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Why is it easier to pick up guys than girls?

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Simple guys are horndogs. There are horndog girls but they arent as commen as their male counterparts.
 
Having spent the first part of my life trying to be "straight" before finally admitting who I really was....I found that women are much more difficult.

One problem is hormones; many women definately have moods throughout the month when they can be nice, bitchy, emotional....

I think guys tend to be much more "black and white." They see something they like, they go for it; just the opposite is also true. Women tend to be much less so and can make you wait while they decide, they can be the type that play "hard to get" so you don't think they are "easy."

Personally, I find it much more refreshing in many ways to be dating exclusively men; the only thing is I do find that gay men are not as aware of relationships as women.
 
I think this is true depending on where you're looking for guys or girls.

If you're not out, it's hard, unless you're just looking for men on gay hookup sites or craigslist.

If you're out, I'm sure it's easier because men are pretty much all looking for sex.

Now women, they want sex all the time. They're probably just as horny as men. They just aren't usually willingly going to give it up to anyone on the spur of the moment like men are.

But yeah, what everyone else said. Hormones, testosterone and the fact that gender roles make it so that a woman who is promiscuous is labeled as a whore while with men it's more accepted, so I'm sure that has something to do with it as well.
 
Really loving the fact that guys are so much easier than woman---finding a steady might be a bit harder though.

I also have found that I am much more confident around men---I know what they want and they understand me as well.
 
alley said:
Really loving the fact that guys are so much easier than woman---finding a steady might be a bit harder though.

I also have found that I am much more confident around men---I know what they want and they understand me as well.
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Could that be because you're gay?
 
Guys are always in rut. Girls have periods.

Guys have bigger needs and have far better sexual motivation.

Finally guys are made for sex. Sex is their destiny and their purpose.

In guys hormones are exuberant exactly like in nature and need all possible ways to exude them and to fully express themselves. Guys know they act according to their fundamentals when they sexually perform.

http://www.encyclopedia.com/doc/1G1-53877996.html

http://www.timeshighereducation.co.uk/story.asp?storyCode=156419&sectioncode=31
 
squiggle said:
Could that be because you're gay?
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Well having dated and being married to a woman for almost two decades--I think I can speak from the either viewpoint---:D
 
^ you married to woman for nearly 20 years?
Any kids?
 
Yep---no kids and we have been separated for more than a year now.
 
And I remember him when he was just coming out! LOL! Boy do I remember!
 
^ Gee, That was pretty much how it went with thewiz and I--but I figured he was way out of my league.
 
Because you can go up to a guy and ask "wanna shag?"

With women there needs to be this fucking game. Even if you two wanna shag each other G-d forbid you cut to the chase.
 
looseliam said:
Because you can go up to a guy and ask "wanna shag?"

With women there needs to be this fucking game. Even if you two wanna shag each other G-d forbid you cut to the chase.
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Spot on ... with your comment
 
For me women that I am attracted to get me flustered and I don't know how to relate to them. With guys I know how to relate to them and do not get flustered by them.
 
Now for me I think that woman are easier to pick up. Know I know that I am gay but I have a lot of bi friends and they have thier theorys and I have mine. My first reason is that I think guys are harder to pick up because it mainly goes against to whole guy norm and being afraid that they actually might be if they tried it.

The second reason is that I think woman are more open to change or can see this as more of a natural thing because they are in more touch with thier feelings. so they think if you really like some one you should go for it.
 
Is it easier to pick up guys? I don't know if that's true. I've had pussy thrown in my face a million times, just right there for the picking, while guys it's a wild goose chase.
 
looseliam said:
Because you can go up to a guy and ask "wanna shag?"

With women there needs to be this fucking game. Even if you two wanna shag each other G-d forbid you cut to the chase.
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I would totally have to agree with this. Recently a cute guy--no HOT guy--I met while dancing one night joined me for breakfast after dancing. He's 22...he models for A & F in DC and is gorgeous. I almost spit my eggs when he looked at me across the table, took my hand, and asked, "So, do you want to be fuck buddies or date?"

He said he doesn't mince words and like to dance around. I guess I have not gotten quite THAT relaxed and comfortable in the gay world yet! LOL!

I am still amazed that when at parties the subject of "top" or "bottom" comes up quite freely among guys. I don't ever remember that discussion coming up at parties when I was trying to be "cured" in the hetero world! !oops!
 
it just is...it's a universal law...and i do notice that my straight friends def. have a harder time than i would with a guy...with girls you have to have emotional attachment etc. but with a guy you just look at him and bam and strike up a convo!
 
Great topic -- got me thinking ..... if girls were as easy to hook up with as guys, i'd probably never explored the guy side of life when it came to sex....started with the the comment earlier .... "blow job" -- "seriously" --- "why not, its just us" -- "sure" ....... let me return the favor....... and then POOF --- i guess I'm bi but I absolutely love eating out pussy, the taste, the thrill, love fucking pussy and all of that but when it comes down to it, you can hook up with a guy nearly anywhere.
 
houtx20s said:
Great topic -- got me thinking ..... if girls were as easy to hook up with as guys, i'd probably never explored the guy side of life when it came to sex....started with the the comment earlier .... "blow job" -- "seriously" --- "why not, its just us" -- "sure" ....... let me return the favor....... and then POOF --- i guess I'm bi but I absolutely love eating out pussy, the taste, the thrill, love fucking pussy and all of that but when it comes down to it, you can hook up with a guy nearly anywhere.
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are you sure it is easy to "hook up" face to face.
Guys don't normally hook up with other guys during parties and stuff do they ?

Teach/tell how do they hook up (not online method).
 
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