Homosexuals

[Daximus]

Since I know this guy is still trolling around and not logged in, I'll answer his question without reading all the drama he tried to stir up.

Simply put, I was born this way. I didn't choose to be gay, I just am. At first when I was younger and didn't understand a damn thing about this world, I used to hate it. I wanted to be just like every other Joe Shmoe out there. Now that I'm older and appreciate what nature gave me, I wouldn't change a damn thing. I love who I am and how I am. And no one, not even some 2 day banned troll can put the smallest dent in my attitude. I love myself and the way nature made me and there's not a god damn thing you can do about it.

Does that answer your question Mr. Banned??

 

[JB1986]

So, I just realized that the guy is banned. That was a waste of my time

I thought it was interesting, plus I learned some things that I didn't know. I like that big sexy brain of yours.

As for the original question, I really don't know why I'm gay. I tried to look up all the theories and whatnot, but at the end of the day, it just doesn't matter. I'm gay, and I love myself the way I am.

 

[G-Lexington]

Genetics, presumably. But I don't spend much time wondering why. I spend my time enjoying it.

Lex

 

[Curiosities]

Why?
My penis tells me so!
*Erects*

 

[fetaby]

I kill threads so I'll stab this one too.
Why am I gay? How did this happen? It doesn't matter! I've psychoanlyzed myself and my upbringing to the point of being two years old. (scared by the neighbors dog and my mum pushed my away, left me not trusting women with my safety) Could it be that since I have an older brother my mum's womb washed my brain into liking the cock? Dunno, don't care. Is it in my genes? I'd rather be in my man's jeans.

Long story short, you are what you are. Deal with it.
And I'm glad I stayed up extra late for this thread, very informative!

 

[relaxin13]

Genetic variation, presumably. Same reason there are gay animals all over the place.

 

[yeeeaaahhh]

I thought it was interesting, plus I learned some things that I didn't know. I like that big sexy brain of yours.

Haha well thank you very much

 

[frankfrank]

I would have been a TERRIBLE father, I think, if I had been trying to raise children.

I still feel my original reason for being hardwired to be 100% gay was to guarantee, as much as possible, that I wouldn't raise children.

Children or not, though, I feel fortunate that I happen to be gay.

 

[Kurn]

Early in the post-Stonewall years there was a distinction between 'homosexual' and 'gay'. A gay person discovered and embraced and lived out homophilia according to their own understandings. But 'homosexual' includes all people who have such a strong orientation, and therefore would include such famous 'l'm-not-a-homosexual-s' as the recent senator from Idaho, Larry Craig.
Gay - homosexual = (self-discovery + self-assertion)
Homosexual - Gay = more or less, a lotta people...

So I'm just saying this in case this question comes up again.
I think it's still a pretty good distinction. I like it.

 

[lennon]

I'm not. .

Don't worry, nobody's perfect.

 

[paulo999]

Sorry, I should have made this more clear: I'm curious as to why many of you think you are homosexual.

Simple - it's genetic - it's the way I always have been and always will be

 

[Shepherd 2]

I did not choose to be homosexual. It is how I am put together, like my baldness and my huge cock and big balls.

That said, I love it the way it is and I would not change one thing. So Thanks be to God, or something like that.

Shep+

 

[SirJude]

What a stupid question.
It's the way I was born.
Why are you an idiot?

MoltenRock, your answer was not only funny but also appropriate for a question of this nature.

 

[frankfrank]

I didn't think of it as a stupid question AT ALL.

Though the OP apparently got very huffy and antagonistic in some posts that I never saw, I still see his original question as an entirely valid one. I guess part of that interpretation, for me, is that I've always had a very analytical mind and his question is no different than the very same question I've asked myself.

Though the OP didn't behave in an exemplary manner in this thread, it also didn't help that so many jumped all over his case just for asking the question. I'm sure that at least half of us, probably far more, have asked ourselves the very same question at one time or another, and he only asked publicly rather than "internally." He may have been inclined to be confrontational, but it didn't help that he got so jumped-all-over-on. What I didn't see, due to posts already missing by the time I saw the thread, was whether his confrontations or all the dissing happened first, or in what context.

For those who take his question at face value, notably yeeeaaaaahhh and a couple others, I think there's some rather pertinent and valuable insight in this thread.

 

[JB1986]

Haha well thank you very much

You're perfectlly welcome, hon. I just love a guy with a big sexy brain.

 

[CudDULL]

I can truly say that I was born gay. I have no doubt about it.

 

[Kyanimal]

Just for general discussion ...

WHY am I Gay/Homosexual? Don't know! And, trust me, I've been gnawing at that bone for Years! (Still don't like the term "Homosexual"!)

Did what I was "expected" to! Had more than my "fair share" of "Luck" with the Ladies! But, "Dudes" were always my major interest! Studied Religion, Psychology, Biology, Sociology, Human Sexuality, Genetics, constantly looking for "Answers"! Didn't find any solid ones!

Did I ever "CHOOSE" to be Gay? Hell, no! But, do I regret that I am? Hell, no!

I've had the tremendous fortune to be able to travel, and experience many of the "Finer" things in Life! I've enjoyed some of the most phenomenal sea food dishes available on the Planet. But, I'm still more of a "Beef" kind of Guy! It's simply a personal Preference!! I Like, no, make that Love, DICK!!

There were times, being raised with just sisters, that I wished I had been born a Girl. They seemed to get all of the "breaks"! However, at NO time was I ever considered, by myself, or others, to be "Fem"! I'm ALL Guy! So much so that I don't wish anything else!! I'm Gay because I'm SO Male!! Does that make sense??

Don't get me wrong. I do Love, Adore, Respect, and Appreciate, Females. But, when it comes to getting Really CLOSE to someone, in all ways, I want a Guy by my side! (And, over, under, and In me!) It's simply the way I AM!!

Keep smilin'!!
Chaz ;-)

(I also HATE running over the Smilie Limit! *tantrum*!!)