Homosexuality - What the fuck?

[blackbeltninja]

^^What sort of accidents?

-d-

 

[ixthrock]

I've shat turds bigger than ANY cock I've taken up my ass. Does this make me lucky or unlucky? I'm burning to know what y'all's opinion is...

if you mean "accidents" like the creamy stain i get on the front of my shorts whenever someone tells me how disgusting I am - they only happen with you, baby.

 

[G-Lexington]

>>>I see that your current status is 'partnered'. Where did you find your current partner?

As it ends up, I met him playing online video games. This was back when the games were text-based, though. We had very similar sense of humor, and he was a bit stunned when I revealed that I was gay, because he said he was, too. We eventually graduated from "private messaging" during the game, to long phone calls. He sent me a photo, and I sent him a VHS of a TV show I appeared on (this was way before camming, and even before "having photos on your computer"). He finally visited me (a trip of 2000 miles), I visited him, and we finally decided - fuck it, let's move in together. It's been 13 years now.

Lex

 

[WillMc88]

But what is your definition of an 'anal orgasm'? I've heard these claims before, and they do not tend to correspond with the mental image that one would normally have with the concept of 'anal orgasm'.

An orgasm brought on or enhanced by anal stimulation. It's not that difficult to understand really.

And you, frankly, can't speak for "the mental image that one would normally have with the concept" for anything. What you meant is that it isn't the mental image that YOU have.

I don't know what you imagine an anal orgasm would be like, but do elaborate. If you have your own definition that doesn't coincide with what actually happens, then maybe you need a new definition.

 

[rareboy]

Only nine days into the new year.

Good job.

Actually pretty lame when you read through the OP's responses.

If the poster is for real...........I really feel sorry for anyone who must have to drag themselves through life with his perspective on the world.

If as I suspect from reading his responses, he is just a bored individual looking to ignite outrage...well.

We've had other trolls and sockpuppet avatars who've done much better in the past.

 

[Lord Booticus]

You say your a virgin that has distanced himself away from the gay community and yet you seem to consider yourself an expert in both gay sex and the gay community, instantly poopooing or arguing against people who have actually had the experiences and know what they're talking about.

Its like your trying to fight against the possibility that your prejudices and preconception of having sex with a guy are wrong, but why? Are you trying to justify your stance on gay sex? 'cause you don't seem to be at all willing to except what people are saying in this thread inregards to sex, which is slightly disconcerting.

 

[Bent-On]

Pretty much everything you posted. You haven't experienced gay sex but you've pretty much made your mind up on why you don't want to have it. That's ignorance.

Others brought up the point that 'gay sex' wasn't entirely predicated on anal sex, and that it could involve other activities as well. In addition, researching the subject and then deciding that you do not want to participate in such an activity isn't typically considered a decision based on 'ignorance'.

Then I don't have an easy explanation for your distorted views on sexuality.

It is funny how you can "reply" to one and a half page of posts without actually replying, and just adding questions. But it was to be expected.

The post in question was directed to more than ten different users. These are the limitations of forum interaction.

I could give you a list of all the gay organizations, sport clubs , business clubs, religious groups etc. in The Netherlands. But I assume you know how to use Google yourself. The truth is, with your mindset, I doubt the gay community has anything to offer for you right now.

Google brings you many results, useful search results however are an entirely different matter, and as such I would very much welcome such a list, especially with regards to the subject of gay-themed 'business clubs'.

Frankly I don't give a fuck. You don't have to have anything to do with the gay community as far as I'm concerned. I know I'm not particularly active. But if you think you are going to find what you say you are looking for, without putting yourself out there, you'd better be prepared for another 50 years of whining on gay message boards. Just remember to change your username every other few months, people will get annoyed otherwise.

Fomenting a discussion about a certain issue is never easy. And I believe this thread was in fact a form of 'putting oneself out there'. And to follow this up with yet another question: what kind of dating sites do/did you make use?

As it ends up, I met him playing online video games. This was back when the games were text-based, though. We had very similar sense of humor, and he was a bit stunned when I revealed that I was gay, because he said he was, too. We eventually graduated from "private messaging" during the game, to long phone calls. He sent me a photo, and I sent him a VHS of a TV show I appeared on (this was way before camming, and even before "having photos on your computer"). He finally visited me (a trip of 2000 miles), I visited him, and we finally decided - fuck it, let's move in together. It's been 13 years now.

I don't really have any social activities that would accord me the opportunity of a chance encounter, which is a shame. So I'm trying dating sites instead. haha

An orgasm brought on or enhanced by anal stimulation. It's not that difficult to understand really.

And you, frankly, can't speak for "the mental image that one would normally have with the concept" for anything. What you meant is that it isn't the mental image that YOU have.

I don't know what you imagine an anal orgasm would be like, but do elaborate. If you have your own definition that doesn't coincide with what actually happens, then maybe you need a new definition.

Well, I've seen a number of porn movies that had advertized 'anal orgasms', and I must tell you, I was sorely disappointed. Usually the actor in question has a limp dick, and the 'discharge' dribbles out, most likely the result of a damaged perineum. Even in xtube videos, 'anal orgasms' are pretty much nonexistent, and the guys genuinely look like they're not enjoying themselves. The general rule is: Penis goes in, and the erection (of the bottom) goes limp.

