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does once make me gay?

I'm straight and also tried to suck a cock once. It was alright and when I was done I still craved girls. You have to try at least everything once to know if you'll like it or not.

I'm sure gays tried sex with girls too and didn't like it.

Your orientation has to do with the gender you're attracted to, not what gender you had sex with.
 
i couldn't agree more! i havent done that since that one time... though i do think it was good to try it once.
 
My take is this....If you had fun and you are not in a committed relationship and you are careful about STD's, then have all the fun you want with a guy or a girl or several guys or a mix of whatever. One of these days, the human race is going to have to admit that sexuality is like a fingerprint in that no two people have the same sexual attractions. As such, nobody should have to be afraid of what others think about what turns you on. Some people don't have to have an actual attraction to someone for there to be physical pleasure.
 
another thing i really did not expect was to get all these private messages from people who apparently are very turned on by my (i thought) mild and moderate sex tale. i guess it's because it involves 2 straight men? do tell me what u think.
 
questionman said:
another thing i really did not expect was to get all these private messages from people who apparently are very turned on by my (i thought) mild and moderate sex tale. i guess it's because it involves 2 straight men? do tell me what u think.
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What do I think?

Dude I think you sound like an attention whore. Your whole shtick gets more obvious with each passing post.
 
I think the major point of contention lies in the abrupt way it ended. I mean you had this whole new experience (with a guy you felt comfortable with no less) and then it was over....never to be spoken of again. I think thats why you're having problems processing it and why you look at gay porn (bjs) because a part of you is still there....in that moment.

Just from what you have posted, I wouldn't say that you're gay, bi, or even overly curious, you just sound like a guy who needs (God I hate this word) closure of some kind. You were drunk and somewhat vulnerable (as was he I suspect) and now it's like the mental game of why did I do that?!? Stop worrying about labels dude..there's bigger fish to fry here.

Just my two cents.
 
questionman said:
another thing i really did not expect was to get all these private messages from people who apparently are very turned on by my (i thought) mild and moderate sex tale. i guess it's because it involves 2 straight men? do tell me what u think.
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A lot of gay men are turned on by the idea of being with a str8 guy/real man. I've known gay men who sucked off str8 guys or even got fucked by a str8 guy and they always claimed its the hottest sex. Personally, I find their attitude a bit insulting.

I had a friend once who was str8, dated women but watched gay porn (one of his girlfriends was a girl I worked with & she told me she found his gay porn saved on his computer). He told me he tried sucking dick & realized it wasn't as big a turn on in reality as he imagined it would be.

A lot of gay men have a similar experience of experimenting with women and realizing it's not their thing.
 
I seriously doubt this happened, or at least that it happened quite as described.

But, supposing it did...... One occurrence during a drunken stupor does not make you gay. The fact that you go out of your way to try to insist to us (strangers to you who never have and probably never will meet you), on a gay forum connected to a gay porn site, and thereby reinforcing the belief to yourself, that you are truly straight..... Well that leads one to wonder why you feel the need to validate that thought publicly. The fact that you now watch gay porn and reminisce..... well that suggests that you did/do enjoy what happened and actually may desire to do it again.

This leads one to believe you are curious, possibly bi or maybe even gay. You mentioned breaking up with your GF, is it because the sex was no longer satisfying to you or that the desire was not there?

It doesn't really matter if you are gay/straight/bi. You can be whatever, just be true to yourself or you will regret it. Denying who/what you are will only lead to emotional/psychological issues that will cause you harm in the long run.

I would suggest not trying to box yourself in and just take the time to understand yourself and figure out exactly what it is you like and what you want out of life. Don't conform to a label, just find out who you are, whatever that is.
 
This leads one to believe you are curious, possibly bi or maybe even gay. You mentioned breaking up with your GF, is it because the sex was no longer satisfying to you or that the desire was not there?
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Well, I'm a gay man who after my break up with last b/f started watching str8 porn again and fantasize a lot about eating pussy. The break up--regardless of reason for break up-- might be just a trigger for the questions resurfacing.
 
jazzamcc said:
As you know Hot4Latinos, I'm curious about trying pussy. If I try it, doesn't mean I'm bi. If I do like pussy, I'll need to re-evaluate lol. Maybe pussy will become a fetish lol.
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That is the whole point. A single occurrence of experimentation doesn't really mean anything, especially while under the influence. But enjoying it and wanting to do it again (while all the while trying to make others, as well as yourself, believe you don't want to) suggests there is more going on than what is on the surface.

I stand by my suggestion to the OP that he not try to force himself to fit a label, but allow himself to be who he is.
 
Usually when some thing like this has happened in my heavy metal band world, and its more common then most would know several things happen.
First off if you are so fucking bombed and fool around with another guy who is straight, usually there isn't much conversation and you might wake up hung over with your hand on his cock in the morning but nothing would be said even amongst good friends.
Second usually that friend is a write off forever, regardless of what rather they remember or even liked it. Even if you talk most would say they can't remember shit they were so wasted.
Many can't even get a hard cock let alone cum.
That doesn't mean there is no fooling around, but its a taboo subject.
And rarely if ever do the straight guys I know who have fooled with a guy, come to a gay porno site to ask.
They may like the idea of watching sex with men and woman but that man in the straight porn is good enough.
 
Funny thing is ... with Str8 Guys ... at least in my experience ... sucking dick, or even getting fucked, or fucking another guy in the ass ... is generally chalked up to excessive drinking and being beyond 'control'! :badgrin:

However, the underlying Urges are there, or it wouldn't have happened! :goodevil:

SO ... what's the big deal? Humans are curious by Nature! Tried that! Did That! And then the Guilt trips in! !oops! #-o

At least it's something you tried, and now KNOW for Sure! ..|

LIFE is not an end point, but rather a journey of learning experiences! :cool:

Take everything you've been Lucky enough to experience as a Gift! (group)

And, of course ... no matter what ...

Keep smilin'!! :kiss:(*8*)
Chaz :luv: :-<
 
aagold76 said:
^^^that's weird, because most str8 guys can't be paid to eat pussy....at least fucking you can close your eyes and pretend it's a lose ass....I don't think eating pussy can ever be taken for anything else
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Eating pussy is the top of the sexual world. It's the best thing you can do in bed. Licking and flicking your tongue on the clit, fingers in her pussy and asshole. Feeling her orgasm can't be beaten by anything else.
 
Just trying gay sex doesn't make you gay, unless you loved it. The first time sucking cock, I knew I wasn't going to stop, becaused I loved it nomatter who said it was wrong.
 
Well, as you said, you were under the influence of alcohol. You weren't really into the guy, but the dick. I find it hard to call you bi let alone gay if you're not even interested in the guy at all. You just liked the dick. And that's cool. I think you're pretty straight...but liking the dick puts you closer to bi than completely straight.

And honestly, yes, your story was very hot. Thank you for sharing it with us. I'm really sorry it cost you your friendship, though. If anything, it was your friend's fault to have suggested it. I suppose if a situation like that were to ever happen again, proceed with caution.
 
sounds like some ones experiment went wrong. lots of "straight" men and women have had a go at same sex one nighters. look on the good side you get pleasure from a wider range of porn. and no you your about as gay as me. if you cant imagine slipping your tongue into another blokes mouth and enjoying it then your most likely straight/curious. and yes i do know what im on about because a similar thing has happened to me but without the drink
 
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