Yes, this is a good point, and I concede it- in direct measure to the degree to which other Americans can contain the gun nuts. If they're still setting the terms of the debate and turning the Second Amendment into the ideological equivalent of "LALALALLALALA I CAN'T HEAR YOU" in a way that still affords them political legitimacy, then I don't know what else to say. Immigrate? It's not too hard to come to Canada, and we have enough natural gas that winter won't matter for centuries. A glass of port by the fire is a great thing.
At least clearly a portion believes in the bullshit of "pistols at dawn" as though that somehow legitimised their whims. And that is a cancer to be excised.
Rights are intrinsic, indeed they are. In claiming my right of self defence, I call for general disarmament. My life, liberty and happiness are best served by overall disarmament, in my sovereign, self-owning judgment, with controlled exceptions for farm use and sport/skill shooting.
Your approach is every-man-and-his-gun-to-himself. It is true that my disarmament approach, if I impose it on you, may leave you undefended in a critical moment, and you could die at the hands of someone you would have otherwise been able to defend yourself against.
But your approach, to live in an every-man-and-his-gun-to-himself society, also imposes risks on me that I am equally unwilling to accept. You yourself purport to be a responsible gun owner, yet you've had guns stolen from you. Your approach leaves me at risk of being shot by a gun stolen from you; a risk I would not have had to face if the gun had never been manufactured, never left in a triple-locked box that was obviously not secure enough to prevent the theft, and then never trained on my innocent face when I'm sitting in my back yard enjoying the long days of summer with a beer and a barbecue. I don't have to be concerned about a gun being stolen from you again if you don't have it in the first place.
If I were a tyrant, I'd just have your guns confiscated so I can enjoy the back yard without thinking about it. But as a reasonable man, I'm willing to let the evidence decide. Everything I know about the prevalence of privately held guns shows me that those communities are more dangerous - in particular, to me, and in particular, by undermining my life, liberty and happiness. But if there is actually an empirical reason to believe I'd be safer under your approach to exercising the right to self defence, I will learn to shoot, and buy a gun, and sit nervously in my back yard, flipping burgers with one hand and keeping a wary eye on my neighbours with the other…waiting...like Bond in Scaramanga's basement. It sounds like a shitty way to spend the summer to be honest, glaring at the fence and waiting to see who pops over. But maybe it is safer than my disarmament approach. I don't believe you can meet that standard, but you're welcome to try.