does once make me gay?

[texan_slant]

Once makes you...YOU.

 

[Daxter]

At the end of the day... as long as it’s enjoyable fun for you and whomever you’re with is the main thing. Enjoy the ride! (Yeah I’m aware of the pun lol)

 

[sweet_taboo]

How about we drop the labels, and everyone does whatever they discover they like?

Exploration is a noble venture.

Never had a guy who only wanted do it just once, so...

As long as we're comfortable, it's enjoyable, and feels good, we keep doing it...and don't worry about what to call it.

 

[KamiloGayBogota]

I ALWAYS KNEW I WAS 100% GAY AND NOTHING IN MY LIFE HAD MAKE ME DOUBT ABOUT THAT,
I KNEW I WAS GAY BEFORE OF LOSING MY VIRGINITY BECAUSE OF MY DESIRE FOR MEN
SO IS NOT ONLY THE ACTION WHAT MAKE YOU GAY OR BI, IS THE CURIOSITY AND DESIRE FOR TO DO IT WHAT MAKE YOU BI

-Sorry for my english, i'm latino

 

[ass eater]

I ALWAYS KNEW I WAS 100% GAY AND NOTHING IN MY LIFE HAD MAKE ME DOUBT ABOUT THAT,
I KNEW I WAS GAY BEFORE OF LOSING MY VIRGINITY BECAUSE OF MY DESIRE FOR MEN
SO IS NOT ONLY THE ACTION WHAT MAKE YOU GAY OR BI, IS THE CURIOSITY AND DESIRE FOR TO DO IT WHAT MAKE YOU BI

-Sorry for my english, i'm latino

EXACTLY! I knew I was gay before I had sex with anybody. A straight man can be virgin, and still be straight. You know who and what you long for even if you never have sex.

 

[Kyanimal]

I ALWAYS KNEW I WAS 100% GAY AND NOTHING IN MY LIFE HAD MAKE ME DOUBT ABOUT THAT,
I KNEW I WAS GAY BEFORE OF LOSING MY VIRGINITY BECAUSE OF MY DESIRE FOR MEN
SO IS NOT ONLY THE ACTION WHAT MAKE YOU GAY OR BI, IS THE CURIOSITY AND DESIRE FOR TO DO IT WHAT MAKE YOU BI

-Sorry for my english, i'm latino

Your English is FAR better than my Spanish.
There is no reason to apologize, just as there is no reason to apologize to Anybody for being You!

Welcome to JUB!!
Chaz

 

[Boodeedood]

I was in the same boat as you. I, regretfully, passed up chances to have a man to man experiences back in my younger days, strictly out of the fear of suddenly turning gay. And anytime I pleasured myself to gay porn, or by watching the guy more than the girl in straight porn, I would feel totally ashamed. Like you, big dicks turned me on, too! Some years ago I was at a point in my life where I decided to just go for it. I met a nice clean cut guy, and he had a very thick cock and balls to match. At first I was going to back out but decided that I was tired of not knowing what sex with a guy was like. And if I became gay, then fine. He was bi and said he wouldn't take it up the ass. So we exchanged blowjobs, handjobs, and I bottomed for him. It was some of the most mind blowing sex I ever had. We parted ways and I never saw him again. But, I'm still the same guy I was before, and accepted my bisexuality without hesitation. Do I seek out sex with men? Not really. Would I do it again? Hell yes. You are who you are and I think it's pretty hard to change that.

 

[ballcaphair]

I've heard it said, "Just because you boiled an egg, you are not actually a chef." Don't beat yourself up. Take a deep breath. No one was hurt. This was not foul play. Give this memory some slack. Realize that we're here to support and encourage you. Go play, we've got your back.

 

[seven2go]

Anyone who thinks straight men watch porn strictly for the girls is badly mistaken.
They watch to cumpare cocks and the money shots.......

 

[fitbottom]

No. Why must we use labels anyway? If there is chemistry and all parties consent, have fun, why not. Don't see what gender has to do with it.

 

[questionman]

Recently I watched a gay porn movie and one of the actors had a cock that was identical to the first one I sucked, my friend who I never saw again. This is a perfect replica in size, shape, foreskin, veins, everyting. You might see why I got so horny that night, maybe...

 

[BiBtm64]

I am a straight man and have never been interested in men, i've always had a lot of luck with beautiful women, and the thought of a man never crossed my mind.
i have a friend, also straight and married, and, with my girlfriend at the time, the 4 of us sometimes would play some erotic games, but NEVER with any interaction between the two men. Clearly this is somebody i was comfortable with given the games with the wife and gf.
He got divorced, and later i broke up with my gf.
one night this guy and i were at my house by ourselves, and got really drunk and fucked up, and he suggested we should fool around, which took me completely by surprise, but i was really wasted, and went along with it. we took our clothes off, and next thing i know, i am sucking his cock! and though it wasn't my idea, i must say i didn't dislike it at the time, being drunk played a big part, and i even told him since i was experimenting, that he could come in my mouth, but he did not want to.
i guess i was excited by the fact that his cock was huge, and i had never held another cock in my hand, let alone my mouth! so i sucked him off for a while, and he loved it, but didn't come in my mouth, he played with my dick, and that was about it.
when we sobered up we were both so embarassed by what had happened that we told each other we had crossed a line, and we were never able to see each other again because we were i guess both embarassed. i know we shouldn't have, but that's the way it was.
the following days i felt really ashamed about what had happened, then the thing kinda faded away.
years after, i have not seen my friend again, and have never been attracted to any other men (infact, i wasn't really attracted to him either, except for his big dick), i would never do this again cause i am not interested, except maybe if it were to happen with him, which it won't. i guess the fact that we are both completely straight is a factor.
however, when i think about that night now, i find it kind of exciting, and occasionally i watch some gay porn and am reminded.
i have no interest in men, i don't think that one experience makes gay or bi, but wanted to know your opinion!

Once or even several times does not make you gay, IMO. It's perfectly normal and natural to be attracted to cock, or curious about cock, and not be attracted to men in the way that you are attracted to women. You should allow yourself to enjoy these kinds of experiences. Enjoy his cock or another cock if it excites you, and don't stress about labels.

 

[4519015919675342]

Yup

 

[magicdick]

Why would it matter?

 

[BiBtm64]

In either case, you know you can't stop at just one...

 

[Kyanimal]

A guy can suck cock, get his cock sucked, fuck dude butt, and have his own ass poked, filled with cum, every day of his life, and still not be gay!

If he's not attracted to guys, butt simply enjoys sex, he can still desire, lust after, and pursue females.

Gender and sexuality are not the same.

Bowling doesn't make you a basketball player, any more than football makes you a good driver.

 

[BiBtm64]

A guy can suck cock, get his cock sucked, fuck dude butt, and have his own ass poked, filled with cum, every day of his life, and still not be gay!

If he's not attracted to guys, butt simply enjoys sex, he can still desire, lust after, and pursue females.

Gender and sexuality are not the same.

Bowling doesn't make you a basketball player, any more than football makes you a good driver.

Exactly! For that matter, "gay" would mean he's not attracted to women.

A guy can suck cock, get sucked, fuck guys, get fucked, and still be attracted to women.

 

[magicdick]

In either case, you know you can't stop at just one...

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Jesus, would you look at this gorgeous cock! Oh how I would love to deepthroat him! I don't think my pussy could handle it, though. Only one way to find out . . .