Gay Men Vs. Women:Whose most likely to date a Bisexual Man?

[Medusa]

Double Post.

I love scratching that itch that those women can't do and knowing a BI Guy needs that fix is very hot.

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Well damn no wonder why there's so many bi men in relationships with gay men.Y'all some freaks.lol. But yeah you are right.As a woman there are certain things I will not do, or cannot do in the bedroom.Well at least until I meet the right man,that I am comfortable with.

 

[MoufOfKhaos]

I don't really care, since i'm not so judgmental about the fluidity of someone's sexuality - I find that gay men want to "change" a curious guy or straight guy, but when he's honest about liking both, he's treated like he's only good for a good time. In short, people suck.

In this instance, you're right - women are more likely to seriously date a bi man. Judging by the responses, they're the only ones willing to give the person a shot, not just the sexual preference.

 

[SLOPPYSECONDS]

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[MoufOfKhaos]

^Wait. What the fuck?

 

[Medusa]

Answering this question on behalf of black people, I can say without any uncertainty...Gay Men.

Hey,are we the only two black people here? I did think it's weird that reading responses, until you reminded me that majority of this forum may be white.And you are absolutely correct.Black women will not date a bisexual man.

 

[Medusa]

Me and MoufOfKaos are all up in this thread. We're Black too.

I agree with Neo.

Well damn that makes four black people.Thanks for answering, maybe white women have a different mind set when it comes men,fucking, and sexuality

 

[weinerslav]

What I find hilarious in this situation is that every gay man with a broken heart will come forward with their stories about how an old love left them for a woman. I guess if he left them for another man, all that heartache would suddenly turn into rainbows and kittens.

LOL, good point, but I think most of the guys/girls that faced that situation feel they where played, that's why most of the time they demonize bi guys, the cause may be mostly the "closeted gay guy" syndrome, because bisexuality is not very well understand by many people.

 

[Laufey]

I actually think it's very common in the gay community that guys don't want to date bisexual men... just sleep with them.

 

[weinerslav]

• Most gay men and straight women are not into dating bisexual men.
  
• But out of the ones who are, gay black men and white straight women are the most open-minded.
  
• And black women can't stand the thought of dating a bisexual man.
  
• And many straight women will date a bisexual man if they are fat and desperate.
  
• And many gay men will only use bisexual men for sex only because they get off on him not being fully gay but don't think he'll commit to men.

If I had to give a definitive reply about this matter I would say all the above, all of them seem spot on to me.

 

[Medusa]

So, let me get my head around this...

• Most gay men and straight women are not into dating bisexual men.
  
• But out of the ones who are, gay black men and white straight women are the most open-minded.
  
• And black women can't stand the thought of dating a bisexual man.
  
• And many straight women will date a bisexual man if they are fat and desperate.
  
• And many gay men will only use bisexual men for sex only because they get off on him not being fully gay but don't think he'll commit to men.

GIIIRRRRRLLL. YOU ARE SILLY.Just reading your two posts had me laughing.But on a serious note.I do not understand why gay men get upset when, they have sex with a bisexual guy, or a man that's "straight", and that said guy does not want them, in any relationship at all. They go after straight men (well some of them) give the straight guy what he wants,try to convince the straight guy to be with him or change his sexual attraction to women,but then get pissed off when he doesn't.What type of sense does that make? Can any of you lovely gay men answer this for?

 

[umjreon88]

That's my exact reaction too!

 

[Scealle]

Was she desperate to have a man? Did she have low self esteem? I find out that one of the many reasons why a woman would a date bisexual man is because she does not think highly of herself, or have very low self esteem.They feel like as long as any man loves me,it's better than no man at all. Is your friend fat?

Well yeah she is kinda desperate to a certain extent. Yeah I'd say her self confidence and esteem seems a bit low. You get the next part quite right. I don't think she's fat ( I have take pics with her in the show yourself thread you can look it up to see that) but she always complain to us that she's fat and not pretty. In fact i think she's one of the pretty girls in her class. It's also odd that she mention there are a few guys (str8) that are interested in her previously. Yet somehow she ended up with the guy that I used to had a fling with. Small world ain't it.