You say your a virgin that has distanced himself away from the gay community and yet you seem to consider yourself an expert in both gay sex and the gay community, instantly poopooing or arguing against people who have actually had the experiences and know what they're talking about.

By my count only a couple have really tried to address my concerns. And I've yet to hear another description of the experience in contrast to the anecdote that I gave about pumpkin innards.

Its like your trying to fight against the possibility that your prejudices and preconception of having sex with a guy are wrong, but why? Are you trying to justify your stance on gay sex? 'cause you don't seem to be at all willing to except what people are saying in this thread inregards to sex, which is slightly disconcerting.

I've stated that I'm open to a long-term relationship with another guy. Anal sex just doesn't appeal to me.

 

[G-Lexington]

>>>I don't really have any social activities that would accord me the opportunity of a chance encounter, which is a shame. So I'm trying dating sites instead. haha

Nothing wrong with dating sites, but if you don't have any other social outlets, this may prove problematic. It's best to "keep in practice" with social interaction, or else you may find it difficult to handle dating.

Lex

 

[Bent-On]

I interact with my family on a regular basis. I'm not entirely a lost cause.

 

[bankside]

I would not be well-disposed to an open relationship either. Where did you meet your guy?

We came together through a group of friends chatting online who knew each other in two different cities. We started out 300km apart. Our mutual friends introduced us, and then we spent a lot of time driving for a while.

I meant, what kind of relationship do you guys have? Is one of you more masculine than the other. (In the train of 'opposites attracts'.)

Ahh. No, I would say not. We are both at an ordinary level of masculinity. If you are a stereotypical north american "jock fratboy" who only watches sports, drinks cheap beer until passing out or throwing up on yourself, fails at academics, and makes continual attempts at picking up slutty women every weekend at sports bars with what can only be called "brave desperation," then you'd probably assume I'm feminine. In fact, I'm just a geek. The geek next door. But that sort of jock fratboy I mentioned assumes everyone unlike himself is a nelly screaming queen, not just gay men.

Does that make any sense? Anyway, most people have no reason to believe either of us stand out from other men because of our sexual orientation until they learn that we're together. And within the relationship, neither of us like roles. To me the whole point of homosexuality, and an advantage it has over heterosexuality, is that you can easily escape those roles. He and I like our masculinity together. I see no need for either of us to pretend otherwise, since we're not hetero to begin with.

And frankly even for hetero couples I think it is good when they can escape that rut. Let the woman drive the car once in a while. Let the man stay home with the kids for a bit until they are in school. Or let the woman be assertive in bed instead of just lying their waiting for him to come. I know hetero couples like that, and they seem happier together and more interesting to me.

But for gays, it is an automatic possibility to live that way, and it is one I enjoy. I know a lot of people adopt roles and they claim they are happy that way, but it seems both inauthentic and unappealing to me.

Why should gay parades, leather fetishes, clubbing, fisting and anal sex be mandatory parts of the 'gay experience'?

They are not. Either that or I am about to have my gay permit revoked by the Supreme Gay Council, because my boyfriend and I have not filed a report on our activities in some time.

Seriously, by the way, 'fisting'? I've seen the videos, and I've seen what it does to the anorectal region. You would need a diaper at age thirty.

Watch this video from about 1:15 for an example of normal everyday flexibility courtesy of Ulzibayar Chimed:
[ame]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e7EOz0fxGdw[/ame]


And now here is normal everyday gay sex, courtesy of Kirk J...if you dare:
http://www.xtube.com/watch.php?v=aAlS424308-

See? A freak is a freak. Don't assume that being a freak is the price of your happiness. But be good to the freaks along the way.

 

[Lord Booticus]

By my count only a couple have really tried to address my concerns. And I've yet to hear another description of the experience in contrast to the anecdote that I gave about pumpkin innards.

Thats because I don't think anyone posting in this thread has had sex with a pumpkin to be able to yay or nay that. Though it does bring up the question of what that actually means?

 

[bankside]

By my count only a couple have really tried to address my concerns. And I've yet to hear another description of the experience in contrast to the anecdote that I gave about pumpkin innards.

LOL. Dan Savage describes that kind of sensation in passing, while he talks about the pitfalls of masturbation.
http://www.youtube.com/user/dansavage#p/u/54/gi1JtsbaXhk
[ame]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gi1JtsbaXhk[/ame]

I've stated that I'm open to a long-term relationship with another guy. Anal sex just doesn't appeal to me.

Good. Sounds like you're set. Enjoy!

