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Would you ever date a positive guy?

Nope. Tried it once, wasn't worth the worry. No one's that great and I'm not that desperate.
 
The optimist in me believes people shouldn't be judged for past actions. And if they got aids through birth then they shouldn't be judged at all! But the end result is that I would worry, but at the same time you worry even if he doesn't have HIV.
 
Part of me says no. Part wants to know how hot the guy is. Perhaps I shouldn't have answered at all. Being in a long term monogomous relationship I haven't had to worry about HIV, nor have I had to worry about safe sex.
 
Yes i would. I did date one once, but it didn't go anywhere.
 
I've had sex with poz guys, see no reason not to date one. Wouldn't event occur to me to factor that in, really.
 
Justlove856 said:
I know...Mostly cause they want to bareback...BUT i have seen positive guys who wanted to bareback with anyone...positive or negative i was like are you joking?

Yes thats true if the guy cheats on you contracts something and gives it to you...your screwed.

IDK if the guy is/was a ho i couldn't.
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How do you know that most positive guys like to bareback?
 
Justlove856 said:
really? Wow...never heard that response before.
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Why should it matter? My safer-sex/acceptable risk practices are based on the assumption that the guy(s) I am having sex with are HIV positive, so sexually it makes no difference. I see no reason why it would affect a relationship in an overwhelming way.
 
Elegant-Perverse said:
Yes. And i've got my soda for the predictable show to begin... now.
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Care for some popcorn?

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Of course..
If we hit it off... well, then why not.
 
Would it be safe for me to deep kiss him?

Would it be safe for me to suck his dick and swallow?


If he's my boyfriend, i'd want to do intimate stuff like this with him, but anyone'll tell you that this isn't safe to do with an HIV-positive person.


So, it'd be mechanical anal sex every time, just because we'd be able to use a condom. . ..



I don't think that would really work; i'd want more than that.
 
Lostlover, I think he was just drawing the line at what he would and wouldn't do with someone who had HIV. He might enjoy their company and date them, but he wouldn't have sex with them. It's more of a hypothetical answer than a realistic one.
 
wooffy said:
I've had sex with poz guys, see no reason not to date one. Wouldn't event occur to me to factor that in, really.
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Back in the last century I had a fairly long-term relationship with a + guy (couple of years on and off). There were a lot of stressful things about that relationship but the sex was the least stressful.

We fucked with condoms, Sucked and frenched without. I must admit that his statis was at the back of mind sometimes, but again it was less about the sex and infection and more about facing his mortality, (which meant acknowledging mine). We remained non-sexual friends after a while. He did pass away at an early age. I would definitely date another + guy but to be 100% honest, I'm sure his status would play into how serious I'd be willing to let myself get into a relationship.
 
the level of ignorance and bigotry in this thread is absolutly nauseating...i became physically ill reading some of these responses.


those of you that are " enlightened" kudos to you, poz lovers are hot lovers...there is ahuge level of creativity going on ..

the rest, need to do some reading and actually talk to people outside of your age group and clicks.

the real world isnt all rosey and "safe", shit happens and mistakes are made, how you deal with it is how one grows.
ive been in a poz/neg relationship for over a year, sex just keeps getting better.
if i had been ignorant and afraid, i would have never found one of the most wonderful people i have ever come in contact with.
 
I think there's a lot of thought behind the subject...

I mean, obviously, you can be careful...But one does have to wonder whether or not it's 100% possible to be 100% safe, when dealing in a relationship where one partner is positive and the other is not.

I don't know what I think...

I think, hypothetical (since I'm already in a wonderful relationship); if the right guy had come along and wooed me off my feet, then it would be a slight problem but not an insurmountable one.

It's sort of an odd question...

I mean there's challenges outside of the risk of the non-positive partner catching it; there's the medical issues that can pop up, and things of that nature, in which one partner will almost in some cases end up acting as a caregiver for the other.

If a person is comfortable being put into that position from time to time, then I don't see the problem. If not, then dating someone who is positive is probably not the best decision.
 
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