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Why doesn't he want to meet any of my ex's?

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My boyfriend keeps insisting on avoiding my ex's. I remain friends with them.

I've asked my bf why and he won't answer.

Any idea why he avoids meeting my ex's?
 
Since you know him, what is your guess?
 
He assumes your ex is more attractive than himself. He feels threatened that you might go back to your ex and dump him.

You got your ex when you were younger— therefore he has to more attractive.

(I hate my ex's new partner)
 
No answer anyone on here would suffice since no one knows your bf. If he doesnt want to answer nothing much you can do about it.

If he doesnt want to see them then dont force or push the issue.
 

That's easier said than done.

The current partner could also feel threatened because the ex has known you for longer and can understand you better.
 
It is normal behaviour.

Why would you assume he would want to meet any of your exes?

It's not wrong if it works out, but that is pretty damn normal behaviour.
 
I'm not sure how you do it in real life, but it's interesting how you primarily refer to them as your "ex's" rather than your "friends," even though you remain friends.

An ex certainly carries negative connotations in the mind of your partner and possibly your own.
 
LiberoK said:
I'm not sure how you do it in real life, but it's interesting how you primarily refer to them as your "ex's" rather than your "friends," even though you remain friends.

An ex certainly carries negative connotations in the mind of your partner and possibly your own.
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Well, how about I call them friends who happen to be my ex's?

No, I'm not forcing the matter. The issue came up when I was planning to invite some of my friends who happen to be my ex's to my house warming party.
 
zombiekiller said:
Well, how about I call them friends who happen to be my ex's?

No, I'm not forcing the matter. The issue came up when I was planning to invite some of my friends who happen to be my ex's to my house warming party.
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You can refer to them as just friends. Having any reference to them being ex's implies having a romantic and sexual history with them, which your boyfriend probably acknowledges, but, understandably, does not want to think about or imagine.
 
Well,
i'm sure you can have fun with your ex again because they are still your friends.
 
The exes can be bitchy and judgemental and play silly games for the fuck of it...happens all the time and is more common than not...straight people excel at it but gay people do it as well...even the nicest ones can turn into cunts in these situations....
 
Maybe he has no interest in the men you fucked in the past?
 
Perhaps he doesn't want to be able to put a face on anyone that has had sex with you in the past.
 
Your first loyalty needs to be to your bf. If he can't handle all your exes, you need to respect that. Is he cool with your friends who aren't exes?
 
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