Ask The Pornographer - 2016 Edition

[xboxfan34]

Too big? Oh come on, tell me you wouldn't want that nice bubble butt riding you endlessly until KER-SNAP, this happens.

 

[xboxfan34]

This is more of a gay community based question...

What advice would you give a gay man who is suffering from depression and/or considering suicide over not feeling good looking enough?

 

[Soilwork]

This is more of a gay community based question...

What advice would you give a gay man who is suffering from depression and/or considering suicide over not feeling good looking enough?

Oh, everybody thinks that. I've had some of the hottest porn stars tell me they feel ugly or average.

If you put too much stock in how you look, you're going to always feel inadequate. There's always someone with a better something.

 

[eastofeden]

Oh, everybody thinks that. I've had some of the hottest porn stars tell me they feel ugly or average.

If you put too much stock in how you look, you're going to always feel inadequate. There's always someone with a better something.

Words of wisdom...and it is the absolute truth. I had some of what are generally considered as the best looking guys on the planet sitting in this little corner seat at the bar waiting for me to come back so they could whine about their hair..or their skinny legs...or their big ears..or wrong nose..or...you name it.

You look like what you look like.....suck it up....there will be someone who thinks you are just perfect.....

 

[Soilwork]

Well and adding to that, the best looking people are often the least happy if the most important thing to them is their looks. If you have real interests and hobbies and a circle of real friends and you like to do things with your life aside from look in a mirror scanning for faults... You're going to have a life worth living.

I've tried to make sure my life is fun and interesting (to me) and I surround myself with people I like and I go out of my way to do the things I like to do. I love my music and books and my dogs. I like to mountain climb and hike and ride my bike.

I'm hardly a good role model, so I won't say "be like me," but my advice for everyone is to find the things you like to do and do them.

 

[rocabar]

Have you had any contact with stacy recently? How's she doing?

 

[jockofstrap]

Do you like to go docking?

 

[Soilwork]

Have you had any contact with stacy recently? How's she doing?

She's doing exceptionally well. Very happy. Haven't hung out for a while but we chat a lot

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Do you like to go docking?

Oh I wish I had a foreskin.

 

[Telstra]

Well and adding to that, the best looking people are often the least happy if the most important thing to them is their looks. If you have real interests and hobbies and a circle of real friends and you like to do things with your life aside from look in a mirror scanning for faults... You're going to have a life worth living.

I've tried to make sure my life is fun and interesting (to me) and I surround myself with people I like and I go out of my way to do the things I like to do. I love my music and books and my dogs. I like to mountain climb and hike and ride my bike.

I'm hardly a good role model, so I won't say "be like me," but my advice for everyone is to find the things you like to do and do them.

Good advice.
Basically selfish is good.
The rich and they donate things are the smart selfish ....

 

[Kyanimal]

She's doing exceptionally well. Very happy. Haven't hung out for a while but we chat a lot.

I doubt she'll remember me, but please send Stacy a HUG the next time you two might chat. And, let her know that she's sorely missed here on JUB!

 

[Stardust]

Why is it that some gay for pay actors are more willing to get fucked on camera but won't suck a dick?

 

[Soilwork]

Why is it that some gay for pay actors are more willing to get fucked on camera but won't suck a dick?

Every one of those men has their "yes" and "no" actions. Some would rather suck a dick than kiss. Some would rather get fucked than suck a dick. I stopped trying to figure those things out. One straight guy I worked with would do it all but said he would only work with gay guys because they didn't judge him for having sex with a guy. Yes that sounds dumb, but I got good scenes out of it so I let him have the scene partners he wanted.

 

[xboxfan34]

Have you ever looked at a script for a gay porno movie where the submissive bottom has to cry and say "no" when he's getting fucked by the top and you said "No. I'm not doing this. This is literally depicting rape."

 

[Soilwork]

Have you ever looked at a script for a gay porno movie where the submissive bottom has to cry and say "no" when he's getting fucked by the top and you said "No. I'm not doing this. This is literally depicting rape."

I mean... I write all my own scripts, so there's no danger of that happening.

I also think that would be a violation of most billing company's terms.

I don't necessarily have a moral objection to depicting forced sex since it's all just acting... but I don't find it to be a turn on.

 

[Latimer]

^

I find the fantasy of forced sex to be a major turn on. Obviously, I'm not the only one.

I've had the good fortune to be fantasy raped on numerous occasions. My first fuck was a fantasy rape.

The one time I was actually raped I didn't want it and didn't enjoy it--until the next day when in retrospect it seemed really hot. What had been a moderately bad experience had become a very good memory.

Life can be like that.

 

[rareboy]

So, apropos of another thread.....would you film ass to mouth?

Or felching?

 

[Soilwork]

^

I find the fantasy of forced sex to be a major turn on. Obviously, I'm not the only one.

I've had the good fortune to be fantasy raped on numerous occasions. My first fuck was a fantasy rape.

The one time I was actually raped I didn't want it and didn't enjoy it--until the next day when in retrospect it seemed really hot. What had been a moderately bad experience had become a very good memory.

Life can be like that.

You'll get no judgements from me, let your freak flag fly.

 

[Soilwork]

So, apropos of another thread.....would you film ass to mouth?

Or felching?

Considering I won't even shoot bareback anymore... that would be hard to do.



BTW... what I just said is bound to get the people on the many "I hate Jasun" sites and blogs out there to fly into a rage.

Yes, I shot bareback for Jake Cruise. Few people took notice that under my directing.... we went from a 100% Bareback and over the course of 3 years, evolved into a 100% condom site. That was by design. I did that.

Jake decided he wanted to go back to bareback and I had moved on to a new job within 2 weeks. I don't know why anyone didn't put the pieces together considering how close some people watch what I do... but there you go.


....of course I recently saw a thread on one of the "I hate Jasun" sites where they ranted for pages and pages about what I "liar" I am and then followed that up with lies like "Jasun has been open about being HIV+" (totally untrue, I can find comments I have made here going back to 2006 talking about how I'm HIV- and if you want, you can watch my public Facebook, my two blogs, my Twitter where I have mentioned more than a few times that I'm HIV-) or "Jasun says he has sex with his models" (totally untrue and I have said the opposite many times here) or "Jasun is a drug addict" (complete fabrication) and "Jasun said he had sex with 100 men in one night" (clearly just pulled out of someone's ass). If you're going to accuse me of being a "liar," maybe it's not such a good idea to then publish a lot of slander and libel that can easily be screen-grabbed for.... proof later... if need be.


We now return you to our normally scheduled "Ask the pornographer" that some people read religiously but complain exists.

 

[eastofeden]

Speaking of the shit that comes along with the job....the crap people say and their obsession with "hating you" which is kinda creepy and bizarre...do you ever want to burst out laughing?

I had some of those people when I bartended...anyone who bartends more than a year is going to attract them. I remember one night after the music was off this one guy who was looking at me with moony eyes all night had this other guy I had never seen before sit next to him and wanted to pick him up..and when he realized the guy wanted me and had asked me for a "date"..he proceeded to tell him I was HIV+ and had alot of other diseases as well....and I wanted to laugh so hard....but I bit my tongue because I was going to decline the moony eyed guy's invitation anyway so he took care of it for me....

When I read that shit about you..I hardly even know you but the little I know..you're upfront and honest so it is obvious they were making it all up...to me anyway....

So...does it ever make you laugh?

 

[xboxfan34]

Why the hell do people hate you? You've been nothing but nice to me and pretty much everyone else here.