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Exactly. Two white twinks meet in California, fall in love and move in together for 6 years but didn't get a civil union, domestic partnership, or get married -- all of which were available to them under CA law. Then when one of them died in an accident, the homophobic parents of the deceased took away their possessions and refused to allow the partner at the funeral. I know about the story.
This only adds to my argument......if they had chosen to GET a domestic partnership or gay marriage (which were already legal in CA), the homophobic parents COULDN'T have done what they did. If they chose not to avail themselves of their legal options, as sad as what happened, it is their fault.
Their story is sad NOT because gay marriage/domestic partnerships weren't legal in CA (because they were), but because they didn't exercise their legal options.
It's no different than if a man and a woman shack up as boyfriend & girlfriend for years but never get married. If one of them died, the law would treat them as roommates, not as a married couple.
But even if the gay couple lived in Texas (or somewhere without gay marriage as an option), they could have still protected their assets, property, right to make decisions on each others behalf IF they went to a lawyer and drew up all the paperwork.
(P.S. You know as well as anyone else that movie would have never been made if the story was about two gay fat hairy men of color. Two cute Abercrombie & Fitch looking twinks..............Tribeca & Sundance here we come!)
BTW....it never ceases to amaze me how little Jqueer knows about the country he lives in.
Common-law marriage in the United States can still be contracted in nine states (Alabama, Colorado, Kansas, Rhode Island, South Carolina, Iowa, Montana, Utah and the District of Columbia. New Hampshire recognizes common-law marriage for purposes of probate only, and Utah recognizes common-law marriages only if they have been validated by a court or administrative order.[1] Common-law marriage can no longer be contracted in 27 states, and was never permitted in 13 states. The requirements for a common-law marriage to be validly contracted differ from state to state. Nevertheless, all states—including those that have abolished the contract of common-law marriage within their boundaries—recognize common-law marriages lawfully contracted in those jurisdictions that permit it.[2] Some states that do not recognize common law marriage also afford legal rights to parties to a putative marriage (i.e. in circumstances when someone who was not actually married, e.g. due to a failure to obtain or complete a valid marriage license from the proper jurisdiction, believed in good faith that he or she was married) that arise before a marriage's invalidity is discovered.
While a number of U.S. states recognize either same-sex marriage, or domestic partnerships with the same legal incidents, as marriage, no U.S. state except Iowa and Rhode Island, where the law is untested, currently recognizes same sex common-law marriages. The Federal Defense of Marriage Act permits any state to not recognize same-sex marriages from another state, but the federal government will recognize them.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Common-law_marriage_in_the_United_States
While common law relationships are not universal in the US....there are a number of jurisdictions where common law relationships are available to heterosexual couples...but not to homos.
In case after case where Jqueer tries to argue that homos have the exact same rights as the heteros....his examples have constantly been demonstrated to prove the opposite case...that the US is riddled with laws that discriminate against homos in state after state.









