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Would you respond to me after reading my ad?

The post is good but Craigslist usally dont allow long posts, cuz according to CL, it seem too commerical.
 
don't let all the no replies on this thread stop you tho.

If you are keen you will get what you want.
 
I should have opted to hire an escort but I would have to have made an appointment, after all it's Saturday and all the good ones are booked I'm sure.

Since I did not have the foresight to reserve an escort I thought it would be okay to look for a local boy on craigs list.

Oh well live and learn, I have had a wealth of responses and have arranged to meet one of them, he is a local boy, meets the criteria and should work out just fine. It's a holiday surprise for my partner, I think he will be thrilled when company arrives.
 
I wouldn't respond either. First off...not my thing...but the no photo from you just sets of a red flag.

I also think you are putting out way to much info and rules right off the bat....scaring them off. You need to advertise the basics..that you are a hot gay couple a/s/l /ddf (whatever) looking for similar,etc...wanting a 3rd for 1 night of fun. Dinner and hotel on us... serious replies only with photo. Discretion a must! ...or something similar to that. After you get someone that seems interesting...then lay down some of your rules on how you want to play the game.

A hookup should be fun...that sounds like work. Good luck with it though. :wave:

edit after reading post above...good for you...have fun! :)
 
Your desire to be a discreet couple in your hometown would mean, to me, that it'd be better to save the 3-ways when you guys on on vacation.
 
joshj50 said:
I should have opted to hire an escort but I would have to have made an appointment, after all it's Saturday and all the good ones are booked I'm sure.

Since I did not have the foresight to reserve an escort I thought it would be okay to look for a local boy on craigs list.

Oh well live and learn, I have had a wealth of responses and have arranged to meet one of them, he is a local boy, meets the criteria and should work out just fine. It's a holiday surprise for my partner, I think he will be thrilled when company arrives.
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Josh, please let us know how it goes!
 
"Clean and disease free" sounds like you're looking for a hooker.

"Light-skinned Latino" is vague and might even offend some mixed-race or caucasian Latinos who don't care for that sort of distinction. You're better of simply saying "white" and perhaps defining the preferred ethnicity. When I see ads looking for "light-skinned" blacks, that's a red flag. It sounds so colonial.
 
No, because you won't send a picture, but you want one from me. That's what axe murderers say. And you have a very bossy tone.
 
Nope, won't be replying to your CL post. Reasons?

1. too long, I get bored after the first few sentences.
2. no pics = no game.
3. you guys are too short for me.
4. I'm neither white or light skinned Latin.
 
No I wouldn't. 1) I'm beyond your age requirements, 2) I don't drink (death of loved ones due to alcohol related "accidents" ), 3) too many demands/requirements for a casual evening, 4) you just don't sound like much fun to be around.

Nothing personal, but that's just how your ad comes off. Maybe if you cleaned it up to something like this:

We are late 20s early 30s, attractive, respectful, discrete, one is Latin the other white, around 5 foot 7 and 135 pounds in weight.

We are from out of town and looking for casual dinner companions, preferably within the 18-30 yr old range, good looking, interested in having a fun evening, and able to carry a conversation.
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This says what's important without boring the interesting people away or sounding too judgemental or implying the lust for a relationship. I wouldn't ask for a pic, especially if not willing to offer one in return. You could also open it up for a couple (m/m, m/f, f/f or whatever). Definitely try to stay away from sounding racist, ageist, or sexist. Don't demand specific racial requirements, it isn't needed (you can always suggest a business dinner to any inquisitive persons - many business deals are concluded over dinner at a restaurant, especially with one side or the other picking up the tab - tax write-off). Inevitably its all up to you, though.
 
tommyj said:
Josh, please let us know how it goes!
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The whole event went splendid, the young man was charming, very cute and very attentive, he claimed to be bisexual and bored with his g/f but I did not believe a word of it, I think he is gay and does not have a g/f but I really didnt care how he wanted to spin it.

My partner was pleased with the entire evening especially because the young man stayed the entire night.

I spent some time trying to determine why it was important for me to go out and have dinner and a night out with another guy instead of just having an escort come over to the hotel and "hook up". I came up with the following observation:

One negative for me in being in an LTR is the actual act of dating, I loved it, especially the first date. If I do say so myself I was a great dater, a lousy lay but a great dater. I love the unknown, what will he be like, what will he choose for dinner, what will he have to drink and then the first accidental touches all the while getting to know the person just a little more as time goes by and how each glass of wine allows the date to either go splendidly or disastrously. Then the sometimes awkaward subject of whether the date will continue on to the morning or end abrubtly after dinner. I miss dating.

When I have dinner with my partner it's very mechanical, I know exactly what he will drink, what he will have to eat, what we talk about, what we will do afterwards...... not exciting for me anymore.

For me the highlight of the night was dinner with someone new and the highlight of the night for my partner was the sex, he was never much of a dater, he doesnt much care for them, if it was up to him he would have just had a prearranged trick come to the hotel and be done with it.

All in all I had a very nice time as did my partner as did the young man we met. So it was a win win win for everyone involved. I don't feel the need to do it again anytime soon, will concentrate on the holidays, catch up with friends and family as the couple that we are. At least I won't be trolling the holiday parties we will be attending looking for an unsuspecting boy with whom I want to seduce, flirt and toy with.
 
joshj50 said:
The whole event went splendid, the young man was charming, very cute and very attentive, he claimed to be bisexual and bored with his g/f but I did not believe a word of it, I think he is gay and does not have a g/f but I really didnt care how he wanted to spin it.

My partner was pleased with the entire evening especially because the young man stayed the entire night.

I spent some time trying to determine why it was important for me to go out and have dinner and a night out with another guy instead of just having an escort come over to the hotel and "hook up". I came up with the following observation:

One negative for me in being in an LTR is the actual act of dating, I loved it, especially the first date. If I do say so myself I was a great dater, a lousy lay but a great dater. I love the unknown, what will he be like, what will he choose for dinner, what will he have to drink and then the first accidental touches all the while getting to know the person just a little more as time goes by and how each glass of wine allows the date to either go splendidly or disastrously. Then the sometimes awkaward subject of whether the date will continue on to the morning or end abrubtly after dinner. I miss dating.

When I have dinner with my partner it's very mechanical, I know exactly what he will drink, what he will have to eat, what we talk about, what we will do afterwards...... not exciting for me anymore.

For me the highlight of the night was dinner with someone new and the highlight of the night for my partner was the sex, he was never much of a dater, he doesnt much care for them, if it was up to him he would have just had a prearranged trick come to the hotel and be done with it.

All in all I had a very nice time as did my partner as did the young man we met. So it was a win win win for everyone involved. I don't feel the need to do it again anytime soon, will concentrate on the holidays, catch up with friends and family as the couple that we are. At least I won't be trolling the holiday parties we will be attending looking for an unsuspecting boy with whom I want to seduce, flirt and toy with.
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I guess you like the "unknown" of a nice looking guy.

Do you like the "unknow" of a not nice looking guy ? ;)
 
joshj50 said:
you will be introduced as a friend or cousin or something like that, you wont be introduced as someone we met on craigslist.
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LMAO
Favorite line of the night
 
I'd respond to what Willy Boy wrote; I wouldn't respond to yours.

It makes you sound picky and demanding, but the big reason is that I won't touch anything that is forbidden to develop into friendship -- that tells me you don't want a person, you want an object.
 
stick a needle in my eye -- NOW - PLEASE -- it would be less painful than this......................
 
The whole deal is creepy. I'm not sure what the younger guy got out of it, except a free meal.
 
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