A farewell to JUB.

[Lefty]

Hey Ginny,

Once I've analized them

they stick hoping I'll blog them again

or lurk, seeking revenge...

right my blog victims?

 

[JOHN B]

I noticed, Shaman, that you took down all your pics. Now that you are staying will you put some back up again?

 

[LilBit]

Yeah, Pupi, show us your tits!

 

[Lefty]

Especially if you have any naked ones displaying your

testicles and your "post". When John goes out in his

overalls with his lap top in hand, your pics will help him

sow the fertile fields.

 

[JOHN B]

Lefty...did you know you are a perv? lol....

 

[Lefty]

YESSSS,

And with Bragging rights.

 

[fetaby]

If you want feedback you got to ask for it.

When you read someone else's post and it sparks a question or opinion, voice it.

As for pics? I stopped looking a long time ago. Please don't hold that against me.

I find myself reading your posts and getting the impression of a passive individual. But one who is incredibly compassionate and giving. You're good people, but around here good often gets overlooked. Don't be afraid to pop some corn.

 

[Sinestro]

I don't really know you that well, but if that's your choice then go for it. But sometimes peoples pics get overshadowed because others only see the latest pics. But if makes you feel any better, I think you're a great guy and definitely someone I'd like to know.

 

[Anders123]

Shaman, I can relate quite a lot to how you felt when you posted this thread, I often feel the same.

I've always been an 'under the radar' type of guy. I'm often forgotten and left out of social events, because I'm not the type of guy that 'you have to have around to have a good time', I'm not 'the life of the party'. That has really resonated with me, and so I tend to take it very personally when people don't reply to me or notice what I have to say. To me, it reaffirms the notion that I'm easily expendable, and that I don't have an impact on people.

It's incredibly frustrating and at times, I feel like my own worst enemy because of my ability to make myself feel like shit over nothing.

After recent events, I've noticed myself becoming increasingly needy for affirmation from others. It's natural to want to be acknowledged, but it's not worth sending yourself down a shame spiral when others, who aren't aware of your current emotional state, don't acknowledge you. It's easier said than done, I'm all too aware of that. I often find myself half way down a shame spiral before I even realize what I'm doing to myself. It's quite a difficult task to shift my perspective and remind myself not to place importance on, or wrap my self-esteem up in how often what I say gets noticed.

I'm glad you reached out instead of quietly slipping out the back door and making yourself feel worse when nobody noticed. I do that a lot, too. Sometimes we feel like people don't care, when they are just legitimately unaware. You'll be surprised how many people show they care when you express how you're really feeling.

I'm happy you decided to stick around

 

[NineOfClubs]

Shaman, I've wanted to leave JUB several times myself.

Some ass wipe would say something or leave a comment and I just wanted to say goodbye.

Then I would think of all the guys I've met in this virtual world and the dozens of JUB-bers I've met in real life, some of whom have become close friends, and I just couldn't go.

I say, give it more time. Stay awhile. Ignore the idiots. Treasure the "good guys".

 

[justaguy]

Shaman, I can relate quite a lot to how you felt when you posted this thread, I often feel the same.

I reckon most Jubbers feel the same. Everybody thinks that everybody else are really friendly with each other, but in reality most people are making posts that not many respond to. But your posts are read and everyone that has posted something I'm sure has had their ideas lodged into the minds of readers, even if it isn't acknowledged.

 

[Lefty]

This goes to each and all of you......

for god sakes people...take a number....

after all, there is only one of me

(franchises available financing negotiable)

Randy Andy....you take a seat. Soon as the

Koala bear talks you are in BIG trouble.

Leftys left overs now serving nu...m....b....e..

Shit some call the tower.. the recem..o.n is g..in....b

 

[castoono]

Shaman you're not alone. Now you'll need time to answer to all the attention. Then:

no, you don't sound like an attention whore at all. attention whores walk around with giant flags and pointy fingers screaming "look at me".

OUCH! That hurt so good (woof)

I'm gonna behave myself from now on, herr Corny, I promise. Yeah, whore that has to be me. I don't know any other one here.

