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Why do you think people cheat on their partners?

I'm going to be honest, my partner and i have had sex with other people several times over our 3 year relationship.
Not because we're not happy, and certainly not because we don't want to spend the rest of my life with each-other -
but because i feel within myself that i want to experience other people as much as i can in my youth.

I love my partner with all my heart, and we will be together for a long time, but I can certainly understand the
frustration among people who find themselves in relationships having previously had little or no experience with other guys.

I also think there's a difference between having casual sex with other people, and having a prolonged affair with one particular person.
If you're having an affair then there is a real problem in the roots of your relationship, but if you cheat and have casual sex with other people from time to time, i think it's more of an instinct rather than premeditated decision.
 
People cheat because they are not happy or fulfilled in their relationship.

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lucky7 said:
Maybe you can help me out.

What's the difference between casual sex outside of a relationship and a prolonged affair with one person that is purely sexual?

In both cases it's just sex.
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But a prolonged sexual relationship is a deeper bond.
 
lucky7 said:
Maybe you can help me out.

What's the difference between casual sex outside of a relationship and a prolonged affair with one person that is purely sexual?

In both cases it's just sex.
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Well i think the difference is the fact that one is outside a relationship and the other is'nt
If you mean, though, what's the difference between casual sex whilst in a relationship and a meaningless affair, then i suppose the answer is there isnt one.

I was talking in terms of an actual love affair, but if you're having sex with someone else whilst in a relationship, and they do not know/ give concent its all the same to me :)
 
Lack of sex at home
Someone is giving up their Ass/Pussy up like Coupons at a grocery store
Bored having sex at home
Other person probably does more sexual things then the person partner


Its funny i was visiting a old friend that work at the local hotel and a 2 straight co workers got a room there. They saw me and look like a Deer in headlights The girl has a boyfriend and the guy married his High School Sweet heart. Pretty sad
 
I think it all comes down to not being honest with your partner and talking things out, if you can't get the things you need from the person your with then it's time to move on instead of cheating, which pretty much means you're unhappy with the situation.
 
Cheating is just never acceptable an IS the cause most relationships fail. I think even more than money issues. JUST DON'T DO IT!
 
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