 

[iwantbig]

UNINFORMED , because you dont know what you are talking about and are making comments based on youtube porn , when you start with " whats with " that is clear that you dont know any thing about it , So YES fuck head - UNINFORMED.
FUCKED UP , because none of it was correct , check your replies fuck head , you are speaking with a multitude of people who have a vast experience in this field and you want to tell us how it is and argue with us .
Whats more when some one points out where you are wrong you would rather have an arguement to try and and justify you ignorant belief than take any thing in ( did you notice that fuck head ) have you conceded anything that has been put back to you ?
No you just want to remain in your opinion.
So once again fuck head , your reason for coming on this forum ? maybe i missed it while wading through the shit in your original post , oh maybe it was to show us that you are some litery genius and to start a debate .
So Yeah , UNINFORMED and FUCKED UP ,you dont have any experience and you want to tell us all about it .
Ive got a good idea for you , Have you ever driven or designed a formula one racing car ? well why don't you got to a Grand Prix and lob up to Frank Williams and tell him how to run his team , design a car for him and tell the drivers what they are doing wrong.
You didn't come here for advice , you came here to express an opinion, one that is completely wrong and to insult almost everyone here .
why don't you reread your original post FUCKHEAD

 

[iwantbig]

I'm wondering , did you look around this site before mouthing off ?
do you wonder why you get this response ?
have a check and see the mostly constructive nature of these forums .
Sure we get a few ignorant types and you just joined their ranks.

 

[iwantbig]

So the whole G-spot Prostate thing is a myth ( as far as you can tell ) , based on your vast experience ?
IGNORANCE and UNINFORMED
Fisting , you would need a diaper by the time you are Thirty ?more of your vast experience ?
YOU KNOW NOTHING and yet you come here to tell us all about it and you did .
You have walked in an announced that you are the most ignorant and uninformed opinionated fuckhead in the history of forum , I've never seen anything like you.

 

[iwantbig]

Oh I get it ,You are pretending to be SHELDON COOPER.

 

[headrushboy]

it's by having anal sex that gay men make love, well that's my point of view which many will be willing to debate. There are other ways to be intimate but that's one of the more "closer" ones.


once you get past the technical side of it, there's few things more enjoyable than being engaged in such an act.

don't knock it till you've tried it.

 

[iwantbig]

He's only 28 and he's probably never heard that ( don't knock it till you've tried it ) before but he knows all about it ( from somewhere ).
It's not like people didn't try and say constructive informed stuff to him early on but he continues to defend his ignorance.
I mean check the title of the thread .what the fuck?
Yeah thats how you introduce your self to the community .
I mean ,WHAT THE FUCK ?
is this the pattern of his life ? start an arguement on a topic that you know absolutly nothing about and rant endlessly even when you are in the company of vastly experienced people who have no agenda ?
Reaks of a reject from a debating society ( where people will argue a point that they don't believe and know is false but get off on trying to prove or convince others they are right to show the world they are smarter than everyone else, ( get extra points for using big words along the way ) ( that'l show em)

 

[iwantbig]

So hows the research going fuckhead do you actually know anything yet or are you still in fantasy land ? what are you doing now ? sitting back there in the shadows trying to think of a smart comment ? tell us some thing that you actually know , anything ?
What is your area of expertise ? with your vast 28 years SHELDON .
Still trying to come up with one for " if i could get it up for a woman i'd be in a relation ship now " ? yeah right !, what is that based on ? let me guess , there was once a woman that was impressed by your full of your self opinionated manner ( must have thought you were a real winner ) but your cock couldn't get hard (What was it ? stage fright ? ) was it reality biting ? ( oh no i'm in the real world and i actualy have to do something rather than just talk about it like i know all about it ) .
Yeah you had a come back for most but you avoided that one didn't you SHELDON ?
So you were attracted to the male form ( on TV not the real world ).
Yeah i read your reason for coming here , yeah right , you came here to get along ?
" rings doorbell ,walks in , gees you lot are disgusting , now who would like to have an argument with me because i know all about lots of things that i've never done .
Yeah i'm sure you will come back with some well chosen words for me but i dont care because i do know what i'm talking about and if you want to check my posts its all real , all real experience , oh and have you heard ? " THERE IS NO SUBSTITUTE FOR EXPERIENCE "
yeah i like the way you skip through replies to you comments and dissmiss with you arrogance truths from people who actually know what they are on about , so once again SHELDON , what do you really know about any thing ? ANYTHING ?give us your history , it just fucken amazes me that people ( like you ) are so fucken stupid as to stick their head into a situation and carry on like they are the expert when they know NOTHING , then decide to stick to their guns after being given the opportunity to back out , but really you just wanted an argument didn't you SHELDON ?
Do you get told to fuck off a lot ?

 

[WillMc88]

Well, I've seen a number of porn movies that had advertized 'anal orgasms', and I must tell you, I was sorely disappointed. Usually the actor in question has a limp dick, and the 'discharge' dribbles out, most likely the result of a damaged perineum. Even in xtube videos, 'anal orgasms' are pretty much nonexistent, and the guys genuinely look like they're not enjoying themselves. The general rule is: Penis goes in, and the erection (of the bottom) goes limp.

Seriously, you must be very naive if you think that porn is an accurate representation of actual sex between the rest of us. *rolls eyes*

Regardless, *I* have seen plenty of porn movies in which the bottom is thoroughly enjoying it, with a hard-on to boot. Not only that, but I have actual firsthand experience, a claim which you cannot make. You have no reasonable basis to continue making your claim.