do you think you're good looking, average or ugly?

[refujiunderground]

when you look in the mirror, do you admire your looks, are like whatever, or get upset looking at yourself?

i would say it varies. there's more days where i think i'm average or downright ugly than attractive though. i would say that i'm below average, ugly though especially when i look at my photos on the webcam. GEEZ.

 

[G-Lexington]

Let's put it this way. If we had everybody in the world vote on my looks, and compared it to the scores for everybody else, I'd say I ended up pretty much smack-dab in the middle.

That said, there are plenty of people who think I'm attractive. And that's all that matters - I don't care what the rest of the world thinks.

Lex

 

[refujiunderground]

Let's put it this way. If we had everybody in the world vote on my looks, and compared it to the scores for everybody else, I'd say I ended up pretty much smack-dab in the middle.

That said, there are plenty of people who think I'm attractive. And that's all that matters - I don't care what the rest of the world thinks.

Lex

as much as i say this to myself and on other web forums, i want to think like that and believe it too. how do you make yourself not care about the world thinks in regards of that though?

 

[oakpope]

I'm fugly

If one day I'm in a mischievous mood I'll post a picture of me to scare away all Jubbers

 

[youfiad]

I find myself repulsively ugly.

 

[G-Lexington]

The same way I make myself feel that way about everything, I guess.

Back in high school, I was Genera-Kid. Shy, awkward, wanting to fit in. And that meant following along with the crowd a lot of the time. Going to the same movies, and wearing many of the same clothes, and listening to the same music.

In college, I ended up in what you might call the Dorm of Misfit Toys. We had the guy who only listened to doo-wop, the guy who only watched film noir, and the guy who wore a shirt and tie every day for no reason. It was like fuckin' heaven. It made me realize I could just be whoever the fuck I wanted to be. I started wearing T-shirts with cartoon characters on them, and if I couldn't find shirts with the characters I wanted, I just drew them on myself. I started listening to more jazz and alternative rock. I started reading weirder books. I could just be me, y'know?

And no, not everybody "got it". Not everybody saw my cartoon T-shirts and said "That's an amazing look!" But they "got it" on another level. They saw me being me. And they saw me enjoying the hell out of life because of it. So even if they didn't understand or appreciate any of the individual pieces - even if they didn't like jazz or cartoons or anything else - they could appreciate the whole picture. "Really? You watch silent films? That's kinda weird." "Yeah, but I really love them." "Well, that's cool, I guess."

And that eventually moved outward to embrace my looks, too. As I said, I was never a "looker" by any stretch. But it wasn't long before I realized that some people DID like the way I look. Some people DID find me desirable on that level. And that's about all it took. Even most of the ones who don't find me attractive don't give me shit about the way I look. They don't say "the only attractive people are those who are trim and muscular and who keep their bodyhair shaved". They just prefer that type, which I'm not in. And I'm cool with that - the same way there are people who don't care about jazz or my hand-drawn T-shirts.

Lex

 

[DigitalFudge]

People tell me I am good looking, now that I am out of High School I believe them.

It's just, when you get asked every 12 minutes by black people "Are you black?" when you clearly are. It get's a bit confusing, to be fair it was never negative... But..... still....

 

[SLOPPYSECONDS]

guess it folk wanna furrrk ma shithooooole or faceeehole

so guess gonna got check ma holes

ans get back yas

hankyou

 

[navidzurender]

it depends on the type of mirror that im viewing, some mirrors make me look good and others don't so i try to stay away to that kind

 

[SLOPPYSECONDS]

i hope ur faceeehole looks better than ur shithooooole

ooh there differurnce?

ha

 

[Orlandude]

I tend to look at it like this....I am me and there's never going to be another me so I don't care what people think. While I do my level best to take care of myself and my appearance, I consider myself pretty average. My opinion of myself is often out of sync with how others see me. You never really know how other people see you. I just know that some people are attracted to me and some are not. Just as I am attracted to some people and not others. That's life. Most guys I know who are the "adonis" type never fail to tell me that they have problems meeting others because others are afraid to talk to them for fear of being rejected. How shallow is that? Accept yourself for who you are, always striving for improvement. And in this lifestyle, don't be afraid to walk up and say hello to someone you find attractive. If he's stuck on himself or attitude-laden, you don't want him as a friend anyway. The world is filled with gorgeous airheads. If all you want is a cock, I guess they're fine. I tend to look at the whole package. While looks are important, they aren't everything. Personality, sense of humor, attitude, able to hold a conversation...all weigh heavily.
Be yourself. There are a lot of people out there who will like you, even love you, just exactly as you are.

 

[racer2438]

I am a stunning, handsome guy to my honey and that's all that matters.


Me i think I am average looking..

 

[Screwdriver4]

I'm fucking gorgeous

 

[TheLyingGame]

right now, I don't think i look that good.. nor that bad. I would probably say below average.

however, It's constantly changing... normally depending on my mood.

 

[DenimKnight]

Today I am damn gorgeous, yesterday my hand was way out of my league. Totally depends on my mood I guess.

 

[PKMO]

When I look in the mirror I am happy with what I see looking back. I'm not perfect, but no one is. I have enough good qualities (some that won't even fade with age) to generally not care and over obsess about the negatives.

Although I'm sure I won't be some peoples cup of tea, I'm generally considered good looking. Since childhood I've always been quiet shy, but once everyone's hormones developed (in the later years of high school) I started getting a lot of attention, which was a bit weird for me.

There are good things about it obviously, but there are bad things about it also.*It often affects first impressions negatively. Friends have said before they got to know me they thought I'd be arrogant and stuck up because of how I looked. People often assume all I'm looking for in a partner is good looks, or that that is the most important thing. People make quite stupid and insulting assumptions about me; not just new acquaintances but old friends.

It's really quite shocking how much people judge about you based on looks alone.

 

[DigitalFudge]

I'm fucking gorgeous

Yesssssssssss

 

[Saybrooke]

I feel like I'm about average. If I lost a few pounds I think I'd be good looking. But I will say this about myself; I have amazing eyes and eyebrows

 

[menRsexii]

I used to think I was good looking. Some others still say so. I, on the other hand, think I'm butt ugly now. I seriously look like a freak. I think I have like some rare disorder or disease that caused me to look like this. I dunno.

 

[bma1983]

My feelings on how I look differ from time to time. Right now I think I'm about average. I live in New York and the rejection I get from guys in person and online (OKCupid, etc.) make me feel uglier than the Wicked Witch of the West. But I just came back from Buenos Aires and many many many men down there were hitting on me. Made me feel better than average. I may move down there.