Ephemeral]

I'm fully aware of using IVF to manipulate conception, but it's not that natural evolution, that's the manipulation of nature.

My point was on the basis that humanity = M + F when considered strictly naturally, if say any other animal in the world all became homosexual, they'd run exctinct and we're the same when you get right down to it.

True, but since we're gifted with a higher intelligence than animals, we'd know to turn to technology if things come to the worse. And yes, it would be manipulating nature, but it'd be for the best.

Male and female is biologically correct for the survival of the human race, but that's not relevant to the original discussion.

 

[jamie_01930]

you already > We have talked about gay people and they understand that some men love men instead of women

so why > I will tell them about me being gay when I think they are ready for it ?

ans also how sure you think ya is GAY< when lot world still no sure what it is never mind straight or divorce marriage etc so on

point is little folk come before > this adults

adults create amazing things from nothing ans there future cast children inta da play what not a real ans no care what countrys slap up theirs hisotry as da Kool

if lot countrys wanna bury folk as ( this word Children of cultures so full of bedtime rubbish ) while other children not even 5 no more about life then half populations watch shit tv keep froms die bordom

Concept of da mummy daddy rountine rasise da family is bizarre ins countrys no can figure much with establish order no give shit about evens thier owns populations never minds other countrys

Asia<big bit land to americas Europe africa etc is save da adults from da kids till adults work out da future not keep live past what beyond stupid

what points is da cultures round world deal with basics what no own past or future or now

kids come before > adults what is children World turn Kids inta Helpless stupid adult children with toys what kill and language what barkin beyond stupids

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point is if folk got kids ans no sure go create ( Social community of share undertandins ans save da kids recyclin da same confuse rubbish ) ans tell ya media cut da shit

if adults no can figure anythin WHY THEY BURDEN KIDS WITH IT ?

kids wayyyyy ahead ons da curveeeeeeeee but so many cultures hammer um inta ground ans produce IDIOT ADULTS

United nations wanna start playschool for all countrys ans teach da males ABC all ova again ans females ta get some BALLS an stop with da pretense

for folk workin on this round world no give up!

THIS IS EXTREMLY HARD TO UNDERSTAND WHEN U MIGHT B HI

 

[Ephemeral]

People, please stop quoting SloppySeconds. Just put him on Ignore.

 

[Tadaa]

IMO, children shouldn't be exposed to sexuality at all.