Re: g0y
Yeah, you're way off base here, Fallen.
I don't attack them for being "different". I have no qualms for anyone's specific piccadillos, sexual and otherwise.
I attack them for attacking me, and all other homosexuals that don't fall into THEIR little box.
Yes, there are many homosexuals that either don't or rarely take part in anal sex. I don't have any problem with that at all. What I have a problem with is anyone who would insist that they're somehow superior to those that do. I have a problem with those who claim that there's something "wrong" with us, and that we're trying to force them into being "just like us" completely against their will.
All the other groups you mention steer clear of this. Power tops, nelly bottoms, leather fetishists and all the rest. They may have their own subsection of the homosexual community, but none of them have a problem calling themselves "gay". They don't look at the other groups, or the community as a whole, and announce that they're something wrong with all of THEM. If they did, they'd get the same amount of scorn from me.
Calling them homophobic isn't just us tossing words around. They ARE homophobic. They blame all their problems squarely on people like you and me. It's just so fucking unfair that they can't live their lives the way they'd like, because the femmy faggy fairies have poisoned the minds of the world into thinking that "to be gay is to be flaming". And as such, they have to create their own little subset so people will know that "they're not like that" - they're "real" men!
Bullshit.
I'm pretty "masculine-acting". I fit very few of the gay stereotypes. But that doesn't matter - I like guys, therefore I'm gay. End of discussion. If someone out there is going to assume I dress up in women's clothes or like to stick things up my butt at all times because of this, that's their problem, not mine. I don't feel the need to announce that I'm attracted to men, but I'm not like "them". Because I AM like them. I may not mince or prance or whatever else, but I'm gay, just the same as they are. I don't feel the need to elevate myself above any other subset of the homosexual community, or push them away. I may not be like them, I may not even find them all that appealing, but I don't think I'm better than them, or think I need to tell the world that I'm not in that group. We're all in this together. And that INCLUDES the g0ys.
Lex