Homosexuality - What the fuck?

[MarkDW]

well world large ans it a small ans lot read

when ya cum back posty up a bit be alls attention ta ya stuff

W H A T ? ? ? ? ? ?

 

[G-Lexington]

>>>I interact with my family on a regular basis. I'm not entirely a lost cause.

Not yet. But I think it would behoove you to open your social circle beyond your family. It's been my experience that those who don't tend to not do well in dating and other "new" social settings.

Lex

 

[iwantbig]

Well he's certainly fitting in here ( all the social skills of a cattle tick )

 

[Sha-Rok]

Socially, mentally and emotionally fucked...3 out of 4 is not bad...Zing!

 

[Sha-Rok]

W H A T ? ? ? ? ? ?

Sloppy Seconds:
well world large ans it a small ans lot read

when ya cum back posty up a bit be alls attention ta ya stuff

Translation:
Well, the world is large and small.
This is a lot to read. When you come back, post a shorter message and I will be attentive to your problem.

 

[iwantbig]

wow , that all makes sense now

 

[arpeggi]

It took me some time to grow out of this phase - moving past my fancy and admiration for the male physique, to actually seeing them having sex with one-and-other in downloaded gay porn. Make note, 'them', I never really had the urge to express myself sexually. Even in my sexual fantasies I never really used myself as one of the participants.

At least you accept that being a phase. Soon enough you'll consider yourself in a new phase, contradicting much of what you've posted here.

I too was 28 when I was finally willing to accept being gay, and that was little over a year ago. Once you start meeting guys or dating, your desires might change and the more intimate you get the more willing you might be to try things you never thought you would.
There's nothing wrong with being reluctant, but you're actually limiting yourself from what are very likely joyful experiences, making excuses for what is nothing but fear. You've come a long way, and you're still young.

I remember when I was still trying to convince myself I was straight, saying that anal sex was gross an unnatural and rimming is disgusting. Well, it turns out they're both very enjoyable experiences I have now done a number of times. Everything you may consider disgusting about these practices can be easily avoided.

Find someone you like and have some fun with as much as you're comfortable doing. They probably won't even ask you to fuck a pumpkin the first time, so don't worry about that just yet.

 

[tipmyscales86]

I think you need to stop filling up your head with science books, studies, or whatever you can get your hands on that says sex is bad. You're living your life inside your head, and you are getting lost in there.

Sure, you can get a disease from having sex. You can also wear a condom to lessen your chances of getting one. You can also get a disease from eating food in a restaurant. Does that mean you should never eat out?

 

[Bent-On]

Ahh. No, I would say not. We are both at an ordinary level of masculinity. If you are a stereotypical north american "jock fratboy" who only watches sports, drinks cheap beer until passing out or throwing up on yourself, fails at academics, and makes continual attempts at picking up slutty women every weekend at sports bars with what can only be called "brave desperation," then you'd probably assume I'm feminine. In fact, I'm just a geek. The geek next door. But that sort of jock fratboy I mentioned assumes everyone unlike himself is a nelly screaming queen, not just gay men.

Does that make any sense? Anyway, most people have no reason to believe either of us stand out from other men because of our sexual orientation until they learn that we're together. And within the relationship, neither of us like roles. To me the whole point of homosexuality, and an advantage it has over heterosexuality, is that you can easily escape those roles. He and I like our masculinity together. I see no need for either of us to pretend otherwise, since we're not hetero to begin with.

And frankly even for hetero couples I think it is good when they can escape that rut. Let the woman drive the car once in a while. Let the man stay home with the kids for a bit until they are in school. Or let the woman be assertive in bed instead of just lying their waiting for him to come. I know hetero couples like that, and they seem happier together and more interesting to me.

But for gays, it is an automatic possibility to live that way, and it is one I enjoy. I know a lot of people adopt roles and they claim they are happy that way, but it seems both inauthentic and unappealing to me.

That was an enjoyable read. So you two are just regular guys. Do you live in a gay friendly area? Or is that not an issue where you live?

They are not. Either that or I am about to have my gay permit revoked by the Supreme Gay Council, because my boyfriend and I have not filed a report on our activities in some time.

Yeah, I don't even know what he tried to prove with that comment of his. Fisting is just not done in my book. The anus looks like an impact crater afterwards. lol

And now here is normal everyday gay sex, courtesy of Kirk J...if you dare:


See? A freak is a freak. Don't assume that being a freak is the price of your happiness. But be good to the freaks along the way.

Isn't there a video where a guy shoves a bottle up his ass and then shatters it? I haven't seen it personally, but this does seem to have some eerie similarities. Yikes.

it's by having anal sex that gay men make love, well that's my point of view which many will be willing to debate. There are other ways to be intimate but that's one of the more "closer" ones.

once you get past the technical side of it, there's few things more enjoyable than being engaged in such an act.

don't knock it till you've tried it.

Well this site certainly isn't doing a good job at promoting the virtues of anal sex. Comments about passing gas during anal intercourse? I mean, come on. And the whole showering thing before rimming? Do these guys really think that showering is sufficient to cleanse the lower region? Stick your finger into your anus after you've done showering and tell me how it smells.

Seriously, you must be very naive if you think that porn is an accurate representation of actual sex between the rest of us. *rolls eyes*

Regardless, *I* have seen plenty of porn movies in which the bottom is thoroughly enjoying it, with a hard-on to boot. Not only that, but I have actual firsthand experience, a claim which you cannot make. You have no reasonable basis to continue making your claim.

