From walked all over to well respected and feared. [merged]

[bankside]

Re: How do I retaliate against betrayl, backstabbing, and hurtfulness from fake friends?

Needinghelp, I went back and reread every post you made in this thread to see if I missed anything.

I don't see one post you have made in this forum where you agree to try some advice and thank people for it, or at least just thanking people for trying their best to help even if you think their advice is not the best.

That counts as hurtfulness coming from you towards others, and that is your responsibility to manage and get over. I have no interest and no plans to retaliate against this behaviour, but I am going to call you on it.

It's rude, and more than anything any ten year old could have ever done to you when you were a kid, you are standing in the way of your own happiness and contentment in life. I hope you gain some insight from this, and start working with a psychologist to learn to manage your own interactions with people a lot better. It is true that sometimes people can be cruel and unfair, but you can also be unfair, and you can turn your back on friendly generosity. You need to take accountability for it and get support to do better in the way you treat those around you.

And that's about all I have to say to you until I see you thank people for trying.

 

[NeedingHelpASAP]

Re: How do i stop people from abusing me when i do successful things?

Correction I rised to position of manager because of my greatness and genius. The termination of illicit employees was a good action. Executing snakes, vapid-backstabbers, social climbers, groupies, fakers, posers, cocksuckers, and losers whose only goal in life is to start problems andbe combative with whomeever they don't perceive as their direct authority would be a good - SUPERB - move. All businesses want corrupt people eliminated, only the ones where the owners are also corrupt themselves love snakeish and similar in behavior underlings.

Isn't this a little hypocritical? One part of your OP that stood out to me.....

You became the manager at your place of employment, promising to help the business grow by helping implement the processes and procedures set forth by the owner.... and you proceeded to try and "get rid" of people who you had previous problems with. You were given the job to manage the business, and instead tried to manage your own personal agenda.

Is that not "dishonest, self-focused and vapid"???

 

[ShihTzuTylenol]

Re: How do i stop people from abusing me when i do successful things?

pffft, stop doing successful things! duh!?!

 

[HunterM]

Re: How do i stop people from abusing me when i do successful things?

Correction I rised to position of manager because of my greatness and genius. The termination of illicit employees was a good action. Executing snakes, vapid-backstabbers, social climbers, groupies, fakers, posers, cocksuckers, and losers whose only goal in life is to start problems andbe combative with whomeever they don't perceive as their direct authority would be a good - SUPERB - move. All businesses want corrupt people eliminated, only the ones where the owners are also corrupt themselves love snakeish and similar in behavior underlings.

Hmmm...based on what you wrote...does not sound like you are a pleasant person to be around.

pffft, stop doing successful things! duh!?!

^ Point well made!

 

[rareboy]

Re: How do i stop people from abusing me when i do successful things?

You are a dangerous person.

Please get help before you harm others.

 

[CowboyBob]

Re: How do i stop people from abusing me when i do successful things?

Correction I rised to position of manager because of my greatness and genius. The termination of illicit employees was a good action. Executing snakes, vapid-backstabbers, social climbers, groupies, fakers, posers, cocksuckers, and losers whose only goal in life is to start problems andbe combative with whomeever they don't perceive as their direct authority would be a good - SUPERB - move. All businesses want corrupt people eliminated, only the ones where the owners are also corrupt themselves love snakeish and similar in behavior underlings.

You rose to the position because of your "greatness and genius"...?

(BTW, it's rose, not rised, manager.)

And you are for termination of employees who are "snakes, vapid-backstabbers, social climbers, groupies, fakers, posers, cocksuckers, and losers", not because of poor job performance.

Now I understand why people don't like you. Do you? You're the one doing the abusing, not them.

 

[fetaby]

Re: How do i stop people from abusing me when i do successful things?

Nooooooooo!!!!1!


Don't fire the cocksuckers! We needz them.

 

[palbert]

Re: How do i stop people from abusing me when i do successful things?

You are a dangerous person.

Please get help before you harm others.

What he said. Doubled and redoubled.

Please.

 

[theFallenGod]

Re: How do i stop people from abusing me when i do successful things?

I am an evil, petty, vindictive, vile, hateful, contemptible, backstabbing, vicious bitch with delusions of grandeur, an inferiority complex, delusions of persecution and obvious signs of self hatred.

Why doesn't anyone respect or like me?

 

[NeedingHelpASAP]

Re: How do i stop people from abusing me when i do successful things?

Being all of the things i've mentioned will inevitably destroy, corrupt, tarnish, and disembowel a business. Bad eggs in an omelet with give you salmonella.

You rose to the position because of your "greatness and genius"...?

(BTW, it's rose, not rised, manager.)

And you are for termination of employees who are "snakes, vapid-backstabbers, social climbers, groupies, fakers, posers, cocksuckers, and losers", not because of poor job performance.

Now I understand why people don't like you. Do you? You're the one doing the abusing, not them.

 

[rareboy]

Re: How do i stop people from abusing me when i do successful things?

Have you searched out psychiatric help yet?

 

[HunterM]

Re: How do i stop people from abusing me when i do successful things?

Yes, get help!

