For me it's not about butching him up or displaying his flamboyance or anything like that. I just hate how acidic he can be sometimes and I get generally uncomfortable knowing Finn's never gonna take the bait yet Kurt continually goes there.
Since the show returned I've been getting more and more pissed at both him and Mercedes. They come across as so self serving (self involved high school students? never

). I would love for Kurt to realize Finn is never going to turn gay and for the two of them to develop an actual brotherly relationship.
I don't know though. Maybe it is just about Finn. If Kurt were to throw himself at Puck I wouldn't mind at all and I'd find it really entertaining. As far as Puck goes, when he isn't being a dick, he's really sweet and adorable.
And I've read some quotes about Kurt's future in Season 2 and I'm really happy about it.