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Would you date an Indian guy?

JayQueer

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Hi everyone,

As some of you may know, I'm an Asian Indian gay guy in my 20s living in Southern California.

Whenever I go to West Hollywood, or I'm around other gay people, it seems like most other gay people are White (with some Latinos, Blacks, and Asians). But I don't really know any other gay Indians.

When I sometimes browse dating sites like match.com, it seems like most gay guys, regardless of their own ethnicity, (in their profiles) state that they're looking to date a White guy. The next most common ethnicity requested is Latino, followed by Asian & Middle Eastern, and then 2nd to last, African-American. "East Indian" is an option, but it is chosen the LEAST out of all of the ethnic groups.

Would you guys be open to hypothetically dating an Asian Indian gay guy? Or would you rule him out, simply because "Indians aren't desirable?"

Please, "no flames", but do you guys honestly think that I might someday be able to find a man who will love me for who I am?
 
I've always wanted to meet an South Indian guy to date.

A few times I tried on Grindr and other sites. No success.
 
I would LOVE to date an Asian Indian guy.

Don't let it get to you JayQueer! :D It does not mean you're any less desirable than a white or whatever other ethnicity. Dating sites are iffy, anyways.
 
I'm part Indian myself, though my family is loosely Orthodox Christian.

Honestly, I think your background - and other Asian ethnicities - would be the hardest to date, since your families are so traditional. In most cases, he would have to be REALLY closeted or would have to have broken away from his family's influence and be living on his own. Would you say any of this is true?


With that being said: I would date ANY guy that I really hit it off with, regardless of his heritage. Sometimes, I think it would be really cute to be in a relationship with a Middle Eastern or Indian guy; I think we would understand each other a little more in some ways.
 
Nationality means nothing in gay land as long as someone finds you attractive or you have a great cock or ass. Don't give up!!!
 
Don't let your ethnicity hold you back. Lots of people prefer guys of a different race than theirs. Keep your head up. :)
 
I thought that you have said that you only want to date masculine white guys?
 
If I were dating I'd look for chemistry, not color.
 
well, you have to get rid of all the baggage first,
then get rid of the weight ... etc and be happy with yourself ... :)
 
Short answer: Yes.
Long answer: YEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I find East Indian and Middle Eastern guys most attractive out of all men, everrrrr. :D Maybe you're not as adored as you should be by the general gay population, but believe me, you're desired.
 
l have had a 17 year long relationship with an ethnicaly indian man originally from Guyana, his family is muslim and are all very nice. I am invited to all of their family getogethers, he doesn't flaunt his sexual preferance but doesn't go out of his way to hide it either. He's getting much more comfortable with his gayness and goes out more now than he used to. I've also had 2 other shorter term friendships with indian men one from india one from Sri Lanka. They were all really nice.
 
Race doesn't matter to me, i think a lot of indian guys are hot.
 
I see past a persons skin color or race, if you look fuckin good to me, then its on! xD
 
I'm an Indian guy....I live in South Africa....I think the reason you don't find much on dating sites...cause the indians themselves with our culture are very secretive & guarded of revealing themselves...that we seem rare :)
 
Not if he lived in his homophobic parent's house and went on and on about how he loves republicans and those who truly despise him and doesn't like gay people.

Your problem isn't your ethnicity.

If you get over the things that are holding you back and making you a bad prospect then yes, you can find a guy.

As you are, it's a problem - do something about it.

It takes two people to make a relationship, and the state of you is equally as important as the state of the other guy.
 
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