 

[sixthson]

To me, it reaffirms the notion that I'm easily expendable, and that I don't have an impact on people.

We are all easily expendable. If and when we leave, we will be forgotten. That is how it works on the internet--press the reset button and you are gone and forgotten.
That does not mean you have no value, because you do.
It only means the internet is a a place without much depth or concern for others.

 

[Kyanimal]

Damn it, Shaman! (And all you other "Boys"!)

You've just reminded me why I've been addicted to this site for (Oh, Shit!) seven years!

JUB is defintitely MORE than "just" Porn! As someone recently pointed out, we are, indeed, an extended cyber Family! (As pervy as we may be! )

Glad to hear you've decided to hang in here, Buddy!

Of course ... no matter what ... and I do mean this Sincerely ...

Keep smiln'!!
Chaz

 

[Anders123]

We are all easily expendable. If and when we leave, we will be forgotten. That is how it works on the internet--press the reset button and you are gone and forgotten.
That does not mean you have no value, because you do.
It only means the internet is a a place without much depth or concern for others.

Indeed, perhaps my inferiority complex has no place on the internet, but the darn thing is so persistent, it follows me where ever I go

As for being forgotten, in my short time here there's already a few people that, even if they disappeared tomorrow, I wouldn't be forgetting any time soon, if ever. Though perhaps that's because I choose to view the person behind the screen name, rather than the screen name itself. People are people, whether right in front of you, or miles away behind a computer. I don't like the idea that people view the internet as a place where it's acceptable to be shallow and callous, though I suppose that's the reality of it.

ANYWAY -- I didn't mean to fish for sympathy in my post, we all have hangups and I deal with mine as best I can -- my post was actually intended as one of support to Shaman, perhaps I should leave out the personal rantings next time

 

[Lefty]

Damn it Shaman.

How much did he pay you?

Don't deny...we know you lie.

I was about to lock Randy Andy, the Masturbaetur of OZ, away for his outrageous
behaviow with 'Roos' in the Outback. But no, he got to you and you turned our Koala Bear eye witness into a polar bear and now he is going with the pervert
floe and icing our efforts.

Crikey man you've really pissed in the pockets of the Anti Micturation League
this time.When will you pseudo Ostrich types up north get your heads out of
the sand.

It is this armadillo like protection you monsters afford one another that is just
thwarting our efforts to flush out all deviated behavior patterns...OMG....OMG
Opinterph...seize him...take this shameful Shaman to the Tower. we now have
unpervertable proof of Witchcraft of Mass Destruction and that he is a closet gay
Tasmanian Devil with Kiwi fetishes....Summon Autolycus.....there is an Epic story here.

 

[Lefty]

Andy,

you did post while I was playing. If anyone here has a problem with what you said...the asshole...yes I said ASSHOLE has 2 of us to whine at or about.

I don't have an incredible number of friends here, but nobody fucks with them
just because they say something someone may not like.

I'm confident my friends, even the shy sweet quiet oe will back me here. You
are on my "ok to piss pass list" them Wailabys can just go bob for their own apples....
twats they are
and twats they be...
all the world wide
and across any sea.


Lefty the Pist.

 

[Anders123]

You confuse me Lefty Are you talking about people raising issue with my latest, or earlier post in this thread?

 

[Lefty]

Andy,

Ostrich breath...get your head out of the sand. You were the catalyst mate.

There are people here that love to piss on any and everyone that doesn't kiss
their ass or suck the cock of their reality.

These mental airbags that get their rocks off by being condescending or mean
or arrogant or some portion of the potpourri of foul behahavior.

I smash any and everybody as a prankster out to make people smile. Often
thre is a messege hidden in the massage (so to speak) Some of us garner a bit
of attention by being loud and drama queens. Some of us are here for the laughs
and some of us are here for the catharsis that a place like this can offer.

My feeling is if you want to play then play but don't cry if get thrown out at
third. If you want to learn...we are a library and answering service. Whatever
for whomever...I am just tired of the rain outs, the librarian that can't read
and the answering service that is on hold.

OOps, think I slipped my meds..............who moved my rock.
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