Fascination of Grown Gay Men with Boy Bands/Justin Bieber

[peeonme]

Re: Fascination of Grown Gay Men with Boy Bands/Justin Beiber

Justin Bieber is a grown man, if he were to be gay and had a personality I would not feel like an evil perv. for having some fun with him or someone who is of the same twink category.
I guess I find it a mute issue to argue about if it's ok or not, guys like him are legal, they are not "boys". When I was his age the U.S.A. was handing 19 yr. olds agun and sending them to fight in Nam, lets get a grip, I think much of the thought about it being pedo or creepy is an effort on the part of some gays to show the str8 world that we are no perves and pedos.
Jerry Sandusky, a str8 married man is an example of a pedophile.

 

[PreTTy PeTe]

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Personally, I simply do not see the appeal of such a vain, egotistical, hypocritical exhibitionist like Justin. For me, there has to be some personality behind the attraction, and Justin's personality is a complete turn-off for me, no matter how many times he flashes his ass or bares his chest.

You just don't like the kid. I don't hate or like him and I really don't know his music, but hey he has done well for himself.

He still young and when I was his age I was a shit disturber.......he's just in the public eye all time and everything he does will be on the news. He will grow up.

 

[JayHawk]

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When I was in my late teens and twenties, I adored the attention of more mature (ie over 30) guys. One of the hottest and handsomest guys I ever hooked up with was about 60. And he had amazing stamina too.

I don't see why there is any issue with guy's in their 40's talking about wanting to fuck some One Direction member. Really. But I don't think it is very common.

Yup... some of us will fuck anything with a heart beat.....

as for me??

lol. For anyonme looking on as an older man who likes to explore the fountain of youth, I have found the Midwest has a lot of daddy issue twinks. Perhaps it is the rampant ignorance and oppression. Regardless it is like shooting fish in a barrel ... ok ok... fish was a bad image..... ummm... it is like bobbing for weenies at Nathan's


P.S. i dont obsess over what i cannot have but 1D's "You dont know you're beautiful" is a great song with a great message.

 

[gsdx]

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You just don't like the kid.

I don't hate him, either. I hate what he has become. There's a big difference.

 

[naglfarii]

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Bieber was marketed toward preteens when he was younger, but his target audience has clearly matured today. Nonetheless, him & many other boy band members are emblems of twinks. The gay arena has always obsessed with twinks, so why is this surprising? Some small, boyish looking dudes in their 20s are going to attract females younger than themselves while others none at all. But all will attract gay guys of all ages.

A better topic would be why gay men are attracted to guys with looks & bodies of a teenager...

you say that like straight men of all ages don't look at megan fox the same way

 

[PreTTy PeTe]

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I don't hate him, either. I hate what he has become. There's a big difference.

What has he become?

do you know really?

 

[JayHawk]

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P.P.S. The following song explains a lot about human attraction. It might help if you want to learn to simply discard preconceived notions. Including the idea a 22 year old man cannot love a 41 year old man the same as two people closer in age. My other half has been with me for 14 years, we had time off, we had issues, but in both our families people took time off and had issues. Behavior is learned. Tolerance can be learned as well.

 

[gsdx]

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What has he become?

do you know really?

Yes, I know. He's become vain, exhibitionistic, egotistical, hypocritical, and a spoilt brat who gets away with pissing in a restaurant wash bucket and spitting on his fans because he knows he can. He isn't the same person who moved out of Canada a few years ago.

 

[Scealle]

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Is it creepy when younger guys are exclusively obsessed with older guys? There are guys like that, you know.

Lol I don't know I might be becoming one of them soon LOL! Kidding. But I think young guys turn me more and more off as I grew, so immature and childish and so slutty, I mean so much unattractive qualities combined into one. Not to mention 60% young with young relationships fail (seeing so many of my good friends fail their young with young coupled relationships) makes me thinks this way. Even the serious long term ones can't make it pass 4 or 5 years But then dating and liking older guys easily gets labeled as gold diggers in general

To OP: I don't know lol I personally think that people should like whoever they want regardless of their age. I do like boy bands old or young. I still listen to a lot of the older generation boy bands who did comebacks or shows.

 

[PreTTy PeTe]

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Yes, I know. He's become vain, exhibitionistic, egotistical, hypocritical, and a spoilt brat who gets away with pissing in a restaurant wash bucket and spitting on his fans because he knows he can. He isn't the same person who moved out of Canada a few years ago.

He was already a troubled kid when he became famous.

He came from a very dysfunctional early life and to sit and judge him is just mean no matter how much money he has.

