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does once make me gay?

So a long time has passed since my original post, and in that time I have very occasionally (maybe once a year) had oral sex with a guy, pretty much in the same circumstances, and always limited to a bj, no kissing or any of that at all, however, last night I finally acted on the only bi fantasy that has been making me horny everytime I think about it, and I finally tried to let the guy shoot his load in my mouth, I tasted it for a while, the swallowed it all. It made me extremely horny to finally try a cum in my mouth that was not my own, and I noticed mine tastes a bit stronger than his, although he ejaculates more than i normally do so my mouth was really full of hot cum. That was really fucking hot, thought I'd share that, it took me years to finally decide to do it!
 
Congrats on swallowing! They say good things cum to those wait, and it sounds like you enjoyed it. Now that the cat is out of the bag, why not enjoy the ride? Start sucking more dicks, or sucking the same dick on a regular basis. It's like eating potato chips: you can stop after eating one. Surrender to the craving and become a master cocksucker! Learn how to drive guys crazy with your deep throating and talented tongue. Pretty soon you won't have to look for dick, a guy (or guys) will want you to suck him all the time. Not all cocksuckers are good at it, it's a skill, so when a guy finds a great one he won't stay away. Shove a lubed finger(s) up his ass and massage his prostate, it's finger fucking good, and his orgasm will be far more intense. If he's into it, use a toy. And if he's really into it, shove your big dick up there. The more you suck dick, the more you will want to fuck, it's inevitable. Maybe taking it in the tush isn't for you, get a dildo and go fuck yourself enough times that you love it (you will), that will make finally taking a real one easier. Topping is awesome too, and finding a horny bottom who knows what he's doing is one of the best things in life. There's nothing like fucking the cum out of a guy, his ass gripping and sucking your big dick, while he screams and cries and moans in joy.
Let's not forget kissing, that's vital. You want a man to melt in your arms and make the sex really sparkle try kissing. I've got one test before sex with a new guy: kissing! A guy that's a great kisser will be a great lay, a lousy kisser isn't worth a fuck. Kissing is a measure of passion and personality. Who wants a guy that just lays there or is silent and boring? And a guy that refuses to kiss (I had a guy tell me that only "fags" kissed even though he wanted to blow me) isn't worth the time.
 
Over the years we have had lots of guys come to JUB who claimed to be straight, but they were curious about the cock. They felt comfortable in identifying themselves as straight because they were not interested in guys romantically and would never want to kiss or hug a guy. In other words, they didn't want a relationship with a guy because relationships were saved for girls. Are they delusional?

There is a big difference between a teenaged boy experimenting with other boys than an adult male who has real life experience and better understands their attractions.

OP, I would say you are not straight and once you've started having sex with other guys (and blowjobs are sex) then you need to stop identifying a curious, too.
 
How about we drop the labels, and everyone does whatever they discover they like?

Exploration is a noble venture.
 
For me it just makes you human. I think everyone is curious from time to time. If we spend less time on labels and what makes what, we'd have a lot more fun. That said I think that sticking to the label that makes you feel best is fine!
 
I'm glad you updated us. Sounds like you are sucking like a pro to have him chm in your mouth. Glad you enjoyed it. Nothing wrong with guys playing around with each other even of straight. Everybody is horny. My straight friend used to let me suck his sick and swallow all the time but he would only do it with me because of our close friendship and trust. A mouths a mouth. He has a great cock too wish he would let me have it again.
 
rjason2425 said:
I'm glad you updated us. Sounds like you are sucking like a pro to have him chm in your mouth. Glad you enjoyed it. Nothing wrong with guys playing around with each other even of straight. Everybody is horny. My straight friend used to let me suck his sick and swallow all the time but he would only do it with me because of our close friendship and trust. A mouths a mouth. He has a great cock too wish he would let me have it again.
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mmmmm, that's what friends are for!
 
Why is it always the guys who label themselves at "bi", "straight" or "curious" who claim labels are a bad idea. Much of what we are has a label for it. But when it comes to sex.....
 
sixthson said:
Why is it always the guys who label themselves at "bi", "straight" or "curious" who claim labels are a bad idea. Much of what we are has a label for it. But when it comes to sex.....
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Yes. We all wear different hats, at different times, or even at the same time. The problems arise when those definitions become adamant restrictions.

OMG! You let another guy suck your dick, or you blew a dude! That means you can't be Str8!

Um ... No! I've known Str8 guys who simply enjoy playing around on the other side of the fence, once in a while. That doesn't make them Gay, or even Bi. "Curious" maybe. But, does that really matter anyway?
 
sixthson said:
Why is it always the guys who label themselves at "bi", "straight" or "curious" who claim labels are a bad idea. Much of what we are has a label for it. But when it comes to sex.....
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Oh! Oh! I think I can answer that one!

