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WTF is with the gay men

Be the better man and just smile at them, let roll off and go. Not worth your time to dwell on it or respond to them. You just do what makes you happy---period end of...................
 
OK, so you're out with your ex-girlfriend. Where exactly? A gay venue? And a gay guy comes up to you, asks you who the female is and you answer, "my ex." Why wouldn't you just say she was a friend? Why did you have to answer, to a stranger no less, that you banged her? Of course that was a turn off. DUH
 
jstanthrguy66 said:
So as a general question to all flat out gay men I want to ask what in the hell makes any of you so much better than me? I was out tonight with my ex girlfriend and when a guy came up to me we talked for a bit and then he asked about my ex and I explained that she was an ex that it just didnt work with and he got a look like he was discusted even talking to me and called me a "greedy" bastered as he pranced away. I have gotten this reaction several times from gay men and I really want to know why it seems that every time a guy finds out I'v had my junk in a chick I'm treated with a hillbillie redneck attitude and they have the right to turn their nose up at me like I have something to be ashamed of. Can it really repulse a guy so much that I find a girl good company every now and then? All it takes is a "sorry I don't like guys that date girls ." Thats all it takes but no as a typical gay man most have to make it some big thing. And I have had a guy have the ball to say to me that its because he dosnt want to be left for a chick. I'm not sure if you would feel better if I left for another man, that just means you where doing a really crappy job at what you do. At least if I leave for her its cuz shes got something you dont. On the other hand a Bi man dosnt just say I think I want some of this today and damp your ass for the day, its the type of person that your with that is going to stab your ass in the back and go looking elsewhere. But I guess I'v missed that its only bi guys that with mess around behind your back and and leave you for someone else, a gay man would never do that. So next time you brush a guy off because hes bi and you end up alone you can sit down and think hes always got a date for Friday night because hes just that greedy.

:p


Also I would like to say in no way shape or form do I think cheating is ok and even if you where crappy in bed I'm not dating you for your ability to swallow.
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Yo man, I aint reading all that shit. ](*,)
 
jstanthrguy66 said:
I really want to know why it seems that every time a guy finds out I've had my junk in a chick I'm treated with a hillbilly redneck attitude and they have the right to turn their nose up at me like I have something to be ashamed of. Can it really repulse a guy so much that I find a girl good company every now and then?
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Congratulations!

Now you know how us gay guys feel when a straight man or woman finds out we like the butt sex. ..|
 
RobertACE said:
Ooooo .... a DC comics guy and a trekker! (ww)

:p
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are you mocking me?? :eek:

i will have to put you over my knee and spank you until you are rosy and pink for such sacrilege! :spank:

G-Lexington said:
I guess I can sum it up (briefly) with:

Attention, you holier-than-thou faggots. I'm bisexual. Not "undecided," not "chicken shit", not "having my cake and eating it too". And you only feel that way because I get laid more than you.

...or something to that effect.

Lex
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that's pretty much how i saw it..
 
Paws said:
Can someone translate what he wrote?
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"I'm probably going to date you for a while, remind you at an annoying frequency that I like women, maybe say something about it while we're having sex, pretend I don't know you when my straight friends or family members are anywhere near and eventually dump you when I want to settle down and have a normal life. But since you won't fuck me now, you're a big nasty gay and you 'prance.'"

Or... words to that effect.
 
One of my biggest complaint about the GLBT community is that for a group of people who often dislike stereotypes I find it funny how we judge others within the group.

I have been doing a podcast called Ramble Redhead for four years and it shocks me when I hear from gay men and they tell me that they don't want to listen to a lesbian guest etc. Or how an interview I did with a transgendered person really opened the eyes of listeners as well.

I for one have always been welcoming to anyone to be a guest on my show and would love to talk with anyone gay - lesbian - bisexual - transgendered - would love to hear from you!
 
tomind said:
One of my biggest complaint about the GLBT community is that for a group of people who often dislike stereotypes I find it funny how we judge others within the group.
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Oh just laugh. I enjoy the hypocrisy. I get the same thrill in reading it that I do from a picture like this....

