Guys who need validation after sex.

[Alpha1851]

Have you tried being tender after sex?

I think a bedmate is much more likely to receive that tenderness (that's such a sweet way to put it) if it comes about subtly rather than a rapid Q&A session. After sex is tricky.

I would find that situation off putting as well, Kennylingus. If the guy expects a play-by-play of the action, then he should hook up w/ a friend who is prepared to critique it. It's pretty unrealistic for anyone to expect an honest answer anyway. wonder if anyone ever actually responds w/ "No, the sex sucked. You're a lousy lay"?

 

[lactosedept]

There's one called Razzbatazz that I think is raspberry, blueberry and strawberry. It's all natural and AH-mazing.

HAHAH it sounds good! Btw, the next beta fish I'm getting is sooo being named Razzbatazz!

 

[Kennylingus]

Isn't that just a fun word? One of those words that just scream for jazz hands.

 

[lactosedept]

Isn't that just a fun word? One of those words that just scream for jazz hands.

Hahah seriously! Where do you get your frozen yogurt?

 

[Kennylingus]

Hahah seriously! Where do you get your frozen yogurt?

Some from a local grocery, Giant. My ex's brother works at Freshens though so I get a lot of freebies too.

 

[lactosedept]

Take the mature road. It looks better on you.

"Ohhh yeah, real mature!"

[ame]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NwTsZHGQ6FE[/ame]

 

[lactosedept]

Some from a local grocery, Giant. My ex's brother works at Freshens though so I get a lot of freebies too.

Lucky!! I know a girl from highschool, her sister works at FroYo Love, but she'd never give me a freebie haha

 

[lactosedept]

Instigation central.

No, no, no...you have to watch it, cuz its funny!

 

[Kennylingus]

Do you do the "How is ________? I miss her so much!!" thing?

 

[Kennylingus]

No, no, no...you have to watch it, cuz its funny!

I thought it was hilarious.

"I made it for youuuu, because I love you."
"I HATE YOU!!"

 

[lactosedept]

Do you do the "How is ________? I miss her so much!!" thing?

Ohh, that could work! haha we were both on the Cross Country team! I'm gonna work on a script now...hahah

 

[lactosedept]

I thought it was hilarious.

"I made it for youuuu, because I love you."
"I HATE YOU!!"

Hahah I did that with my brother at work, only instead of Hot Kool Aid it was Cotton Candy and Mushrooms!

 

[Reality101]

So do other guys encounter this or what? Guys who need validation as the op suggests? I have never had someone drill me for feedback on how the sex was. I have been asked if i enjoyed it and if it was good for me etc but a simple yes and kiss ends the "interrogation" right there. I dunno, I don't get this really.

I can see how the op comes across like a whorish asshole, but I don't really care if this is true and I won't lay out why. I'll just say good luck with your next fucks and i hope for your sake that they don't come across as insecure, desperate, after sex detectives

 

[bankside]

I like a complete debriefing after sex. Preferably in a boardroom...flipcharts, maybe a PowerPoint... Some "best practices" and some "challenges for improvement" in a real good brainstorming session.

 

[Kennylingus]

Hahah I did that with my brother at work, only instead of Hot Kool Aid it was Cotton Candy and Mushrooms!

Haha
That's an intense collaboration. Did he end up eating it?

 

[Kennylingus]

I like a complete debriefing after sex. Preferably in a boardroom...flipcharts, maybe a PowerPoint... Some "best practices" and some "challenges for improvement" in a real good brainstorming session.

I do have one of those retractable pointer things. I use it for dramatic effect.

 

[lactosedept]

Haha
That's an intense collaboration. Did he end up eating it?

Nah, haha he gets these really weird and awkward laughing fits where he turns red and can barely breathe from laughing so hard...thats pretty much what happened hahahah