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would you be freaked out or flattered?

Probably pretty innocent. I work in the city and on a number of occasions have seen guys walking around at lunch or whatever that I recognize from Manhunt pics. It's unexpected and somewhat startling. Maybe the guy was like, I gotta remember what this dude is wearing so I can e-mail him and provie I saw him (pretty innocent).

Or maybe he has a shrine in his closet with your online pic, any responses you sent him, the used straw from the fast food cup you threw away as he was stalking you etc.

You should inquire a bit more to see which is the more likely scenario.
 
I would be flattered. Of course, I also would not mind having a (cute) stalker, lol, so what good is my opinion....;)


But seriously, I wish I could bump into someone in the "real world" who would come up to me and say "Hey, I know you from JUB!" :)
 
JOHN B said:
I would be flattered. Of course, I also would not mind having a (cute) stalker, lol, so what good is my opinion....;)
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I know you were kidding, but you really don't want a stalker. That shit is scary.
 
gdude30 said:
Sometimes the silent compliments are the best ones :)
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Well how would you know who it is? You will just go on with life thinking you are unattractive until you receive a message from someone who says "Hey I was checking you out you were wearing a black shirt with some blue jeans"
 
reone said:
I'm not exactly sure what's to be freaked over...

You posted your pictures on a site.
He saw your pictures on the site.
He happened to run into you in public.

If you didn't want people to see the pictures then there was no reason to post them.

What exactly is the expectation here?
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Maybe because most people don't remember others' profile pictures in the Net?
Or maybe because most people don't remember someone they pass by so well to re-recognise them in the Net?

Until some points, I understand Loki's feeling.
 
freefall said:
Maybe because most people don't remember others' profile pictures in the Net?
Or maybe because most people don't remember someone they pass by so well to re-recognise them in the Net?

Until some points, I understand Loki's feeling.
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He may have thought Loki81 was really cute and had a good memory for faces and clothes.

I think the real issue is that this guy wasn't Loki81's type, but I could be wrong.
 
altlover85 said:
He may have thought Loki81 was really cute and had a good memory for faces and clothes.

I think the real issue is that this guy wasn't Loki81's type, but I could be wrong.
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That's why I put 'most people' in my post, honey :)

I mean, as long it doesn't pass a day, I usually remember many persons I pass by. Encounters almost every day even makes me remember much more :3

As for some people, they instantly forget you in short three seconds :rolleyes: For example, one of my friends didn't even notice I wear the same outfit for two days straight :lol:
 
I wasn't sure if this guy messaged him before he'd seen him on the subway.

:lol: I see your point, freefall.
 
^ I have to say I would be freaked out if someone would tell me exactly my clothes not if he recognize me from a dating site.

I've recognized someone from a dating site walking in the street and I have told him, but Granada is not that big.
 
Be flattered, he must have thought you were hot, unlike when people meet and then realise they look nothing like they do in the ads.

I'm sure it would be even more flattering if the guy was hot. Besides i think he did the right thing by not speaking to you in person but leaving a message on the website.

I'm on something called gaydar and i think i'd be curious to walk past a lot of people on that website to see what they're actually like.
 
huntneo said:
Thank you.

I think stalker is one of those overused words that people use way too often and carelessly. Some people just don't know how to react to someone actually showing interest in them-whether they like them or not. If it's someone they'd potentially want to date and/or sleep with, the person is an 'admirer'. If it's someone they don't find appealing for whatever reason, that person is a 'stalker'. :D
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I agree. People have been killed by stalkers. It's serious business and when people use it lightly, it just makes it harder for those who actually are being stalked.

rant over
 
i think you are being a bit precious, but if you want to bare your arse in public this can happen !
 
Personally, I'd be flattered, but I'm a whole different situation...
 
People always tell me i saw you in person i always say why don't you come up and say hi
 
loki81 said:
why? I think I've had pretty positive encounters with everyone I've met (except maybe the one who turned out to be kinda nuts, but we never met in person)
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This thread for starters....

When you get out there, it's not just for the positive experiences but also the nutters and the creepers....

You gotta take the whole shebang.
 
^You gotcha ..|

So how's the story going? He's still contacting you about your clothes/attributes etc.?
 
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