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Would like to have a "gay" friend, but how?

I dont consider myself feminine. most people don't know i'm gay/bi.


But the few gay friends I have are pretty feminine. And i've really grown used to it. I don't get why some gay guys complain that every guy they meet is a femme. If you want a guy as a friend, it really shouldn't matter how they act. If they have a shitty personality then thats different, but if they're tolerable then why complain? You dont have to fuck them. I'm not really into britney spears and madonna, but I can grin and bear it when those friends are in the car. I've met some awesome people, and it would of sucked if I'd missed the opportunity to meet them just because they were a little camp.
 
I'm not a huge fan of the "flamers," but I do have some as friends and I love them anyway. My roommate isn't a flamer though and we get along beautifully. Neither of us is feminine (though we're not the most masculine) and we don't want in one another's pants either.

It just works out that way sometimes. I have to say I enjoy having a close gay friend who actually acts like a man and doesn't want in my pants.

And before anyone bashes me, I realize that masculinity is relative but if I wanted to sit around and sing Britney and watch Steel Magnolias I'd do it with my female friends. And I actually have done just that before. :D
 
ravenstar said:
I can't believe you took him seriously enough to start ranting about internalised homophobia.

Every post this bloke puts up is bullshit. It's called Feeding The Troll, although he is at least a semi-fun troll unlike some others around at the moment

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Oh thanks for letting me know, I hadn't encountered him before, but I'll keep that in mind.
 
No gay friends for you. Problem solved. Gay folks are free from interpersonal disaster. You may continue to wallow in self-importance. Im sure another thread authored by you will grace us this holiday season. Are you sure you didn't almost win Survivor????
 
I read the OP, laughed, and just entered this response for the sake of responding. I need to up my post count.
 
What the fuck is this thread about? I can't believe I've wasted two minutes from my precious lifetime just to read that gay guys want to molest everyone they approach. :rotflmao:

darkcap2008 said:
By the way, to all of the closet gay man on here, please don't tell anyone that you like to watch The Golden Girls or The Hills. Because then people will know you're gay for sure. ;)
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Phooey. All my friends know how I love Desperate Housewives and they don't even get any hints about me. Besides, I've never heard any stupid hints that feminime films are for gays and masculine films are for real men. Some very masculine films give off a very strong gay scent, whereas soft subtle films are generally harmless.

Seems you get yourself a severe form of bizarre delusion. Get a life, dude. Or Thorazine may help.
 
darkcap2008 said:
I'm trying to have a serious discussion here on how I can make a gay friend, who doesn't want to fuck me.
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I think you could organize a JUB meet.

I think no one here wants to fuck you :)

Not very sure if someone would like to be your friend althought.
 
It is a riot to see how Darkcap has people taking this shit seriously.

At least it is funnier than his other personae on JUB.
 
stacyphierce said:
One day, you're really going to need solid advice. And all the bridges you are burning here by acting like an utter and complete tool will remain burning and you'll fall into the ocean, into oblivion, because nothing you say will ever be taken seriously.

This message board is full of fun and dumbassedness but it is also a great resource for help to many gay / bi / curious men and even women. And you've taken real life problems and made them a joke.

I hope that people lurking here understand that this person cannot be taken seriously. We really are a wealth of knowledge when the problems are genuine.

/end serious rant
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you mean people won't give good advice to this person anymore
if he has a genuine question ? I don't think so.
 
darkcap2008 said:
Well.... maybe I should just stop coming here then, if people don't like me.

If people don't think much of me.

If people can't handle me being me for who I am.

You guys are just as strange as I am. (At least I tell it like I see it).

I bet if I came here and told you guys I was dying on AIDS no one would care.

You guys should be ashamed. You guys are the lowest.
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umm people don't know you so they can't "don't like you" in person.

They only don't like your writings.
If your writing change, they will change.
 
darkcap2008 said:
Well.... maybe I should just stop coming here then, if people don't like me.

If people don't think much of me.

If people can't handle me being me for who I am.

You guys are just as strange as I am. (At least I tell it like I see it).

I bet if I came here and told you guys I was dying on AIDS no one would care.

You guys should be ashamed. You guys are the lowest.
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You brought it all on yourself with your "I'm better than all of you" attitude. No one gives a shit about you, your sex life, or your ability to make non-sexual friends when you prance around like you're all that and a bag of chips.
 
It's probably difficult for the kind of friend you're looking for to enter the parallel universe you inhabit.
 
darkcap2008 said:
Well.... maybe I should just stop coming here then, if people don't like me.

If people don't think much of me.

If people can't handle me being me for who I am.

You guys are just as strange as I am. (At least I tell it like I see it).

I bet if I came here and told you guys I was dying on AIDS no one would care.

You guys should be ashamed. You guys are the lowest.
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You sound really cute this way.

darkcap2008 said:
Excuse me... stop the car..... I don't recall ever saying I was too hot for anyone on here, except one person................Justin Timberlake.
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Rofl! :lol2:
 
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