for young guys who like older men....

[Lostlover]

I don't go seeking older guys, but there are a lot of hot older guys. If you look in the gay community and the celebrity gossip forum on JUB, you'd think there are no hot guys over 30.

But there are! Come to my gym. Come see some of my professors. Watch TV .

To me what is alluring about some older guys is that they are established. They are not in school and they are making a living. I can appreciate that. How terrible is it trying to meet a guy that has to see when he goes to class and when he'll be done with an exam so you two can meet?

Have any of the younger guys that have posted here traveled overseas? Like in Europe? I have and man, the older men there are HOT! They keep themselves up and are in great shape.

 

[Letenant]

So many adult molesters in one place Was 30 before I started finding such. Whatever the 'motivation' for a guy's taste for older, doesn't have to make 'sense', does it?

Got my first BJ from the younger bro of my best buddy. He was NOT shy. "rob, you want a bj?"

Oddly, around the SF Bay here, i've found more luck with guys who like other young guys than any really open/out adult molesters. Maybe it's another 'coming out' process you have to go through?


Rob

 

[Timster]

I just like the feeling that i can surrender myself to someone who is more experienced in things and more experienced in life.. So I dont have to make my own decisions all the time.. So I can ask for advice in things, And because I like being arround normale acting people..

Im into 30-40 not really much older tho.. somethimes and somethimes not..

My ex was 31.. had him for 2 years

 

[MercuryRed96]

Hi - question - yes, I'm an older man and I'm looking for a younger man 20-45 to settle down with --- I look in my 40's actually - where can one go here to find someone who is looking for a home, heart, and security??? I love romance and hot sex! BTW - I live in East Tennessee (north of Chattanooga) and am a transplant from NY
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[billygorgeous]

1.older men are wiser
2. grey hair is very attractive
3. masculinity is more attractive than young and boyish fashion
4.overall, older men are truely manly

 

[daddychaser]

im being asked this question every time i meet a new daddy, almost every daddy would ask me: am i not too old for you!? and the answer is: 'im usually attracted to older men' then comes this question.

Not every older man is attractive i actually find few of them so, i find grey and white hair sexy and bearded men especially hot, a man who is well dressed(not necessarily suited) who looks as masculine and experienced as it could be, older men are usually ready for a relationship or even a friendship when the first choice doesnt work,,, unlike with young guys i feel with older men that am all attractive not only my dick is!
Older men i meet have normally good taste educated and appreciate life

Phisically they are so masculine with body hair a nice belly and most of the time nice dicks and in bed your pleasure pleases them as well as their own

At the end i wanna point out that many of daddies whos pix look so great and profiles are perfect and mature (since i usually use online gay communities to meet men), behave in natura so childish and/or fiminine and thats a huge turn off, i find!

 

[Letterbomb]

1.older men are wiser

2. grey hair is very attractive
I don't care about hair that much, if he's hot, his hair is hot, and if he's ugly, his hair is ugly too!

3. masculinity is more attractive than young and boyish fashion
Yeah! But I am hot AND young!

4.overall, older men are truely manly
Sure. And straight guys are manlier Pride & Prejudice?

EDIT: For the main question, which I just read, Yeah. My cherry got popped 8 years ago, with a 31 year old guy (who didn't look THAT old either). So do the maths.

 

[Vindaloo88]

The first time I felt an attraction was to a man in his sixties, I was 12 or 13. I've never found women attractive or men my own age, I always thought if it wasn't for older men i'd have never have felt an attraction to anyone.

I don't really know why, I like the person who said they feel safe with older men and I would agree. We're all human but the older the man the more patient, caring, mature. A big one for me is that they know themselves, they're the real deal and mostly genuine (not always of course)

I say I don't really know, because before I cared so much about personality and friendship, it was purely how hot they were. The grey hair, the belly, the way they presented themselves and spoke, the air of gentleness, the facial character (wrinkles). Everything was so damn sexy about them. I remember being a small child about 7 and being this older man standing in front of me without his shirt on, several grey hair on his chest, the nipples, I was captivated.

One thing as a young kid I remember is it was always the older gent who smiled and gave a wink. Always the older gent who gave me time and seemed interested enough to chat and put a smile on my face. While most other adults were very serious and wrapped up in their own lives, and fairly negative people. Older men were to me peaceful and loving. I remember being with my grandfather more than my parents, he always took the time to play football or snooker etc. I don't know it's a small thing but made a big impact on me, it seemed to me that he cared, so maybe that was carried with me later on in life.

It doesn't matter to me why. I'm 31 now and attracted to guys in their late sixties, mostly seventies and onward. It does make life hard, being gay with straight people is one thing but being gay and having an exclusive attraction to older men is another, even in the gay community. As a rule I don't look for friends and rarely make them or keep them, after a while I get to a point where I can't be close to them and keep lying about who I am.

Oh and I reckon one of the greatest things about older men, is not just the conversation, but the way in which silence is often worth more.

 

[jasmar]

I was never attracted to a young person or someone around my age. Its been always older men with facial hair. But now ( early 20s) I like my man with or without facial hair. I am attracted gorgeous men (who are in their 29 – late 40s.) who take care of their body and look healthy and hot .

