^ So you're basically saying that you can't fathom how people can derive pleasure from body parts which they can't understand having the feeling of having. Understandable. But in the same way, you don't know how it feels to have those "foreign" body parts, so you can't judge how they feel, can you?
Besides, men and women have more body parts in common than you'd think. Both have nipples. The clitoris is the female penis. The prostate is the male G-spot. Live and let live.
no, what i can't fathom is how the heck one can use body parts that one is not born with as if they were sexual organs.if my partner were to have a clitoris i would freak out,wouldn't you? i know for a fact that i wasn't born with the ability to be "receptive and sensitive" enough to female body parts coz sexually dimorphic body bits have a strong dissonance in my brain,in such a way that i sincerely don't distinguish a surgery,and open wound from a vulva or tits.Somehow things would seem too exotic for me if my partner were to have a different body than mine,like i would really freak out and would not be able to cope with the idea of having to touch,smell and even swallow body parts that my own body doesn't have.On top of that,i would sort of try to get rid of something that is not biologically related to me in any way,and that the opposite sex so gladly rejects,how would i cope with such a
situation then? would i tell myself that that's ok,that the opposite sex is better than my own,like pussies taste better than cocks,or that it is normal to be attracted to what the opposite sex is not attractive to? Sometimes i do want to love the opposite sex,but my own morals wouldn't let me do this to myself,coz that would mean that i'm a masochist not to say that being passive to another sex is not in my fantasies in the least,for instance,trying to eagerly pleasure the other sex and perform so that the other sex is satisfied,or trying to be submissive to the other sex by demonstrating them that what they don't enjoy and what they reject i can take it without any problem since they are better than my own sex.So, there are many issues here that homosexual men clearly will avoid in order to not commit the same mistakes that heterosexual do.Remember,we are here with you,part of the same society,we are mingled up,but you go your way and homosexuals go our own.
men and women have body parts in common? hahahhaahhaha yeah right!!! they might look alike but they are not the same ,nor they feel the same,don't you tell me that i'm gonna feel the same rubbing my 9 inch thick cock against a 1 cm clitoris as compared with my partner big hard cock.When nature,as a physical system allows for sexual dichotomy and asymmetry to occur the intelligence must control this situation otherwise,look into the sort of things that we have fallen into,like pretending that homosexuality is not the psycho-physical basis of the wrongly called heterosexuality.
I live and let live.That's my favorite attitude in life but don't take my questions in the wrong way.it is important that in sites like this, heterosexual men and homosexual men talk about how our sexual craving,for instance,developed during our childhood.Why is it that homosexual men do no like to regard women's body parts as sexual organs and not feel sexual pleasure with what females clearly don't.Only the bisexual and straight men here can give valuable information about how is it like, for instance, to get sexually aroused with something that you have never smell or seen before or/and the differences between sexual belonging and sexual adoption.Or for instance,what do heterosexuals such as Mark think about having the same sexuality as your partner,enjoy the same thing that your partner enjoys vs having to have sexual craving for things that belongs to another distint group you don't belong sexualy to.
i would also feel a bit curious about how for instance,a heterosexual man,enjoys rubbing his cock with a smaller body part than his,for instance, a homosexual man would feel that something is missing,or like not being corresponded,or even as if we were trying to give pleasure to something that is not giving as much pleasure to us as we give to it.
The differences between heterosexual men and gay men are therefore abysmal.
