Your opinion about Trans?

[magicdick]

Hi there.
I hope you all doing good today, I know this is not the best place for ask this type of question, after all, this is a gay forum but I want to read your opinions about trans people, their movement and what experiences you had with these people.

Go all out if you want to rant, I will happily read all your answers

Never been with a trans, but would love it. I just love getting naked and making love to men and women: fucking and sucking and kissing with lots of cum or pussy juice or both. A trans would be awesome.

 

[magicdick]

this subject is tricksie. Ive read some posts and tried to listen and be open to reframing my perspective, become more 'informed' and certainly more aware, but I also need to have reliable exposure and the chance to have conversations. TBH this kind of discussion is one of the main reasons I sought out the JUB Forums in the 1st place. (eye candy has been a huge bonus).
I can't stomach newsfeeds, because there is TOO Much information, FAKE information or SLANTED and the media are (IMO) more Spin Doctors, Info-Lobbyists, and Propagandists (I feel strongly about it, yeah).

I get made uncomfortable by the folks within our community who take such offense at innocent misgendering. I have not recognized an individual's 'preferred' pronoun accidently and received such condemnation for my lack of awareness. But people are people; I remember the times before when some folks who had hairstyles that made gender identification errors more plausible would get offended when misgendered.

If I were to unintentionally screw up someone's preferred pronoun and they condemned me, I'd tell them to "take a chill pill". I speak euphemistically.

 

[aethelreddansforth]

I'd have sex with trans women and enjoy it.
they're people, like me or anybody else.
hating them is cruel. as much as hating anybody for their race, gender, religion, sex, etc. is cruel.
yes, lgbt is grouped together, and being gay or bi isn't the same as being trans. however, they clearly ar just trying to live their lives the best they see fit and correcting their minds and outer bodies.

that though is distinct from the wider trans lobby.
all this shit of xenogenders is cringe. as is the bathroom discourse, and self-ID. society isn't ready for self-ID.

 

[magicdick]

I'd have sex with trans women and enjoy it.
they're people, like me or anybody else.
hating them is cruel. as much as hating anybody for their race, gender, religion, sex, etc. is cruel.
yes, lgbt is grouped together, and being gay or bi isn't the same as being trans. however, they clearly ar just trying to live their lives the best they see fit and correcting their minds and outer bodies.

that though is distinct from the wider trans lobby.
all this shit of xenogenders is cringe. as is the bathroom discourse, and self-ID. society isn't ready for self-ID.

Right on, baby. Hate is hate no matter where directed.

 

[Enigmaticat]

While I consider myself a cis bisexual male, I technically am pansexual. I just hate splitting hairs, I consider pansexuals pickier bisexuals.

Anywho, transexual people are just like everyone else to me. Unfortunately depending on your outward appearance I may accidentally use an incorrect pronoun. If I'm uncertain I will usually default to they/them, but if the wrong one slips I hope to simply be corrected.

I try to be respectful of all people, regardless of age, race, sex, social standing and beliefs. Though people with large egos, willful ignorance, and narcissistic tendencies get on my nerves.

I'm technically married to transgender person. My partner is male to female, but still fairly early in the transition. At home and alone I use female pronouns, not out of shame or fear, but laziness to tell the truth. Having to explain trans things is a chore and I hate repeating myself. My partner is very lax about it, they don't get offended or mad at words. We both understand we aren't the norm and we usually keep to ourselves. I feel truly lucky to have such a wonderful wife.

Sex wise, I've had sex with all kinds of people. As long as we connect, with a decent amount of physical attraction of course, I can usually overlook things I'm usually not into. I've had sex with MtF, FtM, gender fluid, non binary, and hell asexual friends. We're all people with needs and urges. Labels don't change that to me.

 

[Chris803]

Your opinion is uninformed.

Well you didnt say anything as to why? Care to share. If people don't like your option your lost.

 

[Chris803]

But that's also part of the problem. There's a lot of empiric examples but not a lot of objective research. You are correct that puberty is inevitable for the majority of people but the body matures much sooner than the brain. YouTube and TikTok have become more of a source for information because medical research has lagged behnd and in some cases, is being suppressed by the polar ends of the activists: on one extreme the most strident of the trans community who want medical solutions but don't want to be considered a medical problem; and on the other end, the evangelicals who are determined to suppress everything LGBT-related.


And this is why we are where we are. Telling someone that they are uninformed isn't accomplishing much beyond shutting down discussion. People only get informed by learning about the experience of other people but to have those exchanges, both sides have to be willing to listen and not shut down the other person.

That's what you did. Might as well said you're dismissed. Then you speak about listening and not shut down others. You cant have exchanges with dismissals.

 

[curiousbob]

I treat everyone the same, There are people I am happy to spend time with. and a few that I'm not.
The people who expect me to know their pronoun usually get a shock. At 55 years of age I'm not tiptoeing through the time I have left, just to satisfy someone else's self importance.

 

[KaraBulut]

That's what you did. Might as well said you're dismissed. Then you speak about listening and not shut down others. You cant have exchanges with dismissals.

Thank you for providing an example of the problem that I described.

 

[Franco Verum]

I have a trans friend I did a collab with on a YouTube post, a Real Doll

I've only had one bad experience.
I defended a trans girl influencer on her YouTube channel and man! It was a blood bath. I was fighting all these trans haters and not one trans girl stepped in to say anything.
It's like, "This is not my fight, but here I am fighting for you against all these dogs and not one of you can be bothered to have my back?"
I was pissed.

 

[magicdick]

I have a trans friend I did a collab with on a YouTube post, a Real Doll

I've only had one bad experience.
I defended a trans girl influencer on her YouTube channel and man! It was a blood bath. I was fighting all these trans haters and not one trans girl stepped in to say anything.
It's like, "This is not my fight, but here I am fighting for you against all these dogs and not one of you can be bothered to have my back?"
I was pissed.

You don't mention the sexual orientation of the haters. Hetero? Gay? Bi? In the long run, it doesn't matter. Cowards all.

I am not a hater. I am not cut from the cloth. I stand with the underdog all the time. I would have joined the battle.

[I am bi, but have the proclivities of transsexual. Keeping a long story short. I BECOME A WOMAN EMOTIONLLY WHEN I AM WITH MY MEN. (Yes, plural. I am promiscuous.) I LONG FOR BREASTS AND A VAGINA. I BEG MY MEN TO BREED ME.]

You have all the right to be pissed.

 

[Franco Verum]

You don't mention the sexual orientation of the haters. Hetero? Gay? Bi? In the long run, it doesn't matter. Cowards all.

I am not a hater. I am not cut from the cloth. I stand with the underdog all the time. I would have joined the battle.

[I am bi, but have the proclivities of transsexual. Keeping a long story short. I BECOME A WOMAN EMOTIONLLY WHEN I AM WITH MY MEN. (Yes, plural. I am promiscuous.) I LONG FOR BREASTS AND A VAGINA. I BEG MY MEN TO BREED ME.]

You have all the right to be pissed.

All straight men. This was years ago before the the tide started to turn against trans and queer inclusion in the LGBTQ moniker.