Of course I understand the difference between real sex and porn fantasy. I did use a reference to xtube as well, didn't I? Those are mostly amateurs posting videos.

Not yet. But I think it would behoove you to open your social circle beyond your family. It's been my experience that those who don't tend to not do well in dating and other "new" social settings.

Lex

Yeah, I don't think I would be much of a dating partner. But I'm willing to try and learn. haha

Socially, mentally and emotionally fucked...3 out of 4 is not bad...Zing!

Sure whatever, but what is happening in that gif? Some sort of hip hop flashmob extravaganza?

 

[Shepherd 2]

Homosexual is not a work to describe or lable one person, it describes millions of people who have each one his own experience. So when people stereotype there are bound to be serious disagreements. This thread is informative, and it serves to remind us of the down side that some experience as homosexuals.

Shep+

 

[Bent-On]

I think you need to stop filling up your head with science books, studies, or whatever you can get your hands on that says sex is bad. You're living your life inside your head, and you are getting lost in there.

Sure, you can get a disease from having sex. You can also wear a condom to lessen your chances of getting one. You can also get a disease from eating food in a restaurant. Does that mean you should never eat out?

I didn't say sex was bad, just that certain sexual practices are unsavory and fraught with risk - risks that I'm unwilling to take at this juncture.

At least you accept that being a phase. Soon enough you'll consider yourself in a new phase, contradicting much of what you've posted here.

I too was 28 when I was finally willing to accept being gay, and that was little over a year ago. Once you start meeting guys or dating, your desires might change and the more intimate you get the more willing you might be to try things you never thought you would.
There's nothing wrong with being reluctant, but you're actually limiting yourself from what are very likely joyful experiences, making excuses for what is nothing but fear. You've come a long way, and you're still young.

I remember when I was still trying to convince myself I was straight, saying that anal sex was gross an unnatural and rimming is disgusting. Well, it turns out they're both very enjoyable experiences I have now done a number of times. Everything you may consider disgusting about these practices can be easily avoided.

Find someone you like and have some fun with as much as you're comfortable doing. They probably won't even ask you to fuck a pumpkin the first time, so don't worry about that just yet.

What eventually stirred you to take the jump into the unknown?

Homosexual is not a work to describe or lable one person, it describes millions of people who have each one his own experience. So when people stereotype there are bound to be serious disagreements. This thread is informative, and it serves to remind us of the down side that some experience as homosexuals.

Shep+

But what is the upside in your book? Where did you meet your partner? And what kind of relationship do you have together?

 

[ibill1]

I didn't say sex was bad, just that certain sexual practices are unsavory and fraught with risk - risks that I'm unwilling to take at this juncture.




What eventually stirred you to take the jump into the unknown?



But what is the upside in your book? Where did you meet your partner? And what kind of relationship do you have together?

This wasn't directed towards me but I am going to give my take anyway. I found everything an upside about being gay. I met the most wonderful handsome guy I had ever known when I was 17 and spent close to 35yrs. with him. They were the most magical and wonderful years a human being could ask for, gay or straight. I wouldn't change any of it, not even to be straight given the choice. I think if you get yourself out there and happen to fall in love your whole perspective will change. You just appear to be giving your rendition of being gay and gay sex. Believe me, if you fall head over heels in love with a guy, and he feels the same way, and treats you like you are the most important thing to him in the universe, you will see how wonderful it truly can be. Just saying and good luck.

 

[Sha-Rok]

Sure whatever, but what is happening in that gif? Some sort of hip hop flashmob extravaganza?

Its a Ball! The shit Madonna stole in the 80's, Vogue, Dramatics!

 

[G-Lexington]

>>>Yeah, I don't think I would be much of a dating partner. But I'm willing to try and learn. haha

Well, you might start by assuming that YOU're the one who needs to learn. There's nothing wrong with pleading ignorance, but it's another thing to state it as a position, which your first post did in rather bold type.

Lex

 

[rareboy]

I'm amazed that anyone is still posting in this thread.

 

[WillMc88]

Of course I understand the difference between real sex and porn fantasy. I did use a reference to xtube as well, didn't I? Those are mostly amateurs posting videos.

Yes and that is still for the purpose of other people to see. How about you respond to the rest of what I said?

 

[iwantbig]

^ didn't you read his post ? He's of the opinion that "his " mental image ( what ever that is ) is what " one " would " normally " ( taken from what statistics ? ) imagine as an anal orgasm ! Now bow to his vast experience and authorative tone or he'll talk down to you while carefully avoiding answering your question .

 

[SLOPPYSECONDS]

just remove title

ans put Person unsure of sexansLife or soemthin

best cum up with on da go

has good debatins OOH ya big JOE

 

[iwantbig]

I'm amazed that anyone is still posting in this thread.

can't help myself , this one has a chronic case of verbal diareaha ( spelling ) and he's worried that there is a risk of anal incontinence ( any thing involving anal will cause me to need a diaper by the time i'm 30 ) , well i'd rather have it running down my legs than over my chin constantly !
where does this shit ( out of his mouth ) come from?
Does anyone know of any actual cases of loss of control caused by having a well exercised asshole?
i'm sure it actually goes the other way ! i'can consciously control my asshole to relax or clamp at will , its a muscle , not a rubber band , just more ignorance .

 

[iwantbig]

just remove title

ans put Person unsure of sexansLife or soemthin

best cum up with on da go

has good debatins OOH ya big JOE

yeah , made a suggestion like that a while back but he wants to argue .