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Do you think gay culture is oversexed?

Do you think gay culture is too sexualised?

  • Yes it is

    Votes: 33 46.5%

  • A little

    Votes: 18 25.4%

  • No it's not

    Votes: 20 28.2%
  • Total voters
    71
Gay culture is oversexed IMO purely because all parties involved are men, and as we know, men are much more sexual creatures than women on average. It's no wonder that gay men got their reputation of being promiscuous.
 
RestlessDevil said:
Gay culture is oversexed IMO purely because all parties involved are men, and as we know, men are much more sexual creatures than women on average. It's no wonder that gay men got their reputation of being promiscuous.
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Swellegant said:
I voted "a little" but I like it that way. It could be even more sexualized and I'd like it.

As some have said already, mainstream culture has a horrible attitude toward sex: SEX BAD, VIOLENCE GOOD. A few years ago, somebody had Robert Dole on a radio show, where he was airing his opinion that there was too much sex coming out of Hollywood and infesting the TV, that the media should be creating more family-friendly fare. The deejay asked Dole what movies he likes. Dole said, without a pause, "Braveheart. That was a great movie." A movie so violent that it made me sick to my stomach (and I have a pretty high violence threshhold) is better than a movie where people give each other pleasure? I don't get that mentality.

But there's also this myth that women don't care about sex, only about love. I think it's probably true that women don't care as much about marketed sex, they certainly don't buy much porn; but they aren't flocking to the Twilight movies because Jakub and Edward love Bella so much... it's because Jakub and Edward are fucking hot.

But anyway, the women have this myth, and they tend to stick to it; and their men have to tone down their sexualization of everything because they have to fit into the myth in order to get the girl.

Gay men, however, don't have to, so we're free to be as nasty as we want to be. Just as nasty as the straight guys would be if they weren't being enforced by the mythologies of religion and women's sexuality to act like eunuchs in public.

However, the reason I voted "a little bit" is that we too frequently allow the pleasures of sex to distract us from our political responsibilities to each other. We often find that the only people who care about politics are the ones who aren't having any sex. That's the only criticism I have.
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I agree with this post.

I also think its not just gay men, its everybody. And I like that way.
 
I think gay culture used to be oversexed, but no so much anymore. If anything, gay men are fixated on money, status, and things. It's If it was just about sex on the scene today, that would make things more simpler and more basic. But that era has passed in our community.
 
BabiGayPimp said:
I think gay culture used to be oversexed, but no so much anymore. If anything, gay men are fixated on money, status, and things. It's If it was just about sex on the scene today, that would make things more simpler and more basic. But that era has passed in our community.
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lucky7 said:
oversexed? Hell no.

We are sexual beings and society has tried to deny that but it won't work.
Gay guys are just more open and overt about it.
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I dont think that gay culture as a whole is overly focussed on sex, but, I do think that it is stereotyped that we are
 
I dont think its oversexed, i think straight culture is undersexed....so by comparing it, it makes us look oversexed...
 
No. I was just talking about this with my guy the other day over dinner. We agreed that general culture is undersexed, too uptight about it, and sexuality ends up coming out in bursts of irresponsible behaviour, or it just gets repressed so much that people's lives are lacking needlessly.

I do however think that gay male culture is under-romanced, and under-personalized. Male culture in general (including gay male culture) has a problem not with too much sex, but with too much depersonalization.

How many gay people do you know that divide the world into "friends" and "lovers?" They actually can't be friends with someone they sleep with, and they can't have sex with someone they care about.

I think it is because men are more vulnerable to each other emotionally than macho culture would let us admit, so we end up compartmentalizing people into one category or the other to limit the damage we open ourselves up to.

Kinda sad really.
 
"But anyway, the women have this myth, and they tend to stick to it; and their men have to tone down their sexualization of everything because they have to fit into the myth in order to get the girl.

Gay men, however, don't have to, so we're free to be as nasty as we want to be. Just as nasty as the straight guys would be if they weren't being enforced by the mythologies of religion and women's sexuality to act like eunuchs in public."

A good point. But both men and women play into the myth. That's not a criticism, merely an observation.
Culturally, women have a far greater responsibility for children, so we expect them to be sober and mature in all aspects. It isn't men's fault, some of our harshest critics are fellow women, when we "stray" from the path. A woman who loves, relishes, her sexuality is almost invariably thought of as a whore. If she has children, it's even worse...
Men, on the other hand, being essentially "boys" are given a pass for acting out their desires. They are, after all, beasts in human skin. And we, as women, have to control these unruly souls. It's our job.
That's why you hear so many men say their wives became more like their mothers after a few years of marriage. Especially after children come. And why so many seek the company of other men. Not usually in a sexual way, but frequently enough.
Maybe gay men seem more sexual because heterosexual relationships settle into routine faster. And our roles more strictly defined. Maybe men can be freer with each other than they can be with us.
 
Yes. I sometimes feel the gay lifestyle is a little cold, uncaring, and insensitive. It seems to be about sex and nothing else.

If I were to try and hook up with a guy someday, for example, and say I told him that I'd like to spend some time touching him and feeling him and kissing him, like on his chest, etc. - well, I doubt he'd go for that, and I'd be laughed at, most likely.

I dunno, I just feel that some guys are probably not very considerate or thoughtful to others that aren't as far along the road, sexually speaking, as they are.
 
I don't think it's a gay thing, I think it's a guy thing. Gay or straight, men only have one thing on their mind...
 
If it is, it's ok and if it's not it's ok too....so who really cares
 
As others have said, it's gay MEN who make the culture oversexed, not homosexuality in general. Women provide a sense of control and restraint to sexuality. Straight men would do the same, raunchy things if they could, if only women went along with it.

Gay culture also includes lesbians, and they do not have a problem with STDS, HIV, bathhouses, busted in the bathroom for using a gloryhole, etc. because they are WOMEN.

MEN = pigs

There's your answer.
 
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