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Would You Give Your Brother Your Sperm?

bma1983

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I was watching tonight’s Brothers and Sisters (which is amazing by-the-way), and one of the brothers wants to start a family with his wife. But he’s sterile. So he asks his gay brother for his sperm. At first the gay brother said no, but by the end of the episode he changed his mind.

So I asked myself would I give my bother my sperm if he was in need. I’m 99% sure I wouldn’t. I don’t think I would be able to watch my brother raise my child. So, I ask you:

Would You Give Your Brother Your Sperm?
 
I am SO glad that my brother and I never had that conversation...

It's bad enough when he borrows a book or some tools...
 
if he asked, then yes i would. he probably will... he likes him his drugs...[-X , but i also know that he really wants a lot of children, and i hate children...
 
T-Zero said:
I was flipping channels and only caught a portion of the final of this episode. I hadn't realized this had been on since September and at first thought I was catching the end of one of those "Life Time" movies type of shows. Have the other episodes been as good and as matter of fact in their treatment of the issues and the gay brother for example?
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Yes, IMO the other episodes have been good. And the str8 siblings treat their gay brother with love and respect. It a basic loving dysfunctional family.

T-Zero said:
What changed his mind? That little speech by his conservative sister (Flockart sp?) about how the kid would have the support of the family behind them?
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Yeah, I think it was the conservative sister’s speech. But, I would like to have seen the gay brother ask his sisters how they would feel if their sister asked them for one of their eggs. Would they do it?
 
bma1983 said:
I was watching tonight’s Brothers and Sisters (which is amazing by-the-way), and one of the brothers wants to start a family with his wife. But he’s sterile. So he asks his gay brother for his sperm. At first the gay brother said no, but by the end of the episode he changed his mind.

So I asked myself would I give my bother my sperm if he was in need. I’m 99% sure I wouldn’t. I don’t think I would be able to watch my brother raise my child. So, I ask you:

Would You Give Your Brother Your Sperm?
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No I wouldn't.... your second paragraph ^ says it all. It wouldn't be fair to my brother or to me to have him raise my biological child. If I were going to die or move far away and never be part of their lives I may consider it. Sound like a horrible idea though, in the way that you stated the question.
 
I am surprised that so many of you guys are saying yes. Not unless you’re not gonna have anything to do with the child, how can you detach yourself from the fact that your niece or nephew is actually your daughter or son?
 
I just watched this epsiode and thought what I would do in that same situation and couldn't really decide. My first thought was exactly what the character Kevin said at the table (people would start talking that the kid's real father would be his gay uncle). And then I thought what greater gift could you give to your sibling or family. I really don't know how I would answer...
 
I would give my brother a lung and a kidney and my liver if he asked.

If he wants my sperm, I'll whip him up a batch right now.
 
If I had a brother then I think I would. I wouldn't want to be absent for the child's life, but there's a hell of a lot more to being a father than providing the sperm, so as long as my brother was a good father I think I would be ok not being the "father".

And just to say "father" one more time......father.
 
I dunno,

It's a *huge* responsibility. The 'huge-est', I suppose, creating another
life.

A few years back I was asked to do this for a lesbian couple that had
been dear friends of mine for years. Even though I had NO doubt they were
'good people' and would make great parents, after a lot of soul searching I
decided that I just couldn't do it. I don't know why, really. On the one hand, I don't know how 'hands off' I could be about the whole situation, knowing there would be another 'little joshy' floating around. (Terrifying, I know....;) )

But seriously, I just thought about it long term. Even the best relationships can break up, and what if my (our) kid is suddenly from a broken home ? What would be my next move then ?

I'm not sure any of these Q's would change if it had been my brother asking the same thing.

Josh
 
if i had one i would... but since i only have a sister... if she eventualy dumped her bf for a gf (which she has done in the past) and they wanted a kid for her gf to carry i would consider it though i would ask that they adopt....
 
without hesitation or doubt. Anything I'm capable of giving, I will give to my brothers.
 
i dont even like it when Mitri borrows my boxers

i would have to say no

but he seems to be more hormonal than me so i doubt its a real issue
 
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