 

[jimbill]

It does make life hard, being gay with straight people is one thing but being gay and having an exclusive attraction to older men is another, even in the gay community. As a rule I don't look for friends and rarely make them or keep them, after a while I get to a point where I can't be close to them and keep lying about who I am.

Could really relate to this post. I didn't have a hard time making friends when I was younger, but definitely had a hard time keeping them. I felt like an outsider and felt like I had to keep any part of my true self from them because I was different. I didn't reach out or stay in touch afterwards. Of course, I stayed in the closet while I was in the Army.

I remember always liking older men. Never had a crush on a girl or even a boy my own age. I rember telling a neighbor girl in 2nd or 3rd Grade that I thought this dad in town was good looking as we walked by his house. She yelled out to him, "Hey, he thinks you're cute." I ran down the alley.

When I left the service, I came out and eventually met my partner who is 28 years older. Then I told my family. Some had already figured out that I was gay, and everyone accepted me. The thing that surprised them the most is that I was with a much older man. Now they know him and love him, too. I am out to everyone at work and all the friends I cared to keep.

It's been liberating and I feel much better about everyone else who I thought would judge me.

My partner really helped me come out by gently pointing out that there was some low self-regard behind my staying in and not allowing me to blame everyone else for how I felt about who I was, when they didn't even know.

I couldn't stand the idea that people would talk about me, but I had to learn that people aren't obsessed with who or what I am. Hell, we all talk about people but that's just to feel better about ourselves because we all have inadequacies we don't want others to know about. Not that being gay is a personal fault or failure, but personally, I used to think it was.

Times have really changed in the last 10 years in the U.S. and I would urge anyone in the closet to set themselves free. Since I came out 8 years ago, I've never been happier. An I couldn't imagine not being with my partner because I was afraid to go against what is considered the social norm.

 

[OldOnion29]

Redzila, I'm a old man in my 50's and I'd love to be with a younger man. They're so innocent looking until they get right to the action. Oh, and they taste sooooo good.

 

[yalc10]

I'm 18 I prefer someone 30-42. I love their masculinity, muscles, deeper voice, manly smells, fully developed body bringing better ass, cock, and cum. Some guys around my age are also still in puberty which is a big turn off. I'm Bi and I want as much difference from a girl as possible in guys.

 

[Vindaloo88]

*Snip*

That's great you came out about your partner. I'd love to be more open with people I meet and hopefully i'll learn to do that in time. What happened when you came out and told people about your partner? Was there much of a backlash?

For me i'm out with my two sisters and my mother. The sisters don't care which is nice but my mother after ten years still hopes i'll come to my senses and refers to my partner as my 'friend' and i'm not allowed to bring it up in front of the other family members who are religious homophobes. No one knows that he's 43 years my senior though (31 and 74). I ended up moving interstate ten years ago and that has atleast kept me free from too many complications with family. I reckon one day i'll just say bugger it and tell them all while i'm visiting.

 

[sissy boy]

god i love older guys. i really dont know what it is about a older guys that makes me a little slut. it maybe the fact that they are older and more body hair. and the cocks. the bottom line i love older guys.

 

[jimbill]

That's great you came out about your partner. I'd love to be more open with people I meet and hopefully i'll learn to do that in time. What happened when you came out and told people about your partner? Was there much of a backlash?

No. My family just asked some questions, and were a little amazed that I would like someone older. We moved in together a few years ago and our new neighbors are all accepting and friends now.

Some people at my present job tease a little about the age, but they are kind of a crude bunch anyway.

 

[billygorgeous]

Redzila, I'm a old man in my 50's and I'd love to be with a younger man. They're so innocent looking until they get right to the action. Oh, and they taste sooooo good.

oldonion29, I'm searching for an older man in the Los Angeles area, you around here?

EDIT: look, here is a reason why older men are so attractive.
A picture describes it all. This man right here turned me gay by the time I was 15

 

[Tiger3334]

they tend to be hairier and more dominating than younger guys. that's why i like 'em.

 

[sapphyreseraph]

lol, read first page, and I'm gonna say what noone wanted to say yet.

I think part of me wants a dad, never really had one. But since I had an abusive childhood it's hard for me to separate love and sex. It's more like I see them as hot uncles.

I like to be held, enveloped, and such. And the other part is I like the thought of giving release to a man who's tired and worked all day and such. For me sex is more about them than about me.

For me it started at like around age 9ish, looking at older men like paternal figures and wishing I had that. Then when I went through puberty and was horny all the time, the feelings somehow mixed together.

 

[loveolder]

well this thread looks interesting.....i like older men coz they have hairy chest,beard and they know how to make u happy in bed....lol.

 

[billygorgeous]

Anyone around here somehow started getting attracted to a relative, or someone in the family. I do, it's sick, but when I am horny, its normal.
I have a fetish for arms on a man, especially hands, wrists, and forearms; strong ones, and calves. I have an uncle who has very muscular arms, and they are so smooth, his hands are so smooth and strong, very large ones, and manicured. But his forearms, ooooh, so toned and muscular. I don't mean to compare him to William Petersen, but his forearms almost look like William Petersen's structured forearms. William Petersen's arm are way too sexier though.
I also have an uncle who has really sexy strong calve. They are smooth, muscular, very toned and bulky. It's funny because he has a chubby torso, but very muscular calves. My two uncles just turn me on, I don't know why.