Bottoms that don't get hard.

[sshadow84]

I love a bottom's cock in both states - it's kinda hot when he's flaccid & it's flapping around as he's getting his ass pounded but I love it when a guy is rock hard whilst getting fucked too. Just seems to suggest that he's really enjoying himself!

 

[nijnij]

In my culture it is considered offensive if the bottom does not get hard because it is seen as though he does not throughly enjoy it.

 

[HornyHenry]

Whether or not the bottom got hard, most enjoyed being bottoms and I enjoyed fucking them. Some bottoms I fucked were turned on enough to cum from getting fucked by me.
Some bottoms got hard from taking it in the mouth.
A few bottoms dont enjoy the act but they will put-out to fulfill their obligation to the Top.
I've read of punks getting hard when turned-out in jail as well as bottoms who loved getting fucked but never hardened.
Many agree that the bottom's purpose is to service the Top and give him an enjoyable piece and a Top's purpose is to use bottoms for his own sexual pleasure. A bottom who wants to put his own feelings, etc. first can ruin a Top's experience. Of course many bottoms get their own pleasurefrom being sexually used by Tops.

 

[Reality101]

I don't have much experience with men, but the times that I was fucked I was ROCK hard and precumming everywhere. I couldn't touch my dick and didn't let the guy touch it because I was sure I'd cum and I wanted him to keep fucking me it felt so good. Also, when my gf fucks me with a strap on, I am rock hard too. A few times she turned me on so much with dirty talk and foreplay that I had a mindblowing orgasm when she penetrated me. I get hard just thinking about it in the ass. It's so fucking good

 

[bottomboy69]

i've stayed soft, and i've been hard when being fucked.

 

[gwmasiahk]

I've fucked with a big dicked 8inch Chinese btm, when I fuck him he is soft all the way throughout and not concerned about cumming for himself, he tells me his enjoyment is internal. If I ride his cock, (he will not fuck) I can ride him for hours, he tells me he has no feeling for cumming!!! He only comes when I jack him off whilst sucking his nipples!!

 

[MartyyRobs21]

I find it extremely hot when a bottom is soft. I Love love love when a guy cums without being touched, makes me think the top has amazing dick skills

 

[cocksucker4use]

After not getting fucked for a long time, I have gotten into it again, and vice versa. Frankly, when i was younger as a bottom i stayed hard, now i go flacid pretty much when penetrated and stay that way for like a half hour or so after he's done....have come to enjoy gettin it and feelin the hole experience and not to worry about my cummin....let's me play longer and with multiple tops, just like being an oral bottom.....and....have come to appreciate my anus a my primary sex organ.

 

[benji1607]

Hmmm when a big cock is deep inside me, stretching me open and hitting my prostate over and over... IMPOSSIBLE to stay flacid!

That said, I get the whole submissive thing so I usually make a habit of not jacking myself when I am being fucked. I like whoever is fucking me to know they are doing it well by cumming hands free

 

[CallMeHTD]

Glad to see this thread resurge. As I've said already, I find both soft and flacid dicks a total fucking turn-on. I've toped guys who were submissive, and topped guys that were really aggressive. Variety (in sex) is the spice of life.

But on a personal level, I find the idea of being a bottom who's only sexual purpose is to provide the top an orifice for the tops orgasm hot beyond words. And I love the almost romantic notion of the bottom getting so much pleasure from the tops actual orgasm that the bottom doesn't even have to achieve one himself! In other words, that orgasm is shared, but only the top gets to have the physical one. The bottom, being in service, only gets to ride the momentum and force that the tops orgasm brings. This is something I've personally experienced as a bottom. For me, that's a sexual ultimate. And few other experiences I've had come close to the wonderment that this one brought!

 

[miatajim]

Don't bottom a lot(90% top). But can be soft or hard when getting fucked, depends on the position, my mood etc. On my back mostly hard and jerking off, try and time it right, on my stomach I don't worry about it. Hey round 2 is coming

 

[CallMeHTD]

Nuts, the thread I wrote two posts up, I meant to say "I find both soft and erect cocks hot a total fucking turn on" (on a bottom.)

 

[presario1000]

I find the bigger the dick the more likely it is i'll stay soft

 

[bnabottom]

But my boyfriend now though is a really dominant top (which I do love ), and he totally gets off on me being as submissive as possible when he's fucking me. He loves the fact that I'm a lot smaller than he is. He loves the fact that his cock is bigger when soft than mine is when hard. He loves the fact that I'm always willing when he's in the mood. He love my arse, and he loves my hole! But what he really doesn't like is me getting hard while I'm getting fucked...

I now totally love the fact that I can just concentrate on his big cock inside me, and devote myself to giving him as great an experience as possible, without having to worry about my own arousal, or interrupting things by cumming.

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Zoopee I completely understand and am envious of you for this--great relationship and truly a hot expression of the top/bottom dichotomy

 

[wolfypdx]

I usually don't get hard when getting fucked, and I usually like it that way - not being hard lets me concentrate on the sensations in my ass, and on what I can do to help my guy enjoy himself even more.

 

[zabien]

I'am a bottom...and the only time I do not get hard is in the beginning if the dude's cock is over 11" and super thick. It takes time to work its way then I will start to get aroused.

 

[clark8]

So I've kind of had to adapt to satisfy him - ultimately his pleasure is far more important to me than whether I'm hard or not. So now he usually has me jack myself off to orgasm while I'm getting clean and ready for sex, which means I'm usually totally soft for him. It took quite a lot of getting used to doing things in that order, and it was a bit uncomfortable at first, but I now totally love the fact that I can just concentrate on his big cock inside me, and devote myself to giving him as great an experience as possible, without having to worry about my own arousal, or interrupting things by cumming.

Afterwards, I'm usually quite content just to enjoy that incredibly satisfying feeling you can only get when your ass has been well and truly fucked by a gorgeous guy, and filled with his sweet cum. Sometimes he jacks me off afterwards, but mostly he just settles down and cuddles me. So I suppose the satisfaction I get from anal sex now isn't really focused on my own orgasm but on the pleasure of his cock filling my hole to bursting, and on seeing and feeling just how much enjoyment he's getting from topping me. He loves that, and so do I.

(Looking back I'm kind of embarrassed how selfish I was at times in the past when bottoming to be honest! I used to always stop guys from fucking me once I came, which thinking about it was really unfair )

This is an interesting point and somehow you are right. I also don't want to be fucked any longer after I came. But I could never imagine to come while l clean myself and then beeing fucked by a guy.

 

[wolfypdx]

So I suppose the satisfaction I get from anal sex now isn't really focused on my own orgasm but on the pleasure of his cock filling my hole to bursting, and on seeing and feeling just how much enjoyment he's getting from topping me.

What a wonderful way of looking at it. I often worry that I don't get hard while being fucked, but when it comes down to it, I don't have to be hard - he's enjoying my ass, and I'm enjoying his cock.

 

[rubberGay]

I start being hard when i suck or being fucked, but have a tendency of becoming limp during the sex session, as a bottom i assume that initally i am so sexually aroused i become hard, but as i suck or am fucked become flacid as i get what i want!

 

[MyReply]

Being topped is really not the most comfortable (or pleasent) feeling in the world. It can be awkward and/or downright painful. So it makes sense when guys are flaccid when their asshole is being continually jabbed.