Would you rather be rejected for looks - or personality?

[SLOPPYSECONDS]

wot if folk ' REJECT ' folk no can figs looks ans person ?
@ wot this ? @
ya rejection slip
@ ooh nice papa wot do a it? @
ya take papa nice perosn smilin ova there ans a show ya nice room
@ ooh wot nice smilin perosn HI @
% Welcome wot a lovely day please go in %
-Swisssssssh-
@ Thankyou @
-Swisssssssh-
@ ooh wot nice shiny room @
-ZAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAP-

meanwhile da universe federation of ' SSSSH '
make high chair fa da day human race greatest eva cultures go make baby wot of able screw light bulb less time 100000 years

so wot rejectins?
' nothin '
$ coor ans fasta then light $
' SSSSH! '
oops

anyway

ya know wata make kool
' SSSH '
ooh they no fig da out yet?
' yeah but millions still twat ans no idea they ((((( whispers ))))) '
ooh yeah it hard figs millionssss is ya knows
' not really but '
yeah SHHHH
' good oh '

ha

 

[Taz]

Looks for sure, There are always going to be people who don't find me attractive and I can deal with that.

 

[Ram]

Imagined you got rejected for both. You're as dumb as a rock and twice the ugly. Ugh. That will hurt.

I don't put my looks and my personality on a pedestal so if I get rejected for being butt ugly or a Boring Betty , I will be sad because it is a rejection but I won't be any sadder knowing the reason.

To answer the question, I would prefer personality. It is understandable that not all personalities get along. I am glad you rejected me because it certainly saved me the trouble of rejecting you. If you think we can't get along, chances are you are right. My personality is centered around humor (esp. dark humor, taking the piss), logic-centric values and general basic fun. I can be a little too sardonic. Not a lot of people are into that.

That being said, in terms of personality, I will probably date Lilbit. Imo, he is prefect if he wasn't that ugly.

Basically if you can't make me laugh and I can't make you laugh, let's just fuck and never see each other again.

It's not like a major blow to my esteem really.

 

[TheOscar]

Well, I had some experiences with the rejection of my looks. It hurts but it goes away.

So, then you meant you'd rather be rejected by your personality? I wasn't asking anything else.

 

[maxpowr9]

Looks definitely. I know my personality is a bit overbearing but it would hurt me a lot more.

 

[Maestoso]

There is no ugly men, only lazy men.

Go and take some grooming lessons, get the best hairstyle that suits your face.

Envy those with 6 packs and bulging biceps?

Everyone has it, it's whether you take the effort to get them, or not.

 

[TheOscar]

There is no ugly men, only lazy men.

Go and take some grooming lessons, get the best hairstyle that suits your face.

Envy those with 6 packs and bulging biceps?

Everyone has it, it's whether you take the effort to get them, or not.

You're claiming beauty means having six pack. People can be happy with their bodies regardless of them having bulging muscles or not.

Interesting, because men are now starting to feel what women have felt for a while: there's one form of beauty only.

 

[AlmondMilk]

I'd rather be rejected by my looks than my personality. People often reject me for my looks. It hurts, but being told that I have a dull personality would just seem like a heart breaker. It's like telling someone they're not even human...they're robotic...bland...

 

[breakfast4sex]

rejected by personality

 

[Treborf]

I think getting rejected for my personality would feed more into the insecurities I already have about myself (people say I'm too quiet, unapproachable, etc.) On the other hand, I'm in pretty good shape right now and I've been on fire lately at the bars, so I'm not too concerned about my looks.

I dunno...it could change a few years / extra pounds later but for now I'd rather be rejected for my looks.

 

[JayHawk]

I would rather be rejected on looks just so I wont have to get to know the shallow fuck and give them the chance to reject my personality....

I used to become upset or worry what can I do when rejected. Now all I can think is "thank God" The last thing I need is another person looking for themselves and wanting to go through me to to find themselves.

 

[Maestoso]

You're claiming beauty means having six pack. People can be happy with their bodies regardless of them having bulging muscles or not.

Interesting, because men are now starting to feel what women have felt for a while: there's one form of beauty only.

The perks of being physically attractive are endless, and it also builds your confidence.

If you don't want to be rejected on how you look (who would reject a hunk?), then work on improving it.

Pointless to whine about it, when you are just plain lazy.

 

[MoufOfKhaos]

The perks of being physically attractive are endless, and it also builds your confidence.

If you don't want to be rejected on how you look (who would reject a hunk?), then work on improving it.

Pointless to whine about it, when you are just plain lazy.

Or you have low self worth or self esteem, or are honest with yourself, or know that having a perfect body doesn't mean you have a perfect face, or you're the type of person that doesn't have mega bucks to buy the perfect face, and I could go on and on, but saying people that feel they are ugly are really just lazy whiners is just dumb.

And, I would reject a hunk, and have - a great body does not make a great personality.

 

[RaKroma]

How many times do we hear people say "as long as he keeps his mouth shut, he is hot"? I'd rather people think that I'm a good looking asshole or a weirdo.

 

[Kabluey]

Looks anytime. Getting dumped for personality means you both spent the time and energy getting to know each other.
You really are getting rejected for who you are.
Let's keep it superficial please.

 

[Maestoso]

but saying people that feel they are ugly are really just lazy whiners is just dumb.

It's the truth, suck it up buddy.

I also mentioned about grooming, go watch "Style by Jury".

And, I would reject a hunk, and have - a great body does not make a great personality.

Not talking about personality here.

But I just don't buy choosing someone I do not deem attractive and having him sleep beside me for the rest of my life just because he has a great personality.

 

[TheOscar]

The perks of being physically attractive are endless, and it also builds your confidence.

If you don't want to be rejected on how you look (who would reject a hunk?), then work on improving it.

Pointless to whine about it, when you are just plain lazy.

But physical attractiveness comes in many packages!

I may reject a hunk, yes. XD There are even some hunks that are ugly. >.>

I agree about not being lazy and definitely trying to improve yourself. Most definitely you should! I am just saying that it's not one image that is most attractive.
And yes physical attraction is always important, too. Along with personality. But, again, there isn't one image of physical attractiveness.

 

[The White Stripe]

I have been called an asshole by many a girl for my unflinching honesty. I'm opinionated, and completely upfront about everything....which people seem to not really care for.

So if I'm rejected due to my personality its no big deal, because I know its because I'm a little too real, as in honest, to be dealt with by people.

...or as they would say; an asshole.

 

[Legionair]

Looks definitely. Being rejected on personality hits closer to home. Either way it's about ego and how one responds to rejection. (ie. screw 'em).

 

[Nomenclature]

Personality is SO much more important to me than looks. I've seen so many guys who look "hot", but have the weakest personalities; it's like they never matured past middle school, and think that just being bigger and stronger than other people is all they need to be "popular". It's pathetic.


As far as looks go, everyone has their specific "type". I've been rejected for being skinny, or short or being uncut or whatever. . .but that really doesn't bother me; we all like what we like.