I think it has less to do with it being about sex and more to do with past experience of distress because they overemphasized the importance of labels leading them to over-correct and undervalue the labels.

We use labels to communicate. But some people use labels to define themselves rather than using the label to communicate a concept. Labels often aren't able to quite describe your experience. And it can be distressing when you feel there's an expectation to fit a label neatly but you don't. It can make you feel lost when the truth is, you like what you like and curbing your behavior because of a label isn't doing you any good.

For example, my own experience. For a good bit I wasn't sure if I was bi or gay. I was worried that I was trying to reinterpret my feelings for women so that I wouldn't have to be gay. Especially because I have a strong preference towards men. But I came to the conclusion that my feelings are real and that if other people don't believe I'm bi then that is their problem; and that there is nothing wrong with being gay so it shouldn't bother me if people incorrectly interpret me as that.

To give another example, we had a guy on this forum that liked a transman but was worried about losing their 'gold-star' status. There was no other reason to not pursue that relationship. And yet they were distressing over what to do and letting their label impact their behavior.

In addition, attraction isn't always cut and dry; and I think gay and straight people have a harder time understanding this problem with labels because of that. If you like one sex both emotionally and sexually then it's easy. But if you like one emotionally but not sexually it gets really tough to pick a label. And for some people their interest in one sex changes over time, they might be 'straight' for a month and then 'gay' for the next. It can be exhausting to think about.
 
A lot of straight men do gay porn all the time.
The "shame" part is because of cultural conditioning saying gay sex is wrong or sin.
 
I've said this before, but it may still help. I'm straight, was curious once with a friend, then I was straight again. I'm straight because I love sex with women completely. My friend and I were in college, perfectly sober, had the light on, we kissed, blew each other and fell asleep. We went through some awkward processing, but we chilled and we're still friends. I'm a gym rat and appreciate a male body as beautiful. I do know beauty when I see it, women and men both. (Also, straight guys check you out, package and all - really all of us do,) A friend showed me JUB and we joined to chat, made respectable friends and now it's home. I also love the pictures too. Don't overthink it. Be safe and open. This is a great community so you're in good company. Also if I hook up with a guy for a second time, it doesn't make me gay or bi either. Be safe and open. Get out of your head.
 
questionman said:
I am a straight man and have never been interested in men, i've always had a lot of luck with beautiful women, and the thought of a man never crossed my mind.
i have a friend, also straight and married, and, with my girlfriend at the time, the 4 of us sometimes would play some erotic games, but NEVER with any interaction between the two men. Clearly this is somebody i was comfortable with given the games with the wife and gf.
He got divorced, and later i broke up with my gf.
one night this guy and i were at my house by ourselves, and got really drunk and fucked up, and he suggested we should fool around, which took me completely by surprise, but i was really wasted, and went along with it. we took our clothes off, and next thing i know, i am sucking his cock! and though it wasn't my idea, i must say i didn't dislike it at the time, being drunk played a big part, and i even told him since i was experimenting, that he could come in my mouth, but he did not want to.
i guess i was excited by the fact that his cock was huge, and i had never held another cock in my hand, let alone my mouth! so i sucked him off for a while, and he loved it, but didn't come in my mouth, he played with my dick, and that was about it.
when we sobered up we were both so embarassed by what had happened that we told each other we had crossed a line, and we were never able to see each other again because we were i guess both embarassed. i know we shouldn't have, but that's the way it was.
the following days i felt really ashamed about what had happened, then the thing kinda faded away.
years after, i have not seen my friend again, and have never been attracted to any other men (infact, i wasn't really attracted to him either, except for his big dick), i would never do this again cause i am not interested, except maybe if it were to happen with him, which it won't. i guess the fact that we are both completely straight is a factor.
however, when i think about that night now, i find it kind of exciting, and occasionally i watch some gay porn and am reminded.
i have no interest in men, i don't think that one experience makes gay or bi, but wanted to know your opinion!
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just come out already. Being drunk, you dont decide that you want cum in your mouth.
 
Well, if that's all it took, then my having had sex with three women makes me straight...except 50 years later, the evidence points completely to the opposite conclusion.

Why do straight men fear "gayness" so much? It's not a curse, you know. Besides, it's more who you want to marry and be with the rest of your life that determines which way you lean. Sex is just something people do for fun (well, for SOME cultures!). I also played baseball for 3 years, does that make me a baseball fan? Sure, I liked it when I played it, but the thrill is gone now... I can watch it...for an hour, but...again, the thrill is gone. Occasionally, I'll watch a whole game, but it doesn't 'grab me.'
 
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