Your own Definition of "Bisexual"

[Taralen]

what is bisexuality?

Female bisexuality or male bisexuality?

Female bisexuality-a woman who loves both men and woman. 50% of them decide to go full lesbo later on. the other 50% decide to stick with men but still be attracted to other women.

male bisexuality-a straight man who finds some men attractive. this usually happens later on his life. 20s 30s. but usually marries a woman and has a family and never, unless in rare cases has an open relationship with a man.

what is not bisexuality

female-a woman who was dared to kiss another girl at a party, or had a threesome with another girl. that does not make her bisexual.

male-a gay guy who on the side thinks some women are attractive.

 

[Puddle]

I won't pretend to know anything about human sexuality, but I've always seen it like this: if you can confidently say that you're attracted to both genders, consistently and without hesitation, then you may not be completely heterosexual or homosexual; rare and incidental attractions to either gender would not necessarily push one into the "grey zone", though it is possible. Once said "grey zone" is reached, I tend to default to the label of "bisexual", unless indicated otherwise (I won't deny the existence of other, more intricate orientations, nor will I pretend to truly understand them).

As for the physical / emotional matter, I've always used the sexual / romantic perspective, i.e. neither one has any bearing on the other. One may be both heteroromantic and homosexual, as I once was (though I now consider myself homoromantic). Having said that, I understand why some would prefer not to separate the two.

But hey, that's just me. I still have a lot to learn on the matter...

 

[Asenath]

To be totally confusing - everyone's bisexuality is different. Some people are comfortable having loving relationships with people of both genders. Some people are attracted to both, but only capable of having romantic relationships with one gender. Some people are just slutty. It's for each person to define his or her own bisexuality, and communicate it clearly.

 

[bulge]

A guy telling the world he is str8

 

[bulge]

I wouldn't drive through a bisexual community at night, either.

Your car will be swarmed by men desperate for sex, and if you stop they'll mercilessly take advantage of you...by refusing to exchange numbers afterwards and fleeing back to their homes before their wives get suspicious about why the jog is taking so long.

If you're ever caught between a rapist and a bisexual, run into the arms of the rapist, my mother always used to say. At least when he's finished with you, he might have the decency to put you out of your misery.

Then my father raped her one last time and chopped her head off, leaving him free to elope with his new boyfriend.

See what I mean? Bisexuals! Ya can't trust 'em!

Where is that place so that I can stop there at 3 o'clock in the morning?

 

[blackbeltninja]

I define it as sexual attraction where the physical gender* is irrelevant.

-d-
*Gender meaning sex, not the societal construct involving gender roles.