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Wait.. you can just buy a Hummer?



ok, only buy a Hummer if you WANT a Hummer.

I love saying Hummer.
 
I think you're getting delerious. Check your blood sugar.
 
Soilwork said:
Wait.. you can just buy a Hummer?



ok, only buy a Hummer if you WANT a Hummer.

I love saying Hummer.
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It'll be just like that commercial where the one mom lets her kid cut another kid on the playground... and the "victimized" mother goes out and buys a Hummer to prove she can kick everyone's ass... you may be on to something here.
 
Many of us have BEEN in your shoes, and we're better people for it.

Look.. you just go in there and forget about it because I PROMISE the rest of the people in school will too... so long as you just shrug it off.

If you make it an issue, THEY will make it an issue.
 
I remember what how stressed I was with comming out to some people.

But you are right I aint in your shoes. Is my advice wrong though, shouldn't you try to relax? Never said it was easy, but giving advice is :p

Drink some water, and take a hot shower, you will feel better than, still worried, but better.
 
Get a nice long sleep. You made it today, you'll make it again tomorrow. I think buying a hummer for the purpose of people liking you is a ridiculous idea. That won't make them like you for you. People think it will work but buying stuff to look cool is only a temporary fix. Take a deep breath. You can do it. (while I may never have been in your shoes specifically, I definitely remember all too well days on end that I just didn't want to face... which is essentially the same thing you're going through. And I'm here to tell you, that period of time will pass at some point and you kind of have to tough it out until then and pretend).
 
By Friday, it'll just be your guy giving you the cold shoulder, and you deserve better anyway.
 
When things get back to normal, we hope you'll come to the toher forums and play games with us! And we're always here to listen and give advice.
 
You're a funny guy, its_just_me. :)

Well, you see, you've forgotten about all of the gay guys on campus who are craving you now. After all, they only have one prospect for a date. You. While you have all of them.

After things die down, I'd be surprised if someone didn't very confidentially look you up and come on to you. You're a good looking guy and they will notice that. Wait until they get a load of your personality. They'll be hooked!

Congratulations on toughing it out so far. And you did it without buying a single Hummer.

Hummer.

Hmmn. That is fun to say. :-)

Good luck tomorrow.
 
everybody has a different definition for normal, but yes, they'll get there. And we'll still reply then. I'm so happy for you that it isn't getting worse anymore. And the next time you post, it'll be about some boy you've found and we'll all say "remember when..... " :)
 
"Normal"?

I'll tell you a secret: it's NOW that things ARE normal!
When you weren't out, you were hiding something, and always worried someone would find out, right? Well, dude, living in fear or stress or whatever you feel like calling it like that isn't normal -- living openly and honestly and being yourself is normal! So things won't "go back to normal"... they'll just settle into true normal.


Buy a Hummer anyway. ..| Then take anyone for a ride who wants to! :D




... except That Guy. :twisted: :badgrin:
 
its_just_me said:
ok...in my college class there is this really HOT guy! but i dont know if he is gay :( How could i know without having to ask, and if i do have to ask... how should i ask it?
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Try this: Get a gay-studies book out of the library. Use it as a prop. Ask the guy if he's gay because you're curious.
I'm an advocate of forthrightness and getting to the point but there's something to be said for softening things with a touch of indirectness at times.
 
Boy, that was fast! Jockboy was right after all. Well, stranger things have happened. :)

So as things get back to normal, do you realize that you don't have to hide who you are anymore? You can walk proud and be yourself. That's what you've earned by going through all of that crap.

Keep us posted. Let us know how life is going as the year goes on. After all, we helped raise you! :)
 
Do you doubt the knowledge of Jockboy? I can't believe it.

Told you so. I've watched it happen too many times. It's predictable.

But I'm glad you made it through and everything is alright. Nothing fun for me today... working of getting this computer fixed and am quite unsuccessful so far.

Well, you're almost at the weekend again. And now you don't have to worry about it anymore.
 
What an incredibly beautiful outpouring of caring! Bless your hearts, all of you, you are such wonderful men and friends to its_just_me. "Goodness is as Goodness does", and you done Good!!!:D
 
Just remember to give everyone a ride but him!

And... to dedicate your hummer, I suggest finding a really cute guy to 69 with in the back.. and the front... and on the hood...

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Glad to hear it! We told you it'd turn out fine! Now, just move your kind self into "Hot Topics" and play with us there, too!
 
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