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Would you have come out in a younger age if you could?

No.

I had my first boyfriend at 16. We were totally secret and only we knew, but it was what we were comfortable with at the time.

At 18, I started telling close female friends, and at 19 I came back from summer break in college and told all my friends and took dates to parties so everyone would see that they could stop whispering.
 
I was 14 when I first had sex with a man
I was 15 when I first had sex with a boy
I was 16 when I first had sex with a girl
I was 17 when I came out

I think that was OK for me
 
I came out to 2 of my closest friends about a month ago and I was 21 at the time. One of the guys is also gay/bi ( he's not sure) but he lives about 800 miles from here :( I haven't come out to my family yet though. I am finally ok with being gay after trying to live the straight thing in denial.

Zac
 
Well, I didn't know I was bi till 23-24 so yes, if I had known at 13-14-15, that would've been nice (however I lived in a small city and I wasn't exactly popular)..

Still..yes.
 
I certainly would have. I missed way too much, and it kind of warped my mind.
 
Oh ya!! I came out at 37 after being married and having children The one thing I do not regret is having children. I do feel that I would have been a much happier person if I realised I was gay at an earlier age. All my relationships with women were very starnge but at least I know why now.

I feel that I missed all the fun gay stuff as a youth. I had a boyfriend when I was 17 and when I look back it was the best relationship I ever had.
 
At an age when I should of figured it out...I didn't. I was dealing with my father being terminally ill when I was in high school so determining my orientation was not a priority. I really did not figure it out until my early 20's. I'm glad that I did not have to deal with that as well as my father dying at the same time. I think that it would of been just too much to deal with at the same time.
 
I was lucky really, I was never in the closet. I remember my first experiences were in my infant school around 7 or so. Only fondling other guys and sucking.
It wasnt until my junior school when i was being called a 'Gay lord' and i asked what a gay lord was, they simply answered ' you like boys don't you?' I obviously replied yeah to be then told that i must be a gay lord then.
That was when i first realised most of the boys liked the girls!

Good job really that i was never in the closet hearing all the horrors of 'Cumming out of the closet' I've helped a few out of it though and collected a few cherries on the way! (!)
 
I came out when I was 16. I would have come out sooner but didn't really know what was going on at the time. Just knew I wanted dick.
 
I was like 19 when I came out so I couldn't have really come out much sooner. Maybe when I was 14 could have been a good time. Then I could have spoken about my first major crush instead of going through torture.
 
In a wordl....... YES!!!!

I always knew I was gay but I did not accept nor appreciate my "gayness" until I was nearly 30. 5 years after I was married. I wish I could have lived those 30 years with the freedom I enjoy now.

I would have NEVER gotten married and probably would never have been an ordained minister or made some other major life choices that shaped my life into the existence it is now.

Does anyone have a time machine?
 
I didn't come out till I was in my 20's. I always knew I was gay, never really hid it but never had a chance to be open or act on it until then. I had my first kiss when I was around 23 yrs old. I SO wish that I had the opportunity/guts/resources to come out in my teens. I always feel that I missed out on so much (sex and otherwise) when I hear people relate their own "gay teenage years" stories/histories.
 
I was 15 when I told my mom...
15 when I told my friend Andrew...
I was 17 when I told my friend Seth...
I was 17 when Seth told everyone else...
I was 19 when my brother and cousins and everyone found it (myspace... gotta love/hate it lol)


I think had I came out later it might have been taken more seirously, my Mom thought it was just a phase, I guess because I was so young. Oh well, it's almost 4 years later and I'm not over it so I guess I won't ever be.​
 
Yes

I would have been nice to spend more of my life enjoying who I am rather than hiding it
 
OMG, if I had only done it when I was in the 5th grade. That is when I fell head over heels in love with the boy next door, who was in the 7th grade.
 
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