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How do you know?

I figure that if you can take 15,000 strangers knowing, it's probably cool to tell one family member.

Are you guys close?
 
That is normal distance, happens to any siblings when one moves out.

Do you think he will be fine with it?
 
up to you.

Telling my siblings had different outcomes... telling my sister meant her turning on me and outing me to my parents.

bitch.

Telling my two triplet brothers meant that our relationship was bunged up forever. We were never really "close" - they're close and were always kinda embarassed by me and the things I did - but it was even more strained after that.

My little brother grew up knowing, but when he told me he was gay, we became best friends.
 
Tithierrycham said:
This thread seems to have ran its course and should probably be closed off. If there is a question about telling your brother your gay maybe you could start a new thread.

New member long time observer :)
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Oh, we like Its_just_me. He's like our little brother. Kinda sassy but sweet. :)

Theres no right answer here, bro. Soilwork's post is proof of that. And he's still an advocate for coming out more often than not.

My own siblings, 3/6, did well with it. 2/6 didn't want to talk about it afterwards. The 1 remaining was me and I was overjoyed! ;)
 
Well, unfortunately we can't give a lot of advice here. I guess it depends on who your brother is and we don't really know him. Ultimately it's up to you. Do you want him to know? That's what you have to answer. Could go either way and be cool with it. My bro and I aren't that close but I'll probably tell him before the parents.
 
i should point out that I have never regretted for a moment telling any of them.

I had to be honest and live as who I was.. their reactions were theirs.
 
Yeah, I know what you mean.

You really want to tell him and be closer to him. But you're also afraid of his reaction.

Take a few days and feel the situation out better. You're putting an awful lot of pressure on yourself to accomplish this in a very short period of time, you know.

But I understand. He's here for 1 week and gone for 2 years. That sucks!
 
Well, if he's beat you up in the past that bad, I'd say he doesn't deserve to know. Just my opinion
 
I agree with jockboy -- if he has beat you up before, and the only thing that has kept him from REALLY banging you up has been being a minor, he doesn't deserve to know! He isn't much of a brother, at that rate; I wouldn't bother with him --
like my older brother, who had a gay best man (!), now says I've destroyed the family... some people just can't handle it in "their own", or something. If I'd guessed beforehand how he would react, I would have written him off. You have a good guess beforehand, dude. And if he ever thinks there's something he ought to know about you, I'd tell him, "I'd tell my brother, but all I have is this guy who lives around here and wants to beat me up for stuff."
 
I'm glad you've come to some decision. It sounds like a good one given your uncertainty over how your brother will react.

Oh, and we'll love and care about you in any thread you show up in, its_just_me.

That's 'cause you're just plain loveable. (*8*) :)
 
Congratulations!

Does he come from a good family? Does he have a job? What are his plans for the future?

Remember. We expect you to bring him home to meet us! :)
 
Riverrick you forgot to ask him the real question is the guy cute :twisted:

I am glad things are working out for you, its_just_me :)

Oh go ahead and start a new thread, we will all still be here, and if you want you can always save this link in your signature or someplace on your computer so it will always be there.
 
Yeah, you can't tell us you met a gay guy without details.... come on... spill it.
 
Check out some of the info in the Health and Wellbeing forum, and have fun ;)

Just relax and maybe do a little going on impulses while you are with him. Just have fun, you may never know what you get you two into :twisted:
 
its_just_me said:
More details...ok... ummmm he is 19, he has a job, he is an honor student, he is really hot!!! and... HE LIKES ME! Im so happy! Oh yeah I guess he comes from a good family, his dad is a lawyer, and his mom is a stay at home mom! any other questions? I am more than happy to anwser them! :)
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Of course he likes you. Haven't you been listening? WE LIKE YOU! And we have excellent taste. :rolleyes:

All right, his background check is great. How did you meet him?

Its really nice to see these happy posts from you.
 
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