for young guys who like older men....

[loveemolder]

Im 20 years old now and ever since i started wanking, its always been about older men. I personally prefer men aged 40-65, and have a thing for grey/silver/dark hair.

I remember so well being at school and fantasizing about fucking the teacher and getting hard in lessons. Happened alot! I love men in suits. I was sent to a boarding school and had a major crush on my housemaster. He was this solidly built, Welsh ex-rugby player, dark hair all over his chest, i got to see it acouple of times and it sent me wild. I was so sexually frustrated, while i enjoyed school, it was actually a very depressing time of my life.

Guys my age do nothing for me at all. I agree with the others who said the attraction is something to do with a power/status thing, though to be honest i have no idea why i like the men i do.

 

[freefall]

Something there's no explanation why you like a type of person.

I like older people, but not just older. For unknown reasons, people above 50-an turns me on. Especially if they have a few (not a lot) wrinkles on the face and have grey streaks on the hair. Not that I don't like younger ones. Maybe it was the scent that they were more mature and more observable in the bed^^

 

[CJimfan]

I don't really know. Everything about them I guess. I get excited by their looks, when their hair is greying and they have a few wrinkles, I also get excited when they start having a belly. I also prefer them because of their experience in life and of course thei sexual experience as well.

You just said what I was thinking.

 

[Sensitive300]

Since 11 I was attracted to A LOT of older men.I didn't know why I was attracted to them.The oldest men I ever had a crush on was 45 and I was 12.The chest hair and their big dicks make them attractive to them.

 

[Greeny-boy]

I have always lusted over older guys. ALL my crushes when i was young were on my male teachers. I guess it may be a "Father figer thing" even now (at 52) i want older guys, i just love them.

 

[Beanstalk]

Any younger guys (18-25 or so) who want an older man of 62, intelligent, healthy, creative, and very friendly, please get in touch, because I really need a young man to love!

 

[Strephon]

.... what do you find attractive about men (a lot) older than you? just curious.....

I don't know. My guess is its mainly about money and social security.

Telstra, that's certainly not the message coming across from the many people who have posted here!

Thanks, guys for sharing. This is a very interesting thread.

 

[sexsomniac]

i don't know.
My guess is its mainly about money and social security.

You couldn't be more wrong than that. To speak for myself, it's like asking a gay guy why he likes man instead of woman. I just find them attractive that's all. Some may say maturity/drama free relationship those older offers. But that's not the case for every older man; some may be mature as they should be but some may not and act like a temperamental teenager. Some younger guys may be more mature than their age. If maturity is what they're looking for, all they need to do is find the right person.

 

[ssiktew]

I've never really assessed it before.

I just like older men, they dont have to be muscle-bound, infact i'd prefer a tiny bit of flab over muscle anyday
(but that's not to say i'm into chubs)

I was in a (straight) bar last night and there was a guy who had to be in his late 40's. I couldnt take my eyes off him. He wasn't conventionally good looking in the least, but he just had that slightly-out-of-shape shape that I adore and his face had that look of experience that i tend to become weak at the knees for... could thing i was already sitting down.

 

[tunatuan]

Experience, manly man appearance, strong hmmm I love older big guys...

 

[Dobson73]

As an older (51yo) gay guy, I've loved reading this thread.

I, in turn, loved older men when I was in my 20's but as I've got older, I've reached for younger guys. My current partner/friend is 32 and he's hot. I love the mix in ages and what we can bring to each other.

He makes me laugh, I make him think. And vice versa. It's good.

 

[pigeondetective]

I definitely go for older guys because of their looks, I don't know why, but that salt an pepper hair, hairy chest, and beard just works for me!

Go for Men between 35-50 usually ever since i first realised I liked men, it was my school teachers who i crushed on, and friends Dads.

George Clooney would be one of my ideal men, that kinda sophisticated mature look.

 

[Markbradley]

Perhaps it has to do with a mans relationship with his father?
I personally am attracted to older men, but do not have the best of relationships with my father. Ocassionally I am attracted with older men in a non-sexual sense but more a fatherly sense but never attracted to boys my own age or my friends.

 

[RainbowTom]

There's so much to love about them, far too much to list!

 

[WhiteKnightWolf]

I love the experience, I love the wisdom, I love the power and the seniority they have over me, I love the established masculinity and how they will use and abuse to get what they want, I also love how gentle they can be and how caring and passionate they are, I love feeling inferior compared to their body, and how they don't care and love me for being submissive.

Most of all, I love how safe I feel when they cuddle me. That feeling of being taken care of is an orgasm itself.

 

[thisisinteresting]

Perhaps it has to do with a mans relationship with his father?
I personally am attracted to older men, but do not have the best of relationships with my father. Ocassionally I am attracted with older men in a non-sexual sense but more a fatherly sense but never attracted to boys my own age or my friends.

Common thought, but I don't really think it's relevant. I have a wonderful relationship with my father yet I'm only attracted to older men. A lot of armchair psychologists will say it's because of that, that I am attracted to them. Then I tell the other ones that I have daddy issues and they are quick to say that's why I'm attracted to them.

It's all hogwash to me!

 

[rs1234]

I am 53 bring me your younger men I will train them fuck them and show them what a older man can do Father of five and one on the way. spread your legs and I will breed ya

Damn. You sound hot

 

[buddy1970]

I was at an orgy once when I stumbled on a handsome daddy lying on one of the beds, probably about 15 years older than me. I lied down next to him, and he held me and kissed me. He never got hard, but I told him I didn't care. I fondled his soft dick and caressed him. His kisses were tender and beautiful. That could have gone on all night.

That's why I love older men.

 

[NineOfClubs]

I recently joined a site that's all about younger guys meeting older guys and vice versa.

Anyway, it's refreshing to be there.

Because at least I know that when I'm there no one is seeing my age and saying "yuck".

For what ever reason, if you can appreciate me, at this age, then I applaud you.

 

[Columboy]

Any younger guys (18-25 or so) who want an older man of 62, intelligent, healthy, creative, and very friendly, please get in touch, because I really need a young man to love!

Ditto, except I am 48!