It's really sad to me how you have this desperate need to prove that you're not like other homos. If you were really comfortable being gay or bi, you woudln't feel the need to prove yourself to anyone.
I mean, I walk down the street holding my BF's hand while wearing my riding gear all the time, but I do it becuase I want to.. not so peolpe can see that gay guys can be bikers too.
Soil, if you'd stop reading your imaginings into other people's posts, actual communication might occur.
If I were to read your posts the way you read mine, I'd be saying it's really sad how you really don't want to see society accept gays, you're only interested in you.
But whatever you think, you
do "do it ... so people can see that gay guys can be bikers too" -- because people will see that, and you know it, and you go ahead and do it.
But you don't seem to care if other people think gays are normal, ordinary people; it seems okay with you that they keep on seeing gays as weird, twisted, etc., and letting them keep their stereotypes. Well, around here that won't work, because if they think you fit the stereotype, they don't see it as "so funny", they see it as an opportunity, almost a duty, to beat the crap out of you.
But I think you live in such a privileged insular world that you don't realize that there are places where fighting for gay rights is the only option besides pretending to be straight, where gays who don't stand up for themselves or show that not all gays are soft-voiced limp-wristed wimps get their cars keyed, tires slashed, and more.
Oh -- if I'm trying to prove myself to anyone, it's to myself. But that doesn't preclude enjoying smashing other people's bigoted preconceptions -- that's just a form of education, and I've always loved teaching.