"Help, I need somebody,
Help, not just anybody,
Help, you know I need someone, HELP."

 

[MoufOfKhaos]

Re: How do i stop people from abusing me when i do successful things?

We just need to ignore it; it's useless.

 

[NeedingHelpASAP]

I need help bad, i keep crying and don't know what to do.

I'm 23, african american, (i only date whites), unattractive and severely depressed.

I've been having problems with my self-esteem and psycological health for some time now. I keep reaching out for help but when i feel as if i'm being unheard it hurts me time and time again.

I've realized that some of my problems come from the way that people treat me. I'm a person who has never been given any rational amount of respect from day one of his life. I've never known what it's like to live a life without anxiety and to live a life without feeling like i have a constant black cloud hovering over me paining me.

I get really depressed when i think about how i get treated in general and especially in the gay community.

I've never had a boyfriend before and honestly i don't even want one...i'm a very sexual being....and honestly want a life-long/very long term bottom bitch boy to call my own, loyal to me, who's gorgeous... even if he's an escort.

I really don't care for a real relationship in terms of it not being extremely sexually oriented. I need that ass, and that passion and that slut bottom boy to feel happy. Those overly and overtly sexual acts of affection (me cumming in a guys mouth, fucking him in the ass, cumming on his face, cumming on his ass and etc.... are heart warming things to me....TO ME they are acts of love that he can show me.

Like he takes my cum in his mouth because he loves me sexually. I need to be taken care of sexually.

I've never had an attractive guy like me and it breaks my heart. I don't care if he's an escort because im not in love with him anyway....but even when "for pay" guys approach me and they seem like they dont want to be around me even for the money ...it breaks my heart and kills ethe experience for me....i hate it and it makes me cry daily.

I called a suicide prevention hotline the other day and was crying the woman to death on the phone....there was nothing she could do for me.

I'm someone who needs a massive haul of help, love, affection, sexual affection, and healing in the fastest, most effective and shortest way as possible as my emotional reserves have reached zero.

If the escort boys treated me nice i wouldnt have a problem renting them out weekly. I just hate when they look like they arent' interested in me or involved in me at all...it breaks my heart.

I could never fall in love with an ugly guy as sex, sexual attraction and having a perfect looking bottom boy matters to me that much.

But they never like me naturally because of the way i look.

I'm ugly and i'm CONVINCED that i've had a lower quality of life because of it.

People treat me with disregard, dismissal, disrespect, and hatred. I get glared at rudely for just being me and hate it.

How can an ugly guy like me get a loyal hot bottom boy guy to stick with me? Even with a little bit of money.

When i go to places where rentboys are they always go up to the older caucasian men and give them praise as opposed to flocking to a guy like me....to see if i have $$ for them. They never approach me and only show me the highest levels of disrespect and disdain. Even if they approach me it's only after they've blown off 50 gross older men and have to audacity to approach me after (gross and sloppy seconds...clearly not respecting me after doing tha tshit right in front of me and approaching me as if i would accept that disrespect and take thei sloppy seconds). After they approach me last they do it reluctantly as if it;s a burden and look down upon me when they should be still trying to get my attention for the $$ ( at this point i would never accept them after they gross display of disrespect and etc...) and they just dont seem to care at all and refuse to service me and approach me like they do the older sugar daddies even when i have money and though i want them for the exact same reasons and would sugar daddy them if they approached me first and like they did those gross men. After those experiences i violently order them to get away from me as i dont like sloppy seconds and disrespect. Blatantly passing me by numerous times to tend to other patrons and then coming up to me last and still short changing me by not even trying to flirt with me in the least is beyong disrespectful, disgusting and hurtful..

Help me? What can i do...i need advice from a sugar daddy on here on how to approach these boys and have them love me a 24yo ugly sugar daddy in his 20's as much as they love and blow the 80 man with hiv and unlimited pervertions. Help?

also no one mind the hiv comment...it was just an example of how the boys seem to give everything up to those men and still refuse to even look at me.

It makes me cry and want to kill myself. I hate being neglected and hurt in such an arrogant way and it maked me want to kill myself.

Help me.

I need older pimp men (literally) to help me manipulate and work these boys for my pleasure. I need to know how these older gross men do it and get them to sleep with them and whore from them at the drop of a dime....(the hottest most slut guy sucking off and being subservient to some gross 80 year old ugly guy.)

 

[NeedingHelpASAP]

How can i get escort boys to love me?

I'm 23, african american, (i only date whites), unattractive and severely depressed.

I've been having problems with my self-esteem and psycological health for some time now. I keep reaching out for help but when i feel as if i'm being unheard it hurts me time and time again.

I've realized that some of my problems come from the way that people treat me. I'm a person who has never been given any rational amount of respect from day one of his life. I've never known what it's like to live a life without anxiety and to live a life without feeling like i have a constant black cloud hovering over me paining me.

I get really depressed when i think about how i get treated in general and especially in the gay community.

I've never had a boyfriend before and honestly i don't even want one...i'm a very sexual being....and honestly want a life-long/very long term bottom bitch boy to call my own, loyal to me, who's gorgeous... even if he's an escort.

