Am I the Only One Grossed Out by Barebacking?

[KaraBulut]

What a shame for all of you enfants.

I remember an age of sex without latex.

God. It was so hot.

I feel really, really sorry for an entire generation that has been raised to think of everything as a threat and in need of sanitization.

You remember it a little differently than I do.

I remember weekends where friends would disappear for days into the baths with a can of Crisco and poppers.

At the time, we thought that was liberation. In retrospect, we were just caged animals who were still stuck behind closed doors. We didn't dare hold hands or kiss in public. When you went out to the bars, you were always looking over your shoulder for a tire iron or a tossed beer bottle. Long term relationships were an anomaly. We considered the clap and urethritis to be a rite of passage. Marriage was something that never crossed our minds.

If the whole nightmare of the 80s did anything for us, it made us realize that this bullshit about Gay Pride Week was just another pipe dream. A week? I'm sorry- I want the whole fucking year. Straight people get the whole year- why should I settle for less?

^ post #9. I think it's very seldom acknowledged the ways in which the advent of HIV/AIDS twisted the sexual development of generations of us. I think we still haven't gotten stuff adjusted quite right. We should all play cautious and stay healthy, but it's not like a hefty price hasn't been paid.

Like everything else, it goes in cycles. It's just a little disillusioning to see a generation after us that seems to be more self-indulgent and reckless. But we had to learn, too.

 

[JasMuney]

I find it gross because it's an ass, and asses really never attracted me... at leats they're nice, but spreading them and shit :/

Apparently I have a lot to learn...

yea i agree...i never understood why some people are so sexually attracted to ass holes. I mean the actual butt is hot to me, but the hole, nawww

 

[gdude30]

This just in!

Being gay does not mean you have to have anal sex!

Just because culture says you have to, doesn't mean you have to.

But it feels so damn good.

And with people worried about shit or an ass being nasty. Just wash it and or use a water douche. That will clean it out completely if you use it right. And don't eat something like cheese before sex.

Really I don't see why people are so grossed out by it. I really wonder what it must have been like to bareback in the past and not have to worry about AIDS and it just being natural. I'm glad there is protection to fight against diseases now but still.

I suppose it was a trade off.

Apparently there is a reason why people to bareback though. You can see that it's the same with condoms but it probably isn't. I do applaud those who do find someone that they trust and both make the decision to bareback with each other.

Although than again it might not always be trust.

 

[ABoyNamedSue]

Even if AIDS was a non issue there are still scores of diseases you can catch though they may not be life threatening...

 

[josher]

^^Just before the AIDS crisis hit, there were alarming rates of hepatitis B and hepititis C (which at least at that time was incurable) infections among gay men. For a while there were even theories that the HIV virus' spread was related to hepatitis.

Hepititus in gay men is often contracted through contact with infected fecal matter by the tongue or a penis with a sore or open wound.

 

[undisclosed1234]

Hepititus in gay men is often contracted through contact with infected fecal matter by the tongue or a penis with a sore or open wound.

SHUT UP! It's hot. I pity you for not knowing the sexual liberty of hepatitis! Sit on my face and poop!

 

[rareboy]

Well thank goodness you can't get any diseases fucking a woman's cunt or swallowing semen.

Only from those nasty, dirty things that homosexuals do without protection.

 

[TygreBryte]

^^Just before the AIDS crisis hit, there were alarming rates of hepatitis B and hepititis C (which at least at that time was incurable) infections among gay men. For a while there were even theories that the HIV virus' spread was related to hepatitis.

Hepititus in gay men is often contracted through contact with infected fecal matter by the tongue or a penis with a sore or open wound.

I tired to get tested for Hep C a couple of years ago, and the tech who was doing it just refused, on the grounds that I wasn't describing any sexual events involving visible blood.

 

[josher]

^^I'm not sure what you're saying, but it's the fecal matter that contains the infected blood when hepatitis is spread in this way.

 

[USEDCAR]

A gay guy thats not into anal sex is as useful as a car with no engine

Bareback porn is much hotter then porn with a condom.

 

[gdude30]

A gay guy thats not into anal sex is as useful as a car with no engine

Bareback porn is much hotter then porn with a condom.

I don't find either of those true.

And I don't think bareback porn is really any hotter than with condoms.

It gets kind of outrageous too when people leave comments like "TAKE OFF THE FUCKING CONDOM"

It's kind of disturbing.

 

[KaraBulut]

^^I'm not sure what you're saying, but it's the fecal matter that contains the infected blood when hepatitis is spread in this way.

Just to clarify- Hepatitis A is transmissable through oral-anal contact, Hep B is transmissible through body fluid exchange during anal sex.

Hep C is almost always transmitted via blood exchange- most often through sharing needles during IV drug use. In theory, it's possible that Hep C can be sexually transmitted but it's not very common.

You were right about the Hep B connection though. Some of the first GRID (Gay Related Immunodeficiency- the old name for AIDS) studies that were done in the early 80s utilized blood samples drawn in Hep B vaccine studies.

A gay guy thats not into anal sex is as useful as a car with no engine

There are other threads here that discuss the fact that many gay men have a perfectly healthy sex life without anal play. They would argue that a gay guy who thinks that anal sex is a requirement just needs a more imagination.

 

[evandro456]

I've watched my share of barebacking vids, and i honestly find it hot. I like the idea of the rawness of it all. However when it comes to, i guess the aspect of how it all works, i'm a bit shaky.
So heres how it works right?
-You make out, blah, blah, blah
-Then comes the part, lubing the guy up
-What about eating out? Do you taste the guy's shit?
Isnt that unhealthy?
-Then comes the taking it. I have no problem taking a guy, however, what about after? When he comes? When he pulls out of you, and you want to take the cum? So you're technically eating your own crap and taking cum?
Anyone ever taste that stuff?
Any input, needed please. I just need a clear explanation of this all. Especially the pre-anal procedure. Could someone explain this please?

-thank you

 

[biguy732]

Gotta say - just have to wear the condom - always.

 

[bankside]

Being grossed out by anal sex au naturel only makes sense to me if you are also grossed out by anal sex itself.

Anyone who has ever picked up after their dog with one of those pooper scooper baggies will know that a thin piece of plastic doesn't really make you feel that much better about it.

But if anal sex reminds you of picking up after your dog, then you are doing it wrong.