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You all should date women

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Yeah dating a woman is really amazing when it comes to outside physical attraction. But also I don't date woman a lot solely because I am into guys as well.
 
I have an attraction to women as well. But a lot of women, esp black women, won't date a guy who has been with another guy, so I make the choice to date men only and I stick to it.
 
I guess as a newbie and having never been in a relationship with a guy, I am unaware of their set of games.

But damn I am glad I don't have to be with a girl. Chicks are crazy! Much rather keep things as friends with a girl.
 
The women I've dated were a lot less complicated than the men.
 
I've dated women and even been married so I would agree with some of what you write; some I would have to disagree.

The hardest thing that I have had to deal with since coming out and admitting I was gay (some say I was probably bi but if I was, I am not now!) is the ability to hold hands, to kiss in public, to sit and cuddle on a bus, a plane, or anyplace in public. Being gay in DC does allow me to do those things when on 17th street or in Dupont Circle; sometimes even on the mall. But usually you have to show restraint and act like two "friends" more than two lovers and for that I am disappointed.

I could take my wife anyplace with me on travels and no one would say a thing. Let me bring my boyfriend and tongues are sure to wag. At the point I have a steady boyfriend, I am going to take him with me on trips; to those that hired me it would mean nothing but I'm sure others will find it something to gossip about!

As to women being easier .... you have not heard of "that time of the month" or menopause! Ha...ha... Plus my ex was extremely controlling on top of all the emotional roller coasters.

One thing that was nice...no need for lube ..! LOL!
 
>>>The only issue I have is that I still am attracted to other men. I have no idea how I will be able to keep my physical and sexual urges toward other guys in check while I'm dating a girl.

I don't know, but it looks like you've already discovered the answer to that.

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I_Just_Blew_My_Load86 said:
The only issue I have is that I still am attracted to other men. I have no idea how I will be able to keep my physical and sexual urges toward other guys in check while I'm dating a girl. Same thing goes for if I were to date a guy, but I feel the affect is more severe when dating a female. At this point, I'm at a loss of what I should do.
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If you're anything like me, then the attraction to men is going to increase as you get older and the one towards women will decrease.
 
I_Just_Blew_My_Load86 said:
The only issue I have is that I still am attracted to other men. I have no idea how I will be able to keep my physical and sexual urges toward other guys in check while I'm dating a girl. Same thing goes for if I were to date a guy, but I feel the affect is more severe when dating a female. At this point, I'm at a loss of what I should do.
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Why don't you think you'll be able to keep your "urges" in check? Are you saying you don't think you can remain faithful in any relationship?

I'm quite honestly curious because I've never really understood someone's thought process when they make a comment like that.
 
If you were dating a man and were comfortable with your sexuality you could show physical attraction in public without caring what people think.
 
billybob109 said:
If you were dating a man and were comfortable with your sexuality you could show physical attraction in public without caring what people think.
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Exactly----If you are comfortable with yourself, you won't care what others think. If this is the only reason you are dating girls, then you are dating them for the wrong reason. You say that people in the gay world are not as accepting of differences as in the straight world. If this is true, then you are just hanging around with the wrong people, because I have NEVER found this to be the case. If you are dating girls out of social pressure to be "normal", then you need to realize that there is no "normal". It sounds hokey, but once you are accepting of yourself, others with better accept you. I've worked with many guys who were initially weirded out about me being gay, but after working with me a while and realizing I felt that I was just as "normal" as they were, they were soon pretty accepting of it.
 
JOHNLKSGUYS said:
Exactly----If you are comfortable with yourself, you won't care what others think. If this is the only reason you are dating girls, then you are dating them for the wrong reason. You say that people in the gay world are not as accepting of differences as in the straight world. If this is true, then you are just hanging around with the wrong people, because I have NEVER found this to be the case. If you are dating girls out of social pressure to be "normal", then you need to realize that there is no "normal". It sounds hokey, but once you are accepting of yourself, others with better accept you. I've worked with many guys who were initially weirded out about me being gay, but after working with me a while and realizing I felt that I was just as "normal" as they were, they were soon pretty accepting of it.
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John is so right! I think people in the gay community are more accepting of differences than straights. In my opinon, it seems that interracial dating is more popular among gays than it is straights. ALOT of straight people still think it is bad and think that interracial couples should not have kids b/c they will be fucked up, which is so far from the truth. Plus, dating in the straight world is so much more strict. Girls put so much pressure on guys to marry fast and have kids. Girls seem like control freaks to me.Thats why most married men say the woman wears the pants in the house lol.
 
Dating women can be a lot easier in terms of "social acceptance" and you might get a lot less unwanted stares in public BUT on a deeper level, you will encounter very similar issues with women just as you would with men. There would be ups and downs in a straight relationship, nor is there a guarantee that straight couples will last forever. Relationships can only work if and when both pull their weight to build and maintain it regardless of their sex.
 
It would be easier but Girls just dont have the sexual energy guys have. Having had both the sex is by far easier with a girl though.
 
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