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Of course it is sad and pretty scary but I find it better to laugh than painstakingly try to understand such ridiculousness :D

On a side note though, everyone is human and judgmental to a degree. Just because you are GLBT doesn't mean that suddenly you have to like EVERYONE. It doesn't work like that. But still the hatred and ignorance that I have seen on this bored is sometimes more hilarious than Kat Williams stand up. And it's definitely laced with hypocrisy.
 
I cannot tell you how many times gay men have told me that bisexuality doesn't exist. Almost always angrily. 7 billion people on earth, and we're supposed to accept that sexuality is restricted to a 2-position switch? It's just silly. And I always get a laugh out of the dead-opposite stereotypes in the gay community- bi women are really straight but trying to be trendy, bi men are really gay but keeping one foot in the closet.

When I was 18, I fell in love with a man. Came out to my family as gay, was shamed, scorned, cast out, haven't talked to my dad in twenty years, all of it. It was hard as hell to go through, but it wasn't actually all that hard to face. I knew I couldn't hide it from them and didn't particularly want to.

Coming out to my gay friends as bi a few years later, on the other hand, was hard to face. I couldn't deny my attraction for women, didn't particularly want to, but I knew full well that I'd lose some of them as friends. And so it was.

I know there are a lot of 'bi' guys who are, in fact, simply afraid to accept that they're gay. But there are a hell of a lot who aren't afraid of a damned thing. Who are actually, you know, BI. It doesn't matter whether it's genetic programming or socialization. Doesn't matter. The fact is that for whatever reason some of us respond to people, not plumbing.

The men who don't want anything to do with a cock that goes near fish, well, their loss. I have a really handsome cock. And the more serious haters are just pathetic hypocrites. "Not exactly like me=bad" is something I expect to associate with republicans, not queers.

Okay, high horse dismounted.
 
Apologies, raven, although for the record I was mocking those who'd used the term derogatorily. I certainly don't mean it the way it may sound. Should have put the word in quotes.
 
BRIOHAZARD said:
Congratulations!

Now you know how us gay guys feel when a straight man or woman finds out we like the butt sex. ..|
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Ummm...do you think a bi guy feels differently when experiencing the same thing?
 
gaydude65 said:
Sorry to hear you had to go through that kind of rejection twice. Out of curiosity, why didn't you come out to your gay friends as bi from the start? Did you not realize you were bi at the time, or were you just afraid they wouldn't accept you?
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Didn't realize it. That first same-sex romance was so powerful that when he and our gay friends kept telling me that there was no bi, that it was just some lingering fear of my sexuality, I bought it. Took me a while to accept that the attraction for women just wasn't going to go away.

Ironic in that I dated a woman on the sly for a while, without telling my friends. Which meant I actually had the opposite experience of a lot of men on their way to accepting their sexuality.

Would have been a lot easier for me to just be gay. It's true even now to an extent. Although, of course, I do acknowledge that we're talking about degrees here. Gay men may socially ostracize you for being bi, but they're not going to jump you in the alley out back. Never think I'm whining.
 
People who think bisexuals are just "gays in denial" are fucking ignorant. Kinsey rolls in his grave.

But I really believe all the stories about how all the bisexual men you've dated talked nonstop about vagina, I really do.
 
ronnie_h said:
1. I love to suck dick... and I KNOW how to do it! BUT... If it just remotedly smells like fish you can go and practise self-sucking. :badgrin:

Want me to continue? ;)
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Well, I expect anyone I have sex with to BATHE!
 
maybe women open up a different world that i dont understand or want to be involved with. what would be worse than competing with a woman for another man?

if the woman wins, you are gonna feel its because you are gay, when it has nothing to do with that.

its about perceptions - and i have trouble understanding opposite sex relationships as im sure they would have the same trouble understanding same sex ones.

i just need to work on same sex relationships, and not have to think about opposite sex ones if my bisexual friend has had one or does have one. i dont want to know or become involved in some babys daddy scenario where i have to keep track of a million things. having a relationship with a bisexual man would be like dating a woman. but then again i dont want to know if your bisexual or gay or straight, it doesnt matter to me.
 
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