I really don't care for a real relationship in terms of it not being extremely sexually oriented. I need that ass, and that passion and that slut bottom boy to feel happy. Those overly and overtly sexual acts of affection (me cumming in a guys mouth, fucking him in the ass, cumming on his face, cumming on his ass and etc.... are heart warming things to me....TO ME they are acts of love that he can show me.

Like he takes my cum in his mouth because he loves me sexually. I need to be taken care of sexually.

I've never had an attractive guy like me and it breaks my heart. I don't care if he's an escort because im not in love with him anyway....but even when "for pay" guys approach me and they seem like they dont want to be around me even for the money ...it breaks my heart and kills ethe experience for me....i hate it and it makes me cry daily.

I called a suicide prevention hotline the other day and was crying the woman to death on the phone....there was nothing she could do for me.

I'm someone who needs a massive haul of help, love, affection, sexual affection, and healing in the fastest, most effective and shortest way as possible as my emotional reserves have reached zero.

If the escort boys treated me nice i wouldnt have a problem renting them out weekly. I just hate when they look like they arent' interested in me or involved in me at all...it breaks my heart.

I could never fall in love with an ugly guy as sex, sexual attraction and having a perfect looking bottom boy matters to me that much.

But they never like me naturally because of the way i look.

I'm ugly and i'm CONVINCED that i've had a lower quality of life because of it.

People treat me with disregard, dismissal, disrespect, and hatred. I get glared at rudely for just being me and hate it.

How can an ugly guy like me get a loyal hot bottom boy guy to stick with me? Even with a little bit of money.

When i go to places where rentboys are they always go up to the older caucasian men and give them praise as opposed to flocking to a guy like me....to see if i have $$ for them. They never approach me and only show me the highest levels of disrespect and disdain. Even if they approach me it's only after they've blown off 50 gross older men and have to audacity to approach me after (gross and sloppy seconds...clearly not respecting me after doing tha tshit right in front of me and approaching me as if i would accept that disrespect and take thei sloppy seconds). After they approach me last they do it reluctantly as if it;s a burden and look down upon me when they should be still trying to get my attention for the $$ ( at this point i would never accept them after they gross display of disrespect and etc...) and they just dont seem to care at all and refuse to service me and approach me like they do the older sugar daddies even when i have money and though i want them for the exact same reasons and would sugar daddy them if they approached me first and like they did those gross men. After those experiences i violently order them to get away from me as i dont like sloppy seconds and disrespect. Blatantly passing me by numerous times to tend to other patrons and then coming up to me last and still short changing me by not even trying to flirt with me in the least is beyong disrespectful, disgusting and hurtful..

Help me? What can i do...i need advice from a sugar daddy on here on how to approach these boys and have them love me a 24yo ugly sugar daddy in his 20's as much as they love and blow the 80 man with hiv and unlimited pervertions. Help?

also no one mind the hiv comment...it was just an example of how the boys seem to give everything up to those men and still refuse to even look at me.

It makes me cry and want to kill myself. I hate being neglected and hurt in such an arrogant way and it maked me want to kill myself.

Help me.

I need older pimp men (literally) to help me manipulate and work these boys for my pleasure. I need to know how these older gross men do it and get them to sleep with them and whore from them at the drop of a dime....(the hottest most slut guy sucking off and being subservient to some gross 80 year old ugly guy.)

 

[bw92116]

Re: I need help bad, i keep crying and don't know what to do.

Instead of spending money on rent boys, spend it on a good psychologist who understands these issues and can help you work through them. The answers are really within you, not outside of you, and a good, caring and competent psychologist can help you to discover those answers.

 

[bw92116]

Re: How can i get escort boys to love me?

This is the same post as your other thread. See my reply in that thread. But I'll just add here that escort boys are never going to love you; they are not in the business of loving you but providing a service for pay.

 

[MoufOfKhaos]

Re: I need help bad, i keep crying and don't know what to do.

I would suggest reading "The Boy Who Cried Wolf".

I'd suggest more things, but, you know, this is a game (based on your very long and irrational post that you felt the need to copy and paste twice, and then make a third thread asking for help on the experiences of those that hired escorts, I can already tell it's a clusterfuck of destruction you want) and i'm turning off the console.

Good night.

 

[NeedingHelpASAP]

Re: I need help bad, i keep crying and don't know what to do.

I would suggest reading "The Boy Who Cried Wolf".

I'd suggest more things, but, you know, this is a game (based on your very long post, I can already tell it's a clusterfuck of destruction you want) and i'm turning off the console.

I don't know what that means but thank you for not taking me seriously.

 

[refujiunderground]

Re: I need help bad, i keep crying and don't know what to do.

first off, call 9-1-1, get yourself to the mental ward because you sound like you need serious help. hope you don't take that the wrong way.

second off, lay off with the sex and looking for love because it's making you worse. you're trying to use the wrong thing to fill in that void that is missing in your life. sex with random strangers and even finding the right man in your life isn't going to change your situation.

third, get your ass to that phone, dial 9-1-1 and tell them it's an emergency. we cannot do that for you.