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does once make me gay?

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I am a straight man and have never been interested in men, i've always had a lot of luck with beautiful women, and the thought of a man never crossed my mind.
i have a friend, also straight and married, and, with my girlfriend at the time, the 4 of us sometimes would play some erotic games, but NEVER with any interaction between the two men. Clearly this is somebody i was comfortable with given the games with the wife and gf.
He got divorced, and later i broke up with my gf.
one night this guy and i were at my house by ourselves, and got really drunk and fucked up, and he suggested we should fool around, which took me completely by surprise, but i was really wasted, and went along with it. we took our clothes off, and next thing i know, i am sucking his cock! and though it wasn't my idea, i must say i didn't dislike it at the time, being drunk played a big part, and i even told him since i was experimenting, that he could come in my mouth, but he did not want to.
i guess i was excited by the fact that his cock was huge, and i had never held another cock in my hand, let alone my mouth! so i sucked him off for a while, and he loved it, but didn't come in my mouth, he played with my dick, and that was about it.
when we sobered up we were both so embarassed by what had happened that we told each other we had crossed a line, and we were never able to see each other again because we were i guess both embarassed. i know we shouldn't have, but that's the way it was.
the following days i felt really ashamed about what had happened, then the thing kinda faded away.
years after, i have not seen my friend again, and have never been attracted to any other men (infact, i wasn't really attracted to him either, except for his big dick), i would never do this again cause i am not interested, except maybe if it were to happen with him, which it won't. i guess the fact that we are both completely straight is a factor.
however, when i think about that night now, i find it kind of exciting, and occasionally i watch some gay porn and am reminded.
i have no interest in men, i don't think that one experience makes gay or bi, but wanted to know your opinion!
 
I was actually looking for an opinion on that story... not exactly this.
 
Short answer: No.

But if it happened a few years ago, why are you asking now? Why did this resurface for you?
 
I don't know why it did, but I had never told anybody, and I have been thinking about that time sometimes recently. I have totally been back on the women, yes.
But while the memory used to bother me at first, now I find it kinda sexy though I have no desire to repeat it.
 
I just wanted to get an opinion on my story, which I also posted ona couple of other sites, but other than that, I wouldn't even know what to talk about...
 
questionman said:
I don't know why it did, but I had never told anybody, and I have been thinking about that time sometimes recently. I have totally been back on the women, yes.
But while the memory used to bother me at first, now I find it kinda sexy though I have no desire to repeat it.
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My take, you probably are not gay. You felt ashamed because like a lot of straight men, anything to do with homosexuality is viewed often in a negative light or as something that makes you "less of a man". Not saying you are homophobic or anything like that, it's just that for a lot of straight men view it that way as something they want to go out of their way to define themselves as not.

Sounds like you were just curious and did some experimenting.

If you were gay you WOULD want to repeat it, or at least you would probably be motivated to try experimenting more.

Then again it is interesting that even though you say you don't want to repeat it, you still like to look at gay porn occasionally. That might indicate that you're still at least curious.
 
hotatlboi said:
Sounds like you were just curious and did some experimenting.

If you were gay you WOULD want to repeat it, or at least you would probably be motivated to try experimenting more.

Then again it is interesting that even though you say you don't want to repeat it, you like to look at gay porn occasionally. That might indicate that you're still at least curious.
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yes, i suppose that time i was ready to have a bit more complete of an experience (not anal though) since i had decided to find out what it was like, and was disappointed when my friend kinda backed out. i just figure, sice i had done, it would have been interesting to go for it...
i don't understand why my friend suggested this (it would not have occured to me in a million years), then got all shy even though he was very excited... go figure. is this common with straight guys?
 
and as for watching some gay porn... i think it's because it reminds me of that time and in a way i find it sexy. usually only watch bjs.
 
you're right, but i don't know any straight men who have had gay experiences, or at least who have discussed them ( i also never spoke of this to anyone i know after all...)
 
questionman said:
you're right, but i don't know any straight men who have had gay experiences, or at least who have discussed them ( i also never spoke of this to anyone i know after all...)
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Maybe this is why it turns you on a little, since it is kinda taboo among straight men.

It's a non-standard interesting experience.
 
yes it was, it was interesting to see that i could do something i never thought i would, and easily, at that. in spite of this guy being seriously hung like a horse. i mean my cock is not small, but his was scary... and sexy.
 
You're ok.

Friends are precious.
Talk to your friend if you want. There is no need to let this ruin a friendship.

The guilt you feel is due to the way you are mentally wired. You cannot do anything about that except try to overcome it.
You may feel you did something "wrong"....you didn't.
 
i agree, but he's the one who wanted to cut all ties, and it's been years, i don't know... you're perfectly right though.
 
Well you wouldn't be gay anyway, you'd be bisexual, as it's obvious you like women as well. And no, doing it that one time doesn't even make you bisexual, it's just experimenting.
 
Ehh, I'd say you aren't gay. You just experimented a bit and you were drunk. If you really haven't had the desire to go with men or have found yourself looking at men, then you should be fine.
 
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