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Why don't gay men try to settle down?

Of four boyfriends, one was a student, and turned into a Uber-Snob the minute he got his BAC. The other three were bone-idle and wouldn't take a job to save their dicks. What you call settling down, i call putting up with.

The Klingons have a stag party that summarizes marriage pretty well:
The ritual was made up of six trials: deprivation, blood, pain, sacrifice, anguish, and death.
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That man still hasn't settled down? :lol:

Carry on sexually active mature man, carry on!
 
HoodedRat said:
I did the whole 'settling down' thing during my 20s and 30s; now that I'm pushing 50 I prefer to be single and have no plans to 'settle down' again in the foreseeable future.
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I did exactly the same. I 'settled down' three times between 20 and 40. I've been free and single ever since and intend to stay that way.
 
( here labels again gay straight whateva ) go ask ya cultures what barkin loony
 
Very out of place, but...:lol:

[ame]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=94ku3qrHPgA&feature=related[/ame]
 
I married my boyfriend. I turned 26 four days after my wedding. My hubby is 23. And I know a few other gay couples that are likely to be married within the next two years.

But it's true. Our community seems to have issues with settling down. It's unfortunate really. It puts us at considerably higher risk of STIs, makes us look pretty shallow, and then there's always the fact that when you live your whole life that way you die alone.
 
There are so many reasons.

A couple are (no pun intended) it takes two to tango. Relationships require a lot of tolerance and devotion to someone other than yourself.

Like sleeping rottweilers, some people are best left alone. You can play with them briefly but if you stick around you're going to get hurt.
 
Swellegant said:
^ Everybody dies alone, unless you take a bunch of folks out with you.
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ya not die alone ya take KOOL MEMORYS DUDES even PEOPLE ans STUFF with ya so ya no stiffin when ya go ya no figure stuff

it smile on face

fa them lucky get like die in KOOL way not blow up or hit by astroid while findin miilion bucks in dump

Hey all people born got tons stuff die smile face minus da world pap what screw up their butts

:cool:
 
I'd love to settle down with someone I love. No interest in being in an open relation, polyamorous relation, promiscuous, etc.
 
lefingum said:
I'd love to settle down with someone I love. No interest in being in an open relation, polyamorous relation, promiscuous, etc.
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I'd love that too, but realized that I DON'T want to wake up next to someone all the time. I need my own space. But I'd like to have a stable relationship with ONE guy, though. I wonder if that's even possible?

I just thought about that.... I wouldn't want to be married to a woman for the same reason.... I NEED a fair amount of "ME" time.
Does that make sense? Is it even possible to have a "settled" relationship without always being in each others face?
 
Audio Tech said:
I'd love that too, but realized that I DON'T want to wake up next to someone all the time. I need my own space. But I'd like to have a stable relationship with ONE guy, though. I wonder if that's even possible?

I just thought about that.... I wouldn't want to be married to a woman for the same reason.... I NEED a fair amount of "ME" time.
Does that make sense? Is it even possible to have a "settled" relationship without always being in each others face?
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yeah it a possible
 
Audio Tech said:
I'd love that too, but realized that I DON'T want to wake up next to someone all the time. I need my own space. But I'd like to have a stable relationship with ONE guy, though. I wonder if that's even possible?

I just thought about that.... I wouldn't want to be married to a woman for the same reason.... I NEED a fair amount of "ME" time.
Does that make sense? Is it even possible to have a "settled" relationship without always being in each others face?
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A lot of guys don't seem to get that concept. They think Me-time is code for breaking up or cheating, and they get all panicky.

But im with ya. hell i could date the same guy for ten years and i would still want my own place, cuz you know, sometimes i just don't feel like talking, cuddling, sexing, whatever, i just want to be alone sometimes.
 
Purplebic said:
A lot of guys don't seem to get that concept. They think Me-time is code for breaking up or cheating, and they get all panicky.

But im with ya. hell i could date the same guy for ten years and i would still want my own place, cuz you know, sometimes i just don't feel like talking, cuddling, sexing, whatever, i just want to be alone sometimes.
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Yeah, exactly.
 
A lot of people are doing this these days. I'm convinced it's our technology. Let me explain...
These days, we have too many options because technology spreads it all out like a buffett. How can a person make a decision when there is all this variety out there? There are too many choices, and people are thus afraid to make one. I think a lot of people are afraid to make a choice, thinking that something better might come along...
 
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