 

[Medusa]

LOL, good point, but I think most of the guys/girls that faced that situation feel they where played, that's why most of the time they demonize bi guys, the cause may be mostly the "closeted gay guy" syndrome, because bisexuality is not very well understand by many people.

Also keep in mind that,some of these people know from the get go what they are dealing with.So why would they do they think they can change them with sex?People cannot fault all bisexual guys, when some gay guys are just as much at fault here.Why force someone to be with you?

 

[Medusa]

Well yeah she is kinda desperate to a certain extent. Yeah I'd say her self confidence and esteem seems a bit low. You get the next part quite right. I don't think she's fat ( I have take pics with her in the show yourself thread you can look it up to see that) but she always complain to us that she's fat and not pretty. In fact i think she's one of the pretty girls in her class. It's also odd that she mention there are a few guys (str8) that are interested in her previously. Yet somehow she ended up with the guy that I used to had a fling with. Small world ain't it.

Awww poor baby.I knew she had type of self love issues, when you mention her.And also tell her how you feel.Tell her it's not right,that she's banging your ex boyfriend or fuck buddy or whoever he was to you.And tell her she's beautiful, and that you LOVE her.Maybe then that will make her feel better.

 

[Scealle]

Awww poor baby.I knew she had type of self love issues, when you mention her.And also tell her how you feel.Tell her it's not right,that she's banging your ex boyfriend or fuck buddy or whoever he was to you.And tell her she's beautiful, and that you LOVE her.Maybe then that will make her feel better.

Yeah. Oddly enough most of my female friends had self love issues even though most of them are pretty. We Have already clarify the situation with her about it, she's ok with it now. Funny how the first time her bi bf mentioned me to her, he told her I was a freak and the one who initiated the whole "encounter" when in fact he was the one who started non stop groping me for a few weeks. And when I actually start having feelings for him, he chickened out.

 

[MoufOfKhaos]

So, let me get my head around this...

• Most gay men and straight women are not into dating bisexual men.
  
• But out of the ones who are, gay black men and white straight women are the most open-minded.
  
• And black women can't stand the thought of dating a bisexual man.
  
• And many straight women will date a bisexual man if they are fat and desperate.
  
• And many gay men will only use bisexual men for sex only because they get off on him not being fully gay but don't think he'll commit to men.

I'm just waiting for the Hispanic and Asian opinion on the matter, guys and girls.

And where is Sultan? I'd love to know if a man of middle eastern descent who has come out as bi would be more willing to be with a man or a woman.

 

[Medusa]

I'm just waiting for the Hispanic and Asian opinion on the matter, guys and girls.

And where is Sultan? I'd love to know if a man of middle eastern descent who has come out as bi would be more willing to be with a man or a woman.

Don't most of kind of prefer men anyways? Serious question here. Plus I thought men having an attraction to men in the Middle East was frowned upon.

 

[MoufOfKhaos]

Spider Man. Get in here.

I... I just don't know anymore. All I know is I'm no longer horny, and you know, maybe I should ask YOU if you'll date a bi man.

I mean, if Mary Jane will let you and all.

 

[Medusa]

I get the sense some people are trying to clown in a round about way. Human beings can be really complex in the way they view others...and sexual orientation further complicates matters. Don't shoot the messenger, I'm just telling you guys what I've seen/witnessed, heard, and read. Sorry if it seems as if I'm pigeonholing a group, but the truth is the truth.

Thank You.It does seem like people are trying to clown,but you are speaking nothing but the truth, my fine sir.

 

[maxpowr9]

Having experienced this first hand, I would say sexually, bisexual men would prefer a guy. In a relationship, I would say a woman. I say that on the basis that my first love was a bi guy who went off with a woman and married her and had kids. I dunno if he went back in the closet with his sexuality but it's sort of the reason why I have basically shunned bi men.

Each person is different so you have to take it on a case-by-case basis.