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for young guys who like older men....
Quite refreshing to read these responses. Why cant I find young guys like this in the Virginia Beach area??:confused:
 
ive loved older men since i was 18
im 44 now and love my age and up ..
my avatar is me ..cheer men
 
NineOfClubs said:
I recently joined a site that's all about younger guys meeting older guys and vice versa.

Anyway, it's refreshing to be there.

Because at least I know that when I'm there no one is seeing my age and saying "yuck".

For what ever reason, if you can appreciate me, at this age, then I applaud you. :D
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what is the name or link of the site ?
 
I like older men because they are more mature, looks and body wise also, also because the first guy I slept with was about 30 years older then myself. First time I noticed that I was into men was Tom Skeritt in Poison Ivy.. I just like a hot older man to get on top of me and show me who is boss :).
 
Storybook_Man said:
I like older men because they are more mature, looks and body wise also, also because the first guy I slept with was about 30 years older then myself. First time I noticed that I was into men was Tom Skeritt in Poison Ivy.. I just like a hot older man to get on top of me and show me who is boss :).
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Yeah that movie is pretty hot. Also Kevin Spacey in American Beauty got me pretty hard when I was younger.
 
Ever since i was a young boy i liked older men (50+). Did not know i was diverend at that time.My dad died when i was a late teenager,that made my feelings to older guys stronger i believe.
I'm not attracted to young boys at all.
 
im 18 and my boy friend is 63. the only problem with the age difference is that we cant be together forever
 
I've been fantasizing about older men since I was 10. I walked in on my dads friend changing in my dads bedroom and didn't know why but I really wanted to stay and look at him. 6 years later I gave my first blow job to him and when I turned 18, I said goodbye to my virginity. He's about 35 years older than me and we still hook up on occasion.
 
I am quite surprised at how many young guys find me attractive at my age, given the fact that when I was their age NO one seemed to be interested in me! :) When I was 20, I could not find 20 year olds interested in me. Now, I have 18 and 20 year olds posting comments on my gallery pics here on JUB! It's quite nice for us "older folks".....;)
 
I have a feeling Nine of Clubs is referring to "Silverdaddies". :P

Opposite to the OP's it could be that because neither fathers were really there for me that I did not have a male role model to look up to or any role model in that sort. So with that being said when I see honorable men or EXTREMELY friendly guys who might be a little older, bigger, or hairier, there might have been a desire to seek that type of person as someone to look up to or learn more about.

And with always dealing with liars, flakes, and people who use and hurt you. Unfortunately that's always associated with my age group and I've never fit in at school or really been accepted. Well not until these last two years.

So seeing an older man who is kind, warm, loving, soft, and HAIRY! is a turn on. It's also comfort and safety. It's someone who I can trust and love. I know some older guys don't see us younger guys as nothing more than sex objects or think "Eww a young guy" and that's okay for them to think that way. Doesn't bother me in the least bit. But whether it's because I'm still learning, growing, and developing that I like older guys (especially bears) or it's just the way I am doesn't matter.

I like what I like. And even if I grow up to be a perverted old bastard and like younger guys (THAT ARE LEGAL) for whatever reason that's alright with me. Although if anything it will probably be attracted to younger guys because of their situation, needing guidance, help, or love. And than me remembering how I used to be like that and how much love and warmth helped me and their need for it being an attraction.

About the death thing. While god knows what's gonna happen the next day. Cause it is possible for the younger to go before the partner. If by natural occurrences than it's obvious the older dies.

When I first started to truly love my Master and Brother. I cried at the thought of them dying one day and losing them. There are so many memories and good experiences with them. It is worth the pain and loss that I'll have to face one day. Because of all the love and warmth that's gained. We all know it will happen one day and we don't think "This is gonna be the last day" we just try our bests to enjoy and deal with life. I don't know how the hell it happened but for some odd reason I am stuck with those two until they die or I die. And I feel that that's how it should be. And because of that feeling I'll be able to accept their deaths one day.

But yes it's not a fun thing to think about :(
 
The_Pianist said:
I know a man who at 20 years of age, met his partner who was 51 at the time. The older partner died a year and a half ago, leaving this man devasted. He's never been without someone, and feels that this man was his soulmate pretty much kiboshing any type of satisfying relationship that he may have afterwards for the next man will always be compared to the first and found wanting.
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Sigh. I've got an uncomfortable pre-emptive deja vu feeling about this scenario.
 
That's a pretty long time. I can see why the younger one was devastated and unsure of any relationship after that.

However, consider that everyone deals with death in their own ways and differently. Also some people do "cling" to a relationship and some people either get in relationships that don't make them strong and make them dependent. So if someone gets into that kind of relationship it's obvious that if the other dies than the dependant one will suffer the most.

However, with that being said it is also a great loss and understandable if the person doesn't date again or is nervous about getting into another relationship. But again I think it all depends on the relationship.

I know some people in Daddy/son relationships and some go well and others don't.
 
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