 

[Taz]

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P.S. i dont obsess over what i cannot have but 1D's "You dont know you're beautiful" is a great song with a great message.

Firstly, i love you for the FG ref.

Secondly I'm gonna be a cheeky bugger and put forth a rediculous theory as to why the song is actually rather melancholy, Because i was forced to listen to it over and over day in day out at work I actually had a listen to the lyrics. In the song they posit that "you don't know you're beautiful, and thats what makes you beautiful" It's a catch 22. They only find this girl attractive because she is not aware that they find her attractive. if she were to discover this fact, she would then lose, "what makes her beautiful" So the poor girl will go through life either being beautiful and not knowing it, or having discovered it, lost her beauty.

Thirdly, on topic. I find a couple of the 1D guys to be attractive. not so much Berber. I'm not a huge fan of their music but I can see the appeal. and the fame thing isn't interesting to me.

 

[Taz]

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Yes, I know. He's become vain, exhibitionistic, egotistical, hypocritical, and a spoilt brat who gets away with pissing in a restaurant wash bucket and spitting on his fans because he knows he can. He isn't the same person who moved out of Canada a few years ago.

So you do hate him? Because by definition he is who he has become.

It's ok to say you used to like him but now you dont lol.

 

[JayHawk]

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Firstly, i love you for the FG ref.

Secondly I'm gonna be a cheeky bugger and put forth a rediculous theory as to why the song is actually rather melancholy, Because i was forced to listen to it over and over day in day out at work I actually had a listen to the lyrics. In the song they posit that "you don't know you're beautiful, and thats what makes you beautiful" It's a catch 22. They only find this girl attractive because she is not aware that they find her attractive. if she were to discover this fact, she would then lose, "what makes her beautiful" So the poor girl will go through life either being beautiful and not knowing it, or having discovered it, lost her beauty.

Thirdly, on topic. I find a couple of the 1D guys to be attractive. not so much Berber. I'm not a huge fan of their music but I can see the appeal. and the fame thing isn't interesting to me.

Yeah fame doesn't do a damn thing for me. As for the song, I don't see it that way. I see them saying you are lacking confidence but really you shouldn't because you are beautiful... I also see it as acknowledging that not being full of yourself with flaunting good looks is attractive. Just being normal down to earth. But if I listened over and over I would probably involuntarily expel my lunch.

FG is my crack right now...coupled with Big Bang Theory and a TNT show called "Major Crimes"... love some chuckles and those cheesy crime dramas right before bed....

 

[gsdx]

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He was already a troubled kid when he became famous.

Defend his behaviour. Success has changed him, and his fans (and many guys here) are lapping it up.

It doesn't matter. I'm done with this. It's not worth arguing about.

 

[bankside]

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Firstly, i love you for the FG ref.

Secondly I'm gonna be a cheeky bugger and put forth a rediculous theory as to why the song is actually rather melancholy, Because i was forced to listen to it over and over day in day out at work I actually had a listen to the lyrics. In the song they posit that "you don't know you're beautiful, and thats what makes you beautiful" It's a catch 22. They only find this girl attractive because she is not aware that they find her attractive. if she were to discover this fact, she would then lose, "what makes her beautiful" So the poor girl will go through life either being beautiful and not knowing it, or having discovered it, lost her beauty.

Thirdly, on topic. I find a couple of the 1D guys to be attractive. not so much Berber. I'm not a huge fan of their music but I can see the appeal. and the fame thing isn't interesting to me.

Schrödinger's Beauty. She exists in superposition between beauty and ugly, being simultaneously both and neither. Only by the act of observation does the system collapse into a consistent state.

 

[G-Lexington]

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My friend suggested the song meant "you don't know you're beautiful, which means your self esteem is low enough that I think I have a shot at you, and that's what I find appealing".

Lex

 

[naglfarii]

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What has he become?

do you know really?

a dick who says rape happens for a reason

 

[PreTTy PeTe]

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a dick who says rape happens for a reason

you are so sweet.

now prove your statement.

 

[birddog7]

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you say that like straight men of all ages don't look at megan fox the same way

Exactly! If you think obsession with youth is confined to homosexuals, think again. I have been around, worked with, etc., many straight men older than I am, who just drool over teenage girls, of legal age or not. Our society is overly obsessed with youth and beauty.

I personally think many of the "hate on twinks", "hate on cute teen girls", and "hate on celebrities" crowd, are indeed jealous. I'm jealous of many people I see around me, but that doesn't make me hate them, or run them down...

 

[Callum]

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I personally find it creepy, especially the "when they turn 18" comments. What about when they turn 18? If you already